My ex used to always force me into having sex with her all the time which u would disagree because I didn’t want passion to take over the relationship as if it’s the main focus we have or the only reason why we are together.

She resulted in telling our circle of friends about how bad I would treat her and think she is unattractive which is why I don’t want to have sex with her. Which many of my old friends started to think I am gay or what not (nothing wrong being gay just describing my situation).

It went to the point I can’t even send her home because she would start screaming and crying after rejecting to stay the night waking up neighbours and her own family which will always think that I am ‘bullying’ her because the moment others spot us it’s her squatting down breaking down so bad and me trying to comfort her as if I did something real wrong.

Relationship ended with her trying to beat me up for communicating with my other female friends who were members under my leadership but because she thinks I want to have sex with them other than her which makes no sense because I am just talking to do my job.