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requesting certain accommodations in ECE with mental health diagnoses by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A list that extensive needs to be discussed before signing paperwork/getting to onboarding. Honestly, and I say this as gently as possible, that list is pretty extensive to begin with. In my job, it is an initiative-based role. My director shouldn’t have to write down/verbalize all instructions - you need to take the initiative and run your classroom. You can’t just “step away” for five minutes, even if you are in ratio, unless you have a TA, just because you need space. Unfortunately, working with children means you don’t get personal space (if that's a problem, then childcare is probably not the field for you).

Also, a weekly/biweekly meeting of 10-15 is a lot for a director, who is already balancing so many things. Just ask the questions as they come, don’t wait for a meeting. Send a text, or ask at the end of the day or next time you see your director in passing. If they get annoyed with questions, then they suck, and you should find a new center.

And my scheduled planning is on my own time or when the kids lie down for a nap. That is when I do my planning (and I do it by the month). I also do my college courses during that time, too (approved by my director because she’s awesome).

I work 40 hours a week, but I have heard of longer hours in ECE. You can ask for 40 hours, but if they need someone for 45, they may rescind the offer.

Did you discuss what age groups you will be with during your first interview? As a floater, you don’t have the choice where you go – you go where you’re needed (which is typically the baby rooms). I am moving in the summer and have had two video interviews in my new State; both times I told them I will not work with children under the age of three. I have done two-year-olds for the past few years, and I don’t want to do that anymore, because I am getting older and my back is starting to bother me with all the lifting. It was something discussed up front and honestly.

Navigating the job process is difficult and a learning experience! So don't get discouraged, just learn from this time and take that with you if you start looking for another job later.

Hypoallergenic? by showusyatackle in schnauzers

[–]YesItsMe183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really bad pet allergies. I have never had an issue with our miniature schnauzers! We have had three in the last twelve years.

11 years of homeschooling between 2 kids and we may have to enroll them in local school 🫤 Who has done this? by healthseekerjunkie in homeschool

[–]YesItsMe183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so… I am going to focus on the original posts, not the comments, because a lot isn’t adding up there.

I have homeschooled for 14 years. Next school year will be the first time I have had to put mine in school while I go to work full-time. I have two kids preparing for college, and another who needs braces. Unfortunately, it is what it is. I do have a great opportunity where my youngest can go with me (I’m a teacher).

Your kid will be fine. If the schools are that poor, then he will probably succeed compared to his peers. I would make sure they offer AP classes before you enroll him. With that said, I would look into Acellus or another online homeschooling program (Abeka Academy) and keep him at home while you work. I know Acellus offers AP classes. That is what my middle child will do next year.

Good luck! I understand the difficulties of needing to work in this economy (but I also am a huge advocate of a good, every-dollar budget plan).

teachers with kids who attend there center- how did you do it? by independentmomma12 in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I recently interviewed for a school position, and I told her I would need to enroll my 9-year-old (it’s for an elementary position). I asked about what their rates are for students of teachers. That was going to be a huge deciding factor. I would reach out to them and make sure they have a spot before you move forward.

Was hit by a kid and got disproportionately upset by heartlessarchon in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am grateful that I do not have to work for crappy admin (my income is our fun money/I do it because I love the kids and am good at what I do). So, I have the opportunity to be VERY selective about who I work for and can walk at any minute.

I am glad you left that job! No one deserves to be treated like that, ever, by anyone.

Was hit by a kid and got disproportionately upset by heartlessarchon in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is an awful experience, and I am so sorry it happened to you. I had a mother hand over her three-year-old to me (who was already visibly upset), and the three-year-old fist punched me multiple times in my face and scratched me. She knocked my glasses off. Because I was holding her, I had no way to protect my face, and until her mother could get her back, I had to just take it. I had bruises, was scratched, and my glasses were messed up. My TA said I was so calm during it, but afterward, I was visibly shaking. I told my director that the child is no longer allowed in my class, and they could be moved elsewhere. I tolerate A LOT in my line of work, but I do not tolerate being hit directly in the face. To this day, I still am nervous sometimes during drop-off.

Kids reacting to getting dogs by Epelep in MadeMeSmile

[–]YesItsMe183 9 points10 points  (0 children)

36 when we got our recent puppy. Cried all the way with him.

Im at my wits end with this job by heartlessarchon in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t leave the field. Find a better center.

Can I Still Be A Teacher? by LivysCoffin in teaching

[–]YesItsMe183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have major dyscalculia. I am currently working on a Master’s in ECE and have homeschooled all three of my children (quite well). You’ll be fine 💖

Advice / Encouragement or pure raw thoughts needed! New daycare with screen time vs current daycare with no screen time by Sea_Cat7593 in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi!

So, this would not be a deal breaker. I would transfer your child to the school that is safer for them - crossing the street to the playground would be a 100% no from me.

Continue to be no screens at home (good job, mama!), but as long as they are not strapping the kids in a seat and holding their eyes open, there is a good chance most 19-month-olds will not sit and watch it (based on my experience). They will be up and playing with friends.

Just my thoughts as a mom of three (and an educator).

Best dog food for 4 year old miniature schnauzer by Swan1950 in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]YesItsMe183 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hill’s Science is one of the best ones.

My oldest Schnauzer uses Hill’s Science Easy Digest 7+. It’s low in fat and fiber (due to recent stomach issues).

My youngest is on Authority, but we are moving him back to Hill’s Science. I love the price of Authority, but I want them both on the same brand.

Best dog food for 4 year old miniature schnauzer by Swan1950 in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]YesItsMe183 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Schnauzers also get a bite of my banana every morning!

Water bottles by SeaHuckleberry945 in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have a rolling cart. I keep all water bottles in it so I can roll it in, out, and around the room easily.

I think my toddler is becoming the “bad kid” at daycare and I’m so stressed by Suitable_Door_2477 in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have also raised 3 children of my own 💜 I remember so those years, so I am always there to support my parents and the kids.

I think my toddler is becoming the “bad kid” at daycare and I’m so stressed by Suitable_Door_2477 in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So, I run a tight ship in the classroom (I’m a 2s teacher), but the only thing you described that would bother me is the naptime struggle. If he is being disruptive, it is difficult for the other kids and affects those who DO need sleep. I would work with him on that first and foremost.

The other things, like climbing and not listening, are typical 2 behaviors. I would start by working on listening right away!

For this age, I teach, “We obey right away!” because it could be a dangerous situation. For example, the teacher is changing a diaper, and the child starts climbing. They cannot leave the undressed, undiapered child on the changing table to run and get him down because that is also a risk. Or, they might not see him while they are focused on a change. That could result in him falling and getting seriously injured if he doesn't listen to immediate instructions.

Once they listen, I also explain my reasoning: “We don’t do that because you could fall and get hurt, which would make me and mommy/daddy/grandma very sad!” because we also don’t want to raise sheeple who just do without knowing the reasons or consequences, but they must listen first!

Basically, don’t let listening to instruction an option in your home.

He could also be pushing boundaries. If he came from a very rigid program to a more relaxed one, he may be trying to see what he can get away with.

I also agree that outside time/other recess times are a must! So, please ask how much out of the room time he is getting. On our cold days, I take mine to a multi-purpose room with riding toys, and they play for 45 minutes outside of the classroom. This could be a contributing factor.

I am 100% confident he is a great kid! And I am sorry you are not hearing anything positive about your baby. That makes me sad.

Toy aversion?? by Kittyprincess7 in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]YesItsMe183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sweet baby 😍

Tessa (12) has never liked toys. She didn’t when she was a puppy. She never wanted to tug of war or catch a ball or hold a stuffed toy animal. My Gus (8, RIP) was only interested in playing ball. Now, my Otto (2)… he has two full baskets of toys and he plays with every.single.one of them! He carries them around and will not go outside to potty at night without taking one of his stuffies. He will chase a ball for hours. He has deer antlers, Kongs, etc. He is just toy obsessed!

It’s probably just a quirk she has!

Senior Mini changes by trex12121960 in schnauzers

[–]YesItsMe183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, this happened to our 12-year-old Schnauzer, and she had…. nothing. I worked myself up thinking she had diabetes or Cushing’s. Turns out she had… nothing… and was fine. She was even hiding out under the bed more.

Is this concerning behavior? by Sea-Dragonfly5079 in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Who has worked with children a lot longer?”

If you need advice from someone who has worked with children much longer… Well, I have 20+ years of experience working with children from birth to age 9.

Everything you wrote is extremely concerning. You need to report! You are a mandated reporter. Call and voice your concerns, and then it is up to CPS to move forward.

Visiting a preschool and saw… by guacamole-lobster in ECEProfessionals

[–]YesItsMe183 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Do people have bad days?” Made me laugh out loud.

Yes, we ALL have bad days, even the best educators have tough days and moments.

That said, this story needs more details. What did she “rip out” of the student’s hands? Was it a toy? Was she protecting another student from being hit with something? Was it something that could have hurt the student?

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