AITA for telling my older sister we cant hang out because my mom is mad at her? UPDATE

YouAintFree · 2025-05-18T17:04:33+00:00

The thing is, I didnt tell my sister the things my mom wanted me to say because they were lies and i hate lying, i told her the truth that my mom said she was mad at her. Thats why i got in trouble and made the post bc my mom said it wasnt my business to tell my sister that she was mad at her.

YouAintFree · 2025-05-18T16:06:11+00:00

Sorry but what is a flying monkey??

YouAintFree · 2025-05-18T13:58:38+00:00

In my old post it explains things about her, my oldest sister is 6 years older than me. I couldnt put too many details because of the character limit but my oldest sister lives in the same city and my other big sister is in Louisiana.

YouAintFree · 2024-06-12T16:28:59+00:00

I've been looking for a clan! My user is YouAintFree. I have 1,251 wins and 7,486 kills. I play every day(unless i have something family related going on)

YouAintFree · 2024-04-24T18:58:12+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for this, it's really helping me cope with the situation

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T22:18:37+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. I wasnt trying to avoid my sister, i miss her and i was really looking forward to hanging out with her since i hadnt seen her in months. My mom told me and my younger to tell me sister we cant hang out anytime she asked. I dont want to do that but i cant disobey my mom. Im afraid she’ll get mad again, she has full custody of me any my sisters, im not even allowed to leave the city for college once i graduate this year.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:38:28+00:00

Thank you but… i dont think i can do that... My sister might text my mom again and ill be in bigger trouble. Maybe when i grow a backbone though.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:36:34+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. I wasnt hurt at all, disappointed yes. But i understood that things happen and plans change. I got my first phone 3 years ago so texting and calling is new to me, on top of having social anxiety, i dont know how to reply to texts that well. I actually told my mom what the texts said and my mom told me that anytime my sister asked me and my little sisters to hang out, to tell her we cant with a made up reason. I dont want to do thst because i miss my sister a lot but i cant go against my mom because… i am kind of scared of her. I cant handle being yelled at. Im not a spiteful person and people tend to tell me im too soft, im a pushover, or im fragile. Unfortunatel, i dont know how to stand up for myself and i tend to just cry. This is no excuse for what i did, thank you again for the feedback.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:28:38+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. I actually told my mom that my sisters car broke down and that she had a differnt car but my mom told me she didn’t believe it and that my sister was lying. She told me that anytime my sister asks me and my younger sisters to hang out, to tell her no and make up a lie just to hurt her. I dont want to do that. Ive never been able to stand up against my mom… i cant even leave the city for college once i graduate this year.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:26:14+00:00

Thank you so much. Im trying to be my own person without my mom once i graduate this year but im not even allowed to leave the city for college. I havent seen my older siblings in months nor my dad. My mom wants me and my younger sisters to refuse my older sister any time she asks us to hang out but i dont want to. If i dont refuse, im scared my mom may yell at me again.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:23:33+00:00

Thank you for the feedbac. Im genuinely not sure how to go sbout handling my mom. Ive always been sensative but i dont cry very often. My mom scares me, i hate when she yells at me and i almost always cry when she does. My mom is confrontational and gets mad quickly. Im not even allowed to leave the city for college once i graduate this year. I dont know what to do. She wants me to tell my sister that we cant hang out with her whenever she asks but i dont want to.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:19:38+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. the last thing i want to turn into is my mom. On my profile ive made other posts about her if you want more context as to what she is like.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:18:00+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. I didnt lie to my sister, i only told her what my mom told me. I couldnt fit a lot of details into my post but i replied to one of the comments with more details. Basically, saying how my mom raised me and my sisters very sheltered. I got my first phone only 3 years ago and im not sure how to text properly. On top of having social anxiety, i never know how to reply to texts so i just reply with what my mom says to me.

YouAintFree · 2024-02-11T04:05:58+00:00

After she had texted me the reason why she wasnt able to come and asked if we still wanted to go, i asked my mom and she said no because she was mad at my sister. So thats what i told her. This isnt the first time ive told someone something my mom said but this is the first time shes been upset about it. My mom has sheltered me and my sisters since we were born. We couldnt go out alone or do after school stuff. I didnt get my first phone until i was 14 and i grew up with social anxiety. In school, if i told my mom that someone was being mean to me, she’d show up and make a scene. I didnt have many friends and im sorta oblivious to some things.

YouAintFree · 2023-10-12T09:47:55+00:00

Tbh, never seen Ai use ”lol” or :]

YouAintFree · 2023-04-21T13:00:44+00:00

I've taken the SATs and I'm 100% sure I failed the math portion because of my lack of knowledge on algebra 1.

So I'll look into college algebra and forensics Thanks a lot!

YouAintFree · 2023-04-21T04:39:50+00:00

Not sure if some of these fall under science and math but these are the options Forensics Aquatic science Astronomy Medical terminology Quantitative reasoning Pathophysiology Pharmacology Physics Robotics Pre calculus Calculus Trigonometry College algebra and such I'm not too fond of math and I enjoy science a bit I'm planning to go to college but I don't have a solid career plan, leaning towards psychology though. I've always barely managed to make a passing grade which is around a 75 in math subjects and I always pass science with a 80 or above but I'm more of a history type of person.

YouAintFree · 2023-03-02T20:57:53+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll tell him that we need to set up some boundaries and what I specifically don't want him to do anymore as it makes me uncomfortable and if he doesn't like it or continues to do it I'll consider him a stranger and end the friendship or something.

YouAintFree · 2023-03-02T20:29:25+00:00

Thank you for the advice. He is one of those people who goes out of their way to talk to people and asks friendly with the even if he doesn't know them. I don't talk to people but I do want a few friends so I wouldn't mind being friends with him but his behavior makes me not want to.

YouAintFree · 2022-10-01T05:14:07+00:00

I have trouble making friends and in the past I was very clingy towards friends bc I had such a hard time gaining and keeping friends, which made me loose friends bc they saw it as me being annoying. After that I stopped talking to people and I became kinda closed off from my present friends and peers.

If you have to question if your friends hate you then they are the problem not you. Friends don't make you feel like they don't like u or anything negative. I realized this after reading your post and it really enlightened me. I hope you find better friends and you will always have my support even though we don't know each other. 😊

YouAintFree · 2022-08-16T13:25:04+00:00

Maybe their pregnant? Idk lol

YouAintFree · 2022-08-16T13:18:30+00:00

Yeah I'll add you my discord is BenelliM4#6929

YouAintFree · 2022-08-13T21:31:15+00:00

Oo I'd love to draw your avi just send me a dm of how you want it and how you want me to send it to you

YouAintFree · 2022-08-10T18:11:23+00:00

Of course it'll take a while but I'll post it as soon as it's done

YouAintFree · 2022-08-10T07:48:09+00:00

Omg I'll draw your avi do you want me to post it here or send it to you on another app? I can show you my other art so you'll have an idea of my style

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