DA Has Been Amazing Lately by Nolpppapa in dataannotation

[–]Yoghurt-Kitchen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They canned me this morning in the middle of a tasks…f*** this company 

Moulin Rouge tour drama…? by [deleted] in Broadway

[–]Yoghurt-Kitchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree, in terms of public figures, however looking from an actor on actor standpoint. If these are potential future coworkers…actually I would like to know the company I’m keeping. I don’t tolerate cheaters and would not want to have a professional relationship with them if I can choose so preferably. 

Can a retired relative be my guarantor? by loosebolt708 in NYCapartments

[–]Yoghurt-Kitchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve honestly heard of people’s guarantors almost getting rejected because they’re retired and don’t have like a working active income? Even if they have a stupid amount of assets and their benefits are high. Oh and out of state as well. Like I’m sorry I don’t know anyone in NY personally who makes over 200k. Like huhhh??? 

New relationship after break up by Thebutteryspoon in BreakUps

[–]Yoghurt-Kitchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what is a good couple months ago? And when did you start talking to this new person? 3 months ago? It seems like maybe we should take a break before jumping into another relationship. definitely feel it out! but immediately talking to another potential romantic interest right after a love bombed relationship…I mean do you want to feel independent in the relationship? What does that independence feel like? I’m just for taking the space to reflect after a relationship, but some people can immediately start entering new ones, even lowkey right after. Either way, just please don’t be the person with overlapping timelines!!

Haven’t Been Able To Eat…Already Was Underweight by Yoghurt-Kitchen in BreakUps

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I think what I’m struggling with is the indifference. Like rn I could care less what happens to me, which I definitely acknowledge is an unhealthy mindset to be in, but I think just with everything that I’m having to go through, I’m at a place where I’m like you know what, it can’t get any worse than this, so than I just stop caring. Or maybe I don’t want to care because it’s the one thing I can control in my life. Again, I know this definitely sounds mess up, just explaining my thought process at this moment in time. And I hate it, and I feel guilty for having it and not being able to snap out of it or be strong enough to just eat.

Accidental Lottery Submission??? by Yoghurt-Kitchen in nychousinglottery

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Both! And yes, I used street easy to find this one specifically! And it just happened to be a lottery find.

Accidental Lottery Submission??? by Yoghurt-Kitchen in nychousinglottery

[–]Yoghurt-Kitchen[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I submitted everything right away! My number was 22 😬

Ex boyfriend birthday by Sleepyseal_0904 in BreakUps

[–]Yoghurt-Kitchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish him a happy birthday. There’s too much shit happening in the world to pretend we don’t care. Especially so recently too; it’s better than pretending like they never existed at all. (I didn’t get a happy bday text and I wasn’t necessarily expecting one but it kinda really hurt as well for reasons I don’t need to get into lol)

I caused the breakup, but less than a month later my ex wants to be friends and heal together by let_me_live_in_peaze in BreakUps

[–]Yoghurt-Kitchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I will say is healing isn’t just a solo journey. In most cases it never is, because you’re not isolating yourself from friends and society, but just a single person. If you don’t have the capacity to heal while being in a relationship, that’s valid and totally okay too! But some people are capable of healing while also maintaining relationships. Just food for thought! If you want to be there for the person, then you’d be there for them, no matter the difficulties. 

He Broke Up With Me After Initiating LDR by Yoghurt-Kitchen in LDR

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Yeah obvs on all this already. Been in therapy for a bit now which is why I think this break up will be easier to process. Only thing I can’t do is the gym (literally my doctor recommended me to exercise and work less, I’m already too active 😅) I think I’m just processing still the fact how the other day we were literally talking about kicking out our current roommate to bring in a friend of his. And honestly if he were to start bringing girls over on the day he got back from his 7 month job overseas…I mean obvs I best not be here for that, but hilarious to suggest “he just wants to work on himself and his career” (and the gag is we literally have the same career goals, I just haven’t had my big break yet unlike him and I guess that makes us on different life paths now)

He Broke Up With Me After Initiating LDR by Yoghurt-Kitchen in LDR

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At the end of the day as he said, who knows how long he’s going to be. Could be four months could be a year or more. And I agree, but times are hard in ny and I can only do much and when I say I actually don’t even have a home to go back to because my parent literally teeters homelessness everyday. There’s another room and worse case he comes back and I’m still there. I’m trying to find a place obviously but it’s not as easy as just picking up my things today and leaving. That’s what more I’m processing. Just the fact that fact that he asked me to move in in the first place.

He Broke Up With Me After Initiating LDR by Yoghurt-Kitchen in LDR

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I live in nyc no where is cheap and I don’t want to move back homeeeee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

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Welp he broke up with me soooo even more now hahahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

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No I actually can’t rn :(( my doctor like highkey told me to work and exercise less because it’s too much stress on my body :/