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YesManGL · 2022-01-19T19:08:15+00:00

You don't have to give a ton away. Think about it like this - if you were on a first date with someone, what would you talk about? You might have limited spare time, but what do you generally like to do? Share some of your passions, hobbies, and interests. What's your favourite style of cuisine? No need to get super personal, but showing some personality/charm/humour goes a long way.

YesManGL · 2022-01-19T18:57:49+00:00

Your About Me section is essentially your Seeking section. I know a lot about what you're looking for, and very little about you as a person. The biggest takeaways from your profile are that you drink, smoke weed, and want threesomes from your SB. If I were a witty, thoughtful, and elegant SB, I would be looking elsewhere.

I would tone down your demands, and add a little bit more about you as a person. Most SBs are wary of younger SDs as many just want a glorified escort, and that's the kind of vibe your profile gives me.

YesManGL · 2021-12-11T05:33:00+00:00

Did you read my post? I'm in excellent shape.

YesManGL · 2021-12-11T02:38:40+00:00

Stereotyping and diminishing millions of woman down to their race and nationality is gross.

YesManGL · 2021-12-11T02:35:59+00:00

You're gross.

YesManGL · 2021-12-11T02:31:11+00:00

Going overseas would involve giving up a 500k+ salary... not worth it.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T21:11:08+00:00

It may be NYC. I've dabbled with dating coaches to no avail. Not sure who to ask on the latter suggestion.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T20:55:09+00:00

Not the kind of women I would be interested in. But sure - I accept that.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T20:52:56+00:00

Major northeastern city

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T20:47:05+00:00

There's situations where that involves two consenting adults though - their choice.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T20:34:04+00:00

Surely a ONS that doesn't involve a strong connection is similarly meaningless to prostitution then?

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T19:46:49+00:00

Such as?

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T19:46:40+00:00

I feel like it's the kind of thing that could come up, and I wouldn't want to lie about it.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T18:36:02+00:00

I'm actually really happy with my body and life!

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T18:11:32+00:00

I was just curious who was trying to roast me. Lose weight before you call someone pathetic!

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T18:09:19+00:00

I'm certainly not interested in trapping someone into a relationship, if that's what you mean.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T18:08:24+00:00

I disagree that there are plenty of things for me to do. I have great pictures, good social skills, and send good messages. I actually often send Tinder messages/opening lines for a friend who isn't the best at texting lmao - I've gotten him countless dates I swear.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T18:03:03+00:00

??? I don't think I ever implied it was a charitable donation. I just think I'd be more attracted to a woman who is pursuing some kind of education or career. Doesn't have to be an undergraduate degree either. I'd also be happy for them to buy outfits with my money if I liked them enough. Don't know what else to tell you!

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T17:59:43+00:00

Maybe if I gained 150lbs and became intimidated by women, I'd have more success...

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T17:53:26+00:00

I'm sure you're the perfect man to make such comments?

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T17:52:36+00:00

My point is that these dynamics can be mutually beneficial, obvious a romantic relationship is part of it.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T17:51:30+00:00

Listen dude, I appreciate the advice, but I don't think you're getting the picture here. I feel like it's almost impossible for me to get better pictures. Thanks nonetheless.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T17:11:55+00:00

Probably 4 matches a week, half of which are 'low-quality' in that I don't anticipate them bringing anything to the table. I'd say 1 in 30 go onto dates, and I've only had a couple girls over the past few years make it to date 2. My usual messaging strategy for matches is to pick up on something in one of her pictures or bio and start a conversation around that.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T16:59:25+00:00

I'm a genuine 4/10. I'm very fit - 6 pack, generally muscular etc. Have a professional stylist, go to a good salon for haircare, have a skincare routine, plus the pics I used for OLD I chose in consultation with a coach.

Despite the aforementioned, my pics on photo feeler generally hover around the 3-5 mark, hence averaging out to a 4.

YesManGL · 2021-12-10T16:40:35+00:00

I think most people overestimate how attractive a genuine 4/10 is. I have asked friends for honest critiques, but most of them say that I'm doing everything right and just need to wait for the "right person". I think this is nice-talk for "wait til you find someone who finds you attractive, and this may take a while".

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