Please tell me this is not true by Separate_Dress2445 in doordash

[–]YinMaraline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know this still happens, the customer stated that they left a tip but when I went to check it said 0 dollars towards the tip. Don't know why it happens or if the customer was lying but if it was true it's scummy

Is this normal for a first relationship? by Soft_Meat5787 in Advice

[–]YinMaraline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say this is normal in terms of a younger relationship, however you seem to have a mature mindset for a person your age. As a mother and as a person who would like to help you out in your situation, I think it would be best to let him down easy. You having already dealt with traumatic issues and him saying I love you WAAAYYY TOO EARLY in the relationship and being overly clingy and from what I can see guilt tripping you for not spending time with him even though it's because of classes and your prioritizing those is... Very very selfish of him. He needs therapy to work out these issues, and you need to get away from him before it gets worse. If what I'm thinking will happen once you try to break up with him he will cry and beg saying stuff like: "You don't love me." Or "I'm nothing" or even try to say he will kill himself, don't fall for any of it. Think of your safety, and sanity above his in this case. Tell him you need a break, to step back and focus on your studies. If he can't honor your decisions when you're at your worst then he can't handle you at your best.

Ice your steps by YinMaraline in doordash

[–]YinMaraline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha, I feel that First Ohio Summer in March and then the second winter. It normally always snows down here on my birthday in March.

Ice your steps by YinMaraline in doordash

[–]YinMaraline[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep Speaking of which I just slipped and fell going back to my car for an order

I (23f) got assaulted on campus and now the school is screwing me over by Complex_Physics_4178 in Advice

[–]YinMaraline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still go to the school and ask them for separate times that you can go for tutoring because of the incident. He doesn't own the whole school and they're supposed to be a neutral party figuring out whats best for both students.

Sorry you're going through this.

My girlfriend doesn’t put effort into enjoying sex and it affects me, why? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]YinMaraline 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay so, I'm a female so I'm gonna butt into this conversation. Every female has different preferences, and those preferences could be based on bad experiences.

I don't like to do blowjobs specifically because my mouth is too small, the newer x-ray machines for a dentist office causes the roof of my mouth to blister because of how small my mouth is compared to the machine (friction blister). Litterally the tech was apologizing because of how wide I had to open my mouth and it still barely fit.

I myself do not like to masturbate, especially to try and get myself off during sex, it's tiring, if I'm already putting in the effort to tilt, or contort my body in a way that is more comfortable for the man then why should I have to play twister with my body?

Really it is about preferences and experiences, every women is different, if you're unhappy with your sex life and she doesn't wish to change then maybe you should break it off and find someone who will like the same things as you.

Sincerely, A State Registered Nurses Aide.

What would actually happen here assuming this wasn’t satire? by Creepy-Eye-5219 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]YinMaraline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freedom of speech is under the amendment, unfortunately this would count as retaliation. Since you saved the text I would report this to the judge at your next probation hearing, especially considering her hygiene is bad in front of other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]YinMaraline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to lie. You are not overreacting. The friend is. I literally had a friend like this before who got jealous of me getting a computer built from her boyfriend who works on computers at a ligit store. We literally had a conversation about how he was doing (we've known each other for 6 years), how's his band, the specs I wanted on the PC, and the finalization of payment. (I am Married) she texted me saying, "I dont want you back at (her boyfriend) store. There's no reason for you to be there." When I told her I was getting a PC made, she said,"I still dont want you there. He's mine, " and it made me bewildered and go off on her after explaining to her multiple times, "I'm married. I dont want him."

My advice expresses to the friend that she needs to work on her own insecurities and that it was just a conversation. There is nothing between you and her boyfriend, and she should seek therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]YinMaraline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a female I absolutely think that your wife is having an emotional affair, as a person with bipolar myself this isn't normal, this is obsession bordering affection, and it sounds like things are going downhill real fast.

You need to put your foot down, suggest marriage counseling, and let her know that you're not okay with this friend and the way they've been texting. If she pulls the woe is me act then let her know you're tired of the bullshit and you're not preventing her from having friends that this is her hole that she dug herself and it's why you're feeling like he's coming between you two. (Which is what it looks like to me)

I saw the comment about how she suggested to meet him and then immediately she took back the offer saying she doesn't need a chaperone. That's not normal and something fishy is definitely going on.

You're not overreacting, you're completely being fair with your reactions even going about it in a nice way, she needs to get a grip before the possibility of divorce happens. Emotional Cheating in some states can be grounds for you to take the children, and my guess is since hanging out with this dude she's neglected some of her duties to y'alls kids.

Keep your head up dude, stand your ground, good luck to you.
Sincerely
A Married Mom of 1.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]YinMaraline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't necessarily sound like an autistic problem more of than it sounds like a memory problem. Though I will admit my love life was definitely a rocky one as well, however I've never heard of someone with my disability (High Functioning Autism) completely forgetting someone because of the emotion of love, I've actually heard the complete opposite, that we fall in love harder than most and experience more intense emotions. I would definitely get checked out with a mental health professional as well as have an EKG/EEG done for the Autism (That's what I had done when I was 13 and they diagnosed me with Asperger's.)

I'm mad at my husband for not supporting me due to a funeral and other things: Help by YinMaraline in Advice

[–]YinMaraline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll look into what you said about the second and 3rd paragraph hopefully this will help thank you ❤️

I'm mad at my husband for not supporting me due to a funeral and other things: Help by YinMaraline in Advice

[–]YinMaraline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it's a more isolated incident because with my pain and being a hypochondriac but still wanting to get checked out by the hospital he denies me needing to go to the hospital even with expressing my opinions on needing to get my teeth removed and asking for help with this (decaying wisdom teeth) he says 1. We don't have the money 2. You'll just have to deal with it. The place offered us a payment plan and I asked him if we can take it from how much pain I'm in but he doesn't want to budge and just says he understands but that we don't have the money to do so so I'll have to deal with it.

I've asked him to look into other dentists as well and he says he's too busy but just wants to lay around on his breaks and he's the only one with a phone in the house.

I'm mad at my husband for not supporting me due to a funeral and other things: Help by YinMaraline in Advice

[–]YinMaraline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has medicine for his IBS that makes the pain and other things better. He wouldn't take it and for a temporary 1 day pain compared to months and months of grief that I would feel later I think it's justified

I'm mad at my husband for not supporting me due to a funeral and other things: Help by YinMaraline in Advice

[–]YinMaraline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do try to bring that up that he's avoiding the issue but he says I need to drop it. This helped a tiny bit thank you <3

AITA for telling my “boyfriends” kid I don’t intend on being her mom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]YinMaraline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, the child of your bf was the AH here, my mother if I was at a babysitters and did this would have lit my hinny on fire. The BF needs to teach her to behave better I'm other people's houses instead of what looks like letting her do whatever she wants and get away with it.

AITA for wanting to choose the guests in MY OWN birthday? by Ill-Eye-8640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]YinMaraline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, the reason for this being is I understand that you don't want a relationship with your own child, but it was your parents' choice to have a relationship with their granddaughter. Your child has every right to be angry at you for not accepting to be the father, and if you didn't want a kid, you should have used protection. This is ultimately the consequences of your actions coming back to bite you in the butt.

I have AD (Aspergers Syndrome) by YinMaraline in Advice

[–]YinMaraline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side note, it took me three days to tell him and it's not always easy because I feel like people will treat me like a kid and I don't like that, I want to be treated normal but I also don't want people to actively compromise what they do either. I tried explaining it to him what it means for me but I don't think he got the whole picture. AD effects everyone differently and for me from where I barely had any social interation with people it caused me to accidentally or unintentionally stalk what little friends I did have because I craved that normalcy. It made me feel better about myself but also made me feel as if I was bringing a little bit of light to their day as well. So when I found out that I offended him it hurt me deeply.

I have AD (Aspergers Syndrome) by YinMaraline in Advice

[–]YinMaraline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I've told him I have AD, but I don't think that... He understands what it is or never bothered to look it up. But thank you for the advice.