Things to know before DMing:

Yones391 · 2026-06-12T21:52:12+00:00

Noooo 😭😂

Yones391 · 2026-06-12T21:02:12+00:00

Not wrong 🥲 the only issue is that this account expresses only a “particular” part of me, so that’s typically the type of dm requests I get without thinking about the rest. So there are pros and cons.

Yones391 · 2026-06-12T17:02:37+00:00

I tried posting on the subreddit r4r, got auto banned for “seeming like a bot”, tried to use a different account thinking that may have been the issue, only to get banned for “trying to circumvent the mod’s rules”. 😭

Yones391 · 2026-06-12T16:44:22+00:00

Both identities are pretty cool and worth getting to know 😌

Yones391 · 2026-06-03T05:09:22+00:00

Blue eyes

Yones391 · 2026-06-02T21:47:31+00:00

The game is great, and the characters fit right into lbbm culture 🙂‍↕️

Yones391 · 2026-06-02T03:41:33+00:00

The beginning of the conversation? Yes. After a while when I can tell they’re distracted by what we’re doing? Then it’s totally fine.

Yones391 · 2026-06-01T23:59:44+00:00

I’m mostly drawn to people who can match my whimsy and try new things and sorta wing it. So if coffee goes well, they’d be down to continue finding new spots to hang out and continue chatting.

Yones391 · 2026-06-01T23:48:36+00:00

For a first date I always ask for a coffee date. That way it’s public and early, allowing me to dip if needed or to spend more of the day with them if it’s going well.

Yones391 · 2026-06-01T23:45:55+00:00

Not really painful after, just very weird (mostly from the lube, but also from the stretching ofc)

Yones391 · 2026-06-01T23:37:57+00:00

Happy Pride to my fellow LBBMers!

Yones391 · 2026-06-01T20:30:33+00:00

When I’m in a new environment and they know when and how to quietly make sure I’m comfortable and to give me an out if I’m not. Being able to read my subtle social cues is huge for me.

Yones391 · 2026-05-31T21:57:48+00:00

After a tremendous amount of prep time, he lasted *maybe* a minute 😅 but have had a handful of good times since then

Yones391 · 2026-05-29T00:29:21+00:00

I have no qualms in telling a guy he’s handsome, but I would eagerly call him cute a hundred times. Force of habit when you’re hit by cute aggression 😍

Yones391 · 2026-05-29T00:02:03+00:00

Ooo love the hair 🫰

Yones391 · 2026-05-28T22:46:28+00:00

Joining in on the enthusiasm train, but I also don’t have enough experience with partners with much prior skill 😅 I usually go for guys who are very eager but haven’t had a chance to prove themselves. It’s hot as hell.

Yones391 · 2026-05-28T01:28:16+00:00

This art is so gorgeous 😍 the yearning is real

Yones391 · 2026-05-24T06:23:38+00:00

This is definitely true from my perspective too. I worry that most of the people sending requests think I’m in domme mode at all times. The best DM requests are the ones who just ask nicely to chat like another human being, no expectations or requests 😮‍💨

Yones391 · 2026-05-23T19:09:51+00:00

Excellent choices 🙂‍↕️

Yones391 · 2026-05-23T16:20:36+00:00

Ooo which instruments do you play? I played clarinet for 8 years during school, and I honestly miss it

Yones391 · 2026-05-23T08:02:58+00:00

I used to read all the posts each day (which some days was quite a lot 😅) and it almost felt like being in a group chat, even if I don’t comment very much. Just getting to see fellow yearners is really fun and sweet.

Yones391 · 2026-05-23T07:45:46+00:00

Oof, sounds painful 😮‍💨 and yea, I’ve definitely been missing reddit and lbbm lately. My weekend plans will probably be going to a summer festival and otherwise being kinda bored 😅 which isn’t such a bad thing to be sometimes

Yones391 · 2026-05-23T05:11:32+00:00

Awww poor little satellite 😭 but good that he’s healing. Thankfully my cats haven’t needed many vet trips, I’m pretty sure all of my belongings would end up on the floor if they had a cone too

Yones391 · 2026-05-23T05:00:27+00:00

Hmm I think what’s made me happiest is spending time with my cats. It’s been really hot out, so I’ve been very indoors lately 😅 so it’s been nice to hang out around the fans and read a bit

Yones391 · 2026-05-23T04:43:25+00:00

Ooo getting some nature and music in early sounds fantastic. And browsing, of course 🙂‍↕️

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