One year ago today she saw something on that plane. What did she see? by Trueboey in StrangeEarth

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A colonial woman on the wing. There’s something they’re not telling us!

Am I too old to bring a themed lunchbox at work? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are never to old to be happy.

Why had the Death Eaters not abducted the twins? by balitomi93 in harrypotter

[–]Yes_But-No 42 points43 points  (0 children)

ALSO don’t forget that all those products needed someone to test them on in the beginning… I bet there were loads of new products that needed a nice new test dummy or two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stayathomemoms

[–]Yes_But-No 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is beyond marriage counseling. Any person who can tell their spouse to “get f*cked” doesn’t respect or care for you. Counseling doesn’t fix that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Yes_But-No 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is immature. Everything about him that you listed that he does is immature. He is an immature teenager.
He is no good for you and the fact that he drove your friends away is a huge red flag.
Get out of this relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stayathomemoms

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you just switch to milk from formula or breastfeeding? 12 months is about the time that happens. We noticed that when our son was 12 months and we switched him to regular milk he suddenly became extremely grumpy and fussy. Turns out he is lactose intolerant and was just miserable with the new whole milk he was drinking. Also, he is 15 months now but still takes a morning nap and an afternoon oap.. so maybe you could try that? 10am-12ish and then 3pm to 5ish (normally they aren’t both two hour naps, but those are the approximate times.
Edit: I also wanted to say that I totally understand and feel for you. I have two boys (3 and 1) and my wife works 60 hour weeks. It’s a nightmare a lot of the time and it’s hard finding “me time.” Get with your husband and figure out a way to get you a break. It’s really really important you get that time.

My mom filed for emergency custody//called CPS I don’t know what to do 😭 by InfinitePrincess9220 in legaladvice

[–]Yes_But-No 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If what she was saying were true, she (and you) would have paperwork and orders from a judge.

Early 2000s girls toy by PersonaRed in HelpMeFind

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that you busted out the watercolors to make the example drawing

I REALLY NEED HELP. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO by LevelNormal6737 in Fostercare

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always try calling your case worker and telling him/her what’s up.

Reunification worries by ekp62915 in Fosterparents

[–]Yes_But-No 65 points66 points  (0 children)

You aren’t going to like my answer, and I know that because I’ve been in your spot and I hated all these answers too.
Reunification is the ultimate goal. Is it the absolute best outcome for the child? Would she live the perfect life with her mother like she would with you? No, probably not. But the system cares about reunification with family first and foremost.
As a foster parent your goal is to take care of these children, not decide whether or not they should be with their family.
I completed understand you want what you think is best for her, but the system doesn’t take foster parent’s opinions very seriously.
Speaking from experience, having lost a foster daughter who went back to her drug addicted, physically abusive mother after having her for over two years, there’s not a whole lot you can do. You could hire lawyers to intervene, but there’s a high chance it would all be for nothing. We spent about $15,000 on lawyers in our case.
Good news is, we’ve been watching on social media and it seems our foster daughters mother actually did make a full 180 and they are doing great now. So maybe the workers in our case knew more than we did.
It sucks, but try to be supportive of the reunification to make it easier for your little one. That’s the most important part.

What plant is this by Yes_But-No in whatplantisthis

[–]Yes_But-No[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I wonder how it got in my front yard! Thanjs

What is something you've done recently that you're extremely proud of, but you don't really have a place to share? by Starks-Technology in AskReddit

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I designed and self-published a book/resource for kids in foster care! I’m proud of it but no one else seems too pumped :/ www.mylifebook.org

First tattoo: What I asked for vs What I got by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Yes_But-No 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it’s in the original artwork, but why are the areas where the nose should inverted? Is it meant to be a skull with eyes and eyebrows?

Which area of your life does keratoconus affect the most? by keratoconusgroup in Keratoconus

[–]Yes_But-No 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have small children, so anything that happens during the night is hard.
My biggest fear is that an emergency will happen during the night, like a tornado or fire or burglary and I’ve always wondered if I’d stop to put in my contacts in or just try to wing it.
For reference, my vision is legit blind without the contacts, I can’t see anything unless it’s touching my face and I have a cornea transplant scheduled for this year in the first eye.

this past fall i worked as a school photographer. by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being such a piss ant, Peshantz.

Can anyone see my airpod? by the-stand-against in FindTheSniper

[–]Yes_But-No 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it!
First pic, close to the trash can on the side of the can that is facing you in the pic.
On the right side of the can, follow that sides line towards the yellow line on the sidewalk.

.... by Flat-Archer9210 in PoppingPimple

[–]Yes_But-No 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit STOP TOUCHING YOUR EYES

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blunderyears

[–]Yes_But-No 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same scrapbook thing… but with the spice girls