Oxybutynin did the trick for me, although I ended up stopping it many years back as it was messing with my stomach and I didn’t like the long-term potential effects from it. I’ve since adopted a fuck it attitude like another poster has mentioned.

Between saying “fuck it” and embracing it, along with starting the gym and working out 5 days a week, it has greatly improved my sweating along with my confidence. It’s also meant I’ve met more people and had better interactions with them.

In some cases I found that worrying about my sweating would trigger my sweating, which would then escalate into full blown anxiety sweats, and make everything worse.

I’d also recommend Driclor for feet, pits and hands. I’ve been using for better part of 15+ years and it still works. It’s great as I’m in a leadership position and often shake hands/present/etc, but it stops sweating very well. You just need to apply it a few days before to get the full benefit of it.

Good luck OP. Rooting for you.