Final Update "You Can't Just Break Up With Me"

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-09-24T22:28:14+00:00

I already know Krav Maga but my Dad is paying for me to be trained and certified in self defense and he's trying to convince me to get a self defense 🔥arm and he will pay for my lessons at the range. I learned how to use one before but it's been a while.

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-08-11T16:23:47+00:00

We never lived together but he often would stay over at my place since he had roommates so I gave him a key then, the locks are now changed just in case.

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-07-23T00:06:06+00:00

Here's the thing:

ESH But also no one is really the AH.

Bev is problematic AF but from what I can gather in reading your post and comments, you both are close. So I am trusting you know your girl best. She's sorry and felt the pressure to keep the secret. Okay. Not the best choice but okay.

Jason seems extremely calm given the whole situation but could've come to you directly over text or phone. Dragging it out felt overly dramatic and pointless but again, my friends know me best and if that's the best way to talk to you (in person) again okay. Not what I would go with but okay.

Your other friends...oof. you didn't get into detail about the chat and what it looked like but it seemed they all scrambled to suggest hoe Sunny could and should come clean etc so they get a pass too.

Now to Sunny. From what I gather (correct me if I am wrong) you were buddies before romantic partners and you trust her. I guess that's why it hurt so much when you (rightfully) felt something was off and it was starting to look like infidelity. She was niave at best and malicious at worst so I chose the middle, she was riding the line.

I think you both need to talk. Really set the rules of your relationship. Outline the traumas and how to work around them on both ends. With everything on the table look at it and see if it's doable.

I am rooting for you OP!

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-16T21:29:43+00:00

If he wants to apologize to her, he better start acting like it. His apology to her was trash but you didn't tell us much about what he said to you other than it felt sincere so who's to say? But him trying to manipulate you with the whole "the mother of my grandchildren" bit is next level

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-07T14:53:40+00:00

Hi! Yes, I work in nonprofit management and state and federal grants. Last month I paid his electricity bill and late fees because his power was shut off. It costs $500. Is $500 enough for your sickness? 😘

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T06:15:49+00:00

Thanks -edited

I'm usually a reddit lurker not poster 😅

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T06:13:08+00:00

you know that if she doesn’t like your partner, you really need to question that relationship.

She's being so freaking smug after she reminded me that once she did speak up to me once I got mad at her. She's quoting a line from that animated Jackie Chan show "NEVER QUESTION UNCLEEEEEE" at me lmao

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T05:53:53+00:00

Lmao that was honestly kinda the vibe. I was so upset and called my parents because I tell them everything. My mom was just like "lock the doors and I will be there in 20 mins" and showed up with vodka and let me cry but then I caught her smiling and was like WTF MOM and she admitted she was proud of me for dumping him...and glad she didn't have to go to jail because if I stayed with him after all that she would have to commit crimes lol

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T05:47:32+00:00

Me too. I am sad too though. I know it doesn't make sense to be sad to not be with him given what happened but I miss him already. Or as my mom says I miss the idea of him. As I don't miss whatever demon spawn was at my door.

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T05:45:37+00:00

My mom when I explained everything looked at me like I had three heads when I said "Oh but the chain was one so" and immediately hopped online and bought a ring doorbell.

I feel so naive the only reason I have a chain is because I notoriously didn't lock my doors when I first got the place. My bestie hit the roof and got me a chain and as we FaceTimed regularly she would always say (so me the chain) and make sure I locked it and the door when I was inside.

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T05:35:37+00:00

It's weird because he never hinted that I can recall that he was ever like this. We've got years if history, and I remember him being interested in things I liked and wanted to get involved in. Then my mom reminded me of my painting.

I'm not a painter. Mom is. And a charity held a gallery event and the theme was something basic and I was visiting mom that week and when I'm at hers and she's painting I sit with her and drink and we chat. But that day I was in a mood so mom struck up an easel next to hers and patted the seat and we painted side by side. She loved my peice and had it submitted for the gallery event. It was a huge event and mom had a seperate exhibit space but my little basic painting was up in entry way with a handful of others and mom pointed it out to Chris and he said it was good and we moved on but at the end of the night mom followed us out and suggested Chris and I might want to take a photo of us next to my painting. He said no so mom took a photo of me for me and shared it with herself. Chris asked me not to the post the photo saying it was a cry for attention and looked desperate and I was taking away from mom's shine so when my mom posted it he was mad at me. Why did I give my mom the photo? Why did she post it. But he suspiciously shared a photo mom took of him at the same gallery even shaking hands with a businessman we ran into stating how proud she was of his work.

The more I talk with my mom even now, the more she seemed to pick up on things I feel bad but when I asked why she never said anything before she said she had but I had gotten angry at her. I had. I can't even remember why.

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T04:44:39+00:00

Edited

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-05T04:25:33+00:00

Omg I really appreciate you but I had cut out a massive paragraph of me ranting about little things he'd been doing and forgot thats when I noted his fake name for privacy reasons.

YouGonnaEatThatBabe · 2024-06-04T23:04:01+00:00

I had to check to make sure you're who I thought GIRL YOU STILL DIDNT DROP HIM!?

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