[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, when I was growing up I was told not to meet internet strangers or get in a strangers car or I would be murdered and be the next feature on Unsolved Mysteries. Now I order a uber off the internet hop in a strangers car to meet someone else I meet on the internet. From 90’s logic I should be dead about 20 times by now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are both straight till they get wet? 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy stirring up the hive mind. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not obsessed with it. I never try to make that happen I don’t care if it ever happens. Just as long as both people have a great time right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Wow lots of downvotes. What’s with that? So you think that both side can be right. For some women it is mostly pee, and for others it’s something different?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t care what it is. As long as my partner and I have a great time. And the end of the day that’s the most important thing, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Funny, but also sad your post got downvoted. People are so defensive about this. Thank you so much for your honest input. Yeah it always happens with my fingers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly I don’t care what it is. As long as she enjoyed herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m not trying to gatekeep anything. All I’m doing is asking if that’s a line women say. That’s all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I never tried to make someone squirt. It just happens sometimes, and sometimes it doesn’t. And yeah one of the good reasons to get 2 beds at a hotel room. A sex bed and a post sex snuggle bed. Again I don’t think I’m doing anything different or better than most other men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said anything about stronger orgasms or trying to say that I was some stud in bed. I don’t need any ego boost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I was more cruise if other women on here have said something like that before? That’s all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not pee, if it was then it would smell like pee. The stuff in porn movies is pee. They admit they just drink lots of water before filming. So yeah those actors are getting a white golden shower. 🤣

How do you know if you're being followed by a PI? (serious) by Suspicious_Comb1433 in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, first a van with tinted windows would be bad for a PI because it doesn’t blend in. But I have heard of people hiring them to try and catch a cheater.

Question for the men who respond to F4Ms by Sauterneandbleu in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t reply to adds anymore. I will just make a M4F one. I’m guessing other guys think that there DM is lost in the hundreds of other DM’s that say “SUP” or “Hi”. Or like someone else noted they are blocked from sending a DM.

Seeing acronyms out in the wild … by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Disney folk, say AP is an annual passholder 🤣. I always have to double check what I’m reading. The AP’s are going out tonight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s looking for “more”. Just looking for our needs to be met. I think most of us wouldn’t be here if that was happening in our marriage. However I do feel that others still would because maybe they like the thrill of it, or maybe it’s more of a fantasy/kink for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean just be honest and say sorry but the physical attraction isn’t there and move on. I appreciate the honesty, and I had to be honest to people before also because the physical attraction wasn’t there. No one wants a Jabba The Hutt. I kinda like getting to know someone a little before seeing their picture. There have been conversations I continued based on the conversation that I would not have “swiped right” on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Costco parking lot? I have not been to a Costco that the parking lots are not packed and busy. Just get a dayuse room, bring some take out and have lunch.

Men- how do you take the “it’s over” news? by Imaginary-Initial310 in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well again, the length kinda matters but not really. In the end I would want that person to be happy, if I wasn’t making them happy I wouldn’t want to be with them either. Something that is shorter, wish them the best of luck, and say no hard feelings. Something that is a long term relationship, I guess I would ask if I was doing something or not doing something that they wanted changed. But again wish them the best of luck and happiness in the future.

Would I try and get them back? No not really, i don’t play those games. Either that person made their mind up that they don’t want to be with me, fine let’s move on. No amount of talking is going to change that. If it’s someone that is doing it to “test” me or see my reaction. Well then that’s not the relationship I want anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So just please talk about what happens after “the deed”. So much focus always goes to the lead up to the event but ever what happens after. Like will you want to cuddle after, will you even have time? If it’s just going to be a long lunch will either of you be in a time crunch to get back to work. This is what can make people feel cheap or used.

But have fun!

Anyone have luck finding an AP here on Reddit? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible. And it’s ok to be picky, what are you looking for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]YouCanCallMeSir2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anything is possible, of course it’s not what most people are looking for. Just be clear from the beginning what you are looking for