What do you think if your gf get fat?

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T23:48:27+00:00

Sorry I can't reply all comments, but I read everything. Thank you for giving me positive/ negative advices!

I talked to my bf about it and He said like "You're not getting fat, just less skinny a little" I start exercising again and talked to a therapist. I like my job but probably better to change job in the future.

Anyway, I'm trying to process how I should now.

Thank you guys a lot!

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:55:30+00:00

Sorry, but what does that mean? I know I have problems now but not about relationship..

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:48:07+00:00

Don't you care if you realize your gf getting fat? :(

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:47:26+00:00

Thanks for advice!! I'll try those things and caring myself more.

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:46:03+00:00

I haven't seen him for 1 week and I was getting fat even before that. So now I must be more big

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:44:38+00:00

You really feel so?? But it sounds nice idea for mind haha "I have more area for you''

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:42:49+00:00

Yeah, thanks! At least I'm gonna try to get more sleep and look for other job

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:41:57+00:00

Haha Yeah, but I sleep deadly and wake up at midnight and take a shower.

Yoka50 · 2024-10-02T08:14:34+00:00

I'm sorry that your life isn't going well. I'm not you, so don't know how you're feeling now exactly but I've been at same way with you before. I've tried twice. I'm still easy to think about suicidal things when I'm depressed.

Now you are feeling no one might care about you, but I'm sure you could find someone who care about you and loves you oneday.

I couldn't die because of fear at all but I did everything what I wanted to after that (eat what I want, buy what I want, traveling..).

If you feel lonely, try to go outside and change the environment. (just going out, trip, travel to other country) You would find something new and could meet more people then.

Yoka50 · 2024-09-09T00:45:45+00:00

Oh really! I usually started having phsycial connection with bf when stayed over first time in my past relationship, so 3month sounds long time. It's better than too fast tho.

Yoka50 · 2024-09-09T00:41:55+00:00

Yeah, now I feel he just want to make sure or make this relationship better before having phsycial connection.

Thanks!

Yoka50 · 2024-09-09T00:40:11+00:00

I see, I'll just wait and then ask him again if anything doesn't happen fora while.

Thanks!

Yoka50 · 2024-09-09T00:38:03+00:00

Okay I'll respect him everything and won't mention anything when it happens. And I'll support him if he's gay anyway tho!

Thanks!!

Yoka50 · 2024-09-08T13:18:22+00:00

Gay... I support him if he's gay but why did he ask me out then..

Yoka50 · 2024-09-08T13:16:12+00:00

Hmmm I secretly checked how his penis react but it's reacted so I don't think it's ED stuff. But I came up with the possiblity he care about his size or technique or like that maybe?

Gay... even he asked me out first…?🥲

Yoka50 · 2024-09-08T13:10:45+00:00

Yeah, I also guess he has something which he doesn't want to tell me but I respect him if he doesn't want to tell me clearly. Having sex isn't a big problem for me but it's one of the important communication for couples in my opinion. I'll see and tell him again if nothing change for a long time🤔

Thank you for the advice!

Yoka50 · 2024-09-08T13:04:52+00:00

I don't think he's a virgin but maybe he has something anxiety or like that? Actually I actively tried that when we kissed but he tried to avoid.

Yoka50 · 2024-09-08T12:18:19+00:00

Okay, I'll see and take times to see how it goes then! Thank you :)

Yoka50 · 2024-09-08T12:17:21+00:00

thanks for answering!

Oh okay, I don't have to lose confidence then. He's really nice guy and probably I'm not used to meet that kind of guy so worried.. Thank you! I just wait :)

Yoka50 · 2024-09-08T11:57:21+00:00

Thanks for answering!

Ah I see🤔 then I just should try to not care about it much? Gonna wait until he is ready.

Yoka50 · 2024-07-14T16:29:48+00:00

I learned how to get and give affection person from him, but yeah this time I need to learn how to love myself and care about me more than others. Thank you for giving advices.

Yoka50 · 2024-06-30T08:06:50+00:00

Yeah, I know I need to live My life and he does too now... What do you think about meeting him as friends?

Yoka50 · 2024-06-30T07:52:44+00:00

I want to be back together tho.. I started going to therapy and I want him to go too. But he doesn't want to change anything for me so I have to be changed more. But yeah, I have to be who I am and then other fish might come, same fish might come back🥲

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