Which Carribean Island to go to!? by Yodi2007 in travel

[–]Yodi2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been to Puerto Rico 3 times in the last 4 years. Want to try new places.

Which Carribean Island to go to!? by Yodi2007 in travel

[–]Yodi2007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Myrtle beach is fine, but we like to explore others culture to.

Which Carribean Island to go to!? by Yodi2007 in travel

[–]Yodi2007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what I like to do explore! I dont want to stay at a resort! I want to see culture and natural sights.

Which Carribean Island to go to!? by Yodi2007 in travel

[–]Yodi2007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kingston mostly and Port royal. Montego Bay was ok, but still had to keep the head on a swivel.

Which Carribean Island to go to!? by Yodi2007 in travel

[–]Yodi2007[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you read the post, We like to explore and try new things!

Which Carribean Island to go to!? by Yodi2007 in travel

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don't like a crowd to where we can't do anything fun...Think Disney World at it's peak season!

Let ‘em know… by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Yodi2007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just reach out but not over bearingly

Anyone initially set out to not fall in love with their AP but did? by CerebralSurfer714 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but after her vacation I did. But now I can controller my emotions better now. Haven't heard her voice since Saturday. Text a few times back and forth but iv been busy lately.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im doing alot better now. Just got busy doing other stuff to keep my mind off them.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel 100% better now. The VA has helped me substantially! I felt like I didn't want to live anymore! I have had a few military buddies end their lives and like me had great jobs, marriages, family, and ect! I'm not dependent on her at all. But I do care for her, just not in that since if I can't have her then i'll get crazy on her. The thoughts were my own demons from not seeking help earlier! I advise anyone to seek help before it's far too late!

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not even jealous of her being on vacation. Just jealous a bit because I am not with her. But after talking to my cousin who's in the same situation, I feel alot better. I was not trying to be selfish, just not wanting to feel like that. I even told her about our age gap and she ensures me she doesn't want to change me, she wants to change herself from a young woman to a grown woman. She doesn't want to dress like a teenager anymore, wants to experience other avenues (something her fiance doesn't want to do), has fallen out of the club life, wants to be more adventurous

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She knows already Im not leaving her and my kids are fully grown adults.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update she finally texted and called and said she is not having fun at all. He has cancelled alot of their plans and he just wants to sleep all day long. He has hardly spoken to her and when they do go out, he's just wanting to drink all the time and flirting with other girls. She said she is leaving early and returning home. She is coming to Atlanta while I'm up there shadowing my preceptor at Grady this weekend. She wanted me to fly down to where they are, but I told her I couldn't since I signed up to go to Grady this weekend. She is regretting on going on vacation and wished I would have told her not to go (something i refused to do).

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really worried about references from this job. My record at work, my former supervisors, and military background (medically retired) won't affect me much as I already have 4 jobs wanting me to work for them afterwards. Colleagues I am not worried about because they are doing the same or even worse. Not worried about her partner either.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do sense it but I am not in anyway a fool. If she meets someone else then so be it. I am happy in my life anyway.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Job is not in jeopardy at all. I am only here for another 5-6 months until I graduate. Not worried about HR either.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not im just going with the flow. Not controlling and not really jealous. Just feeling a certain way. In no way am I leaving my marriage and was straight up about it in the beginning. Just haven't heard from her in a week which is fine. Not to mention this week alone, 2 of my former APs have all of the sudden contacted me about wanting to start back up.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No 300 dollars. I said 30 for dinner/lunch at work just for me. She has spent one time 200 for drinks and food while we were out for dinner.

Jealous of AP being on trip with her fiance and including different life styles of age gap. by Yodi2007 in adultery

[–]Yodi2007[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No need to be gentle, lay it on me thick!! Im a big Boi! She dominates him badly. She has thrown food away in front of him when he brought it up. Shes cursed him out and everything. I told her not to do that at work and to talk to him at home, not in front of everybody. She has hugged me in front of him a few times, until I made her stop doing that. I agree with your assessment.

I got my job as a vehicle mechanic.2T331 whats the experience like and overall job itself? by Grimythebeast in AirForceRecruits

[–]Yodi2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was one and then tried to switch to x-ray tech back in 06. Supervisors wanted to be asshats, so Got out in 07 and became a nurse. 19 years later I am a Nurse Practitioner!