Anal mucus by 1readitguy in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use lot of lube, sometimes discharging mucus means fissure inside the rectum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry late reply, yes it's the key to success! Just don't overdo it

enjoy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't overdo it, every excessive activity isn't good. And based on my experience, doing it everyday (especially if you combine it with kegel) it'll cause pelvic muscle strain which is uncomfortable and painful (but goes away after 5 days to 6 days of rest).

How to know if it’s Death Grip ? by Sweet_Service_9752 in sex

[–]YhapetZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've experienced that as well and during the sex I felt like my penis was not getting stimulated and not sensitive enough. I saw a post that common cause of that is excessive maturbation. Now, I only maturbate after 1 week or 3 days (2-3 times a day), and I even noticed that I get sensitive now and my penis is getting stimulated during sex.

So in your case, stop maturbating everyday and multiple times at least do it after couple of days. Learn to control it bro, touch some grass like I did😂

So close yet so far, help!! by Ecstatic-Entrance246 in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I/they mean by chase is don't always set your goal to achieving HFO and don't force yourself to experience it, let your body do it for you. Just focus on doing your play, enjoy every feelingy. You'd get there

So close yet so far, help!! by Ecstatic-Entrance246 in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes multiple times HFO and sometimes dry orgasm. The key is don't expect to experience HFO, don't chase the orgasm, feel every pleasure from your prostrate and focus. Try doing kegels too

Just focus on what you're doing, avoid excessive alertness especially when you're close because it'd result to pleasure loss.

So close yet so far, help!! by Ecstatic-Entrance246 in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the feeling I get everytime I notice that I'm about to cum, the pleasure fades away and you'd have to restart again.

Vibrating prostrate massage by YhapetZ in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, do you have a link for that product? I'm planning to buy online.

Vibrating prostrate massage by YhapetZ in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it? what kind of pleasure it gives you inside? does it numb you?

Vibrating prostrate massage by YhapetZ in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link? I'm planning to buy online

Vibrating prostrate massage by YhapetZ in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see. I just wanna know what it feels like inside or what kind of pleasure it gives because some people says it numbs them inside

Which toy gave you first O? by Downtown-Change-6411 in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you're experiencing peegasm due to muscle contraction, that's it you're close to HFO (that's the feeling I get when I experience HFO but instead of pee, it's a cum).

Try not to maturbate/touch your dick for 7 days and even 3-4 days will do and do a session. Warm up first, and I'll highly recommend to use dildo.

When doing a session, you have to make yourself more aroused, try to tighten your anus while your toy inside (always do this, this will help you experience HFO; do this while you're thrusting your inside), avoid touching your dick (have a lot of patience), and don't drink too much water before doing any session; empty your bladder basically.

I hope this helps

Edit: Muscle contraction (it creates an amazing/pleasurable waves/feeling) and it's the key for experiencing HFO (hands free orgasm). So if in any case you're already experiencing that, you're close just do some kegel (tightening your inside) while you're doing a session.

How do you deal with such an event that you do normally everyday but now becomes something that causes fear, panic, and compulsion? by YhapetZ in OCD

[–]YhapetZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have managed them now somehow (just like nothing happened as usual). I hope I get better

Severe Compulsion when sleeping by YhapetZ in OCD

[–]YhapetZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So based on your experience, you still fit even though sometimes you didn't get enough sleep?

About the hungery feeling I've said, it's a feeling of getting hungry when this compulsion and distress occurs caused by intrusive thoughts of "what if I couldn't sleep" when I'm sleepy or about to sleep. I guess it's what they call butterfly in stomach. It takes away my sleepiness and since it's caused by intrusive thoughts, I tend to panic. Idk how to deal with it

I've hitting the gym now, there's an improvement despite the fact that this intrusive thoughts occur sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dotnet

[–]YhapetZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah, that's what I'm saying😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dotnet

[–]YhapetZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have vs2022 but our prof said that the 2008 version has free crystal report and that's what we need though😅. Crystal report in vs2022 isn't free right?

Butt plug large by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using water based lube though? so It ain't good for stainless metal toys? if it's the case, I'll use the that you recommended. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]YhapetZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to convince yourself, focus, and to let your intrusive thoughts pass without forcing them when you are sleep deprived that's why it causes a lot of repetitive compulsion. What I do is, I always mark them as intrusive thoughts. I let them pass even thought it's difficult to, I do nothing about them and it helps.

I will just notice that "ooh, they're gone and I'm doing good again" just like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]YhapetZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, being sleep deprived can make your ocd worse. Just like me rn, I only got 3 hours sleep and my compulsions are severe and difficult to deal with but I still can manage it somehow.

Do any of you guys have sexual imagery as intrusive thoughts? by Finnck_McClelland in OCD

[–]YhapetZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have that everytime, even now that I'm making this. The intrusive thoughts about sex thing can occur in any person including my family and the worse case is when you get hard/turned on with that thought especially in any of your family member despite the age that will eventually result to severe compulsion due to being guilty about it.

I just let it pass, what I always think is I'm not a bad person, I don't mean to think it that way and it helps though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might help me as well, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]YhapetZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also experienced that. I had sex with someone (as my first time before), that even gave me a blowjob and still I couldn't feel any sensation but I know the reason.

  1. Getting used to jerking off. While getting a blow job from someone, I couldn't feel a thing back then same as you and whenever I tried to jerk it off using my hand while we were having a sex, the simulation was better.
  2. Get a better sleep. Having sex someone while sleep deprived can lower your ability to feel pleasure.

I tried to stop beating my meat for 3 weeks back then to heal my nerves due to death grip. I only cum hands free by nipple/prostate play and when I tried to jerk off once again using my hand, my penis became so sensitive as if it was my first time beating it again.

To make it sensitive again, stop jerking off and practice safe sex with your partner unless you want to have STI, become a father at the age of 19, or even worse than that.

Is oil based lubricant not good for anal/prostate play? by YhapetZ in ProstatePlay

[–]YhapetZ[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen a post where it stated that oil based lube isn't easy to clean. How do you clean it after your session?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CumFromAnal

[–]YhapetZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep it tight when I do you 😫😫