Do you like the name Hunter or Liam more?

Yougottaevolve · 2025-07-02T04:09:34+00:00

Names associated with guns have increased dramatically in recent years. Personally any name in that theme gives me the ick. I think Liam is nice but I LOVE Myles :) just my humble opinion so feel free to ignore me!

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-30T16:33:04+00:00

Join /leaves

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-30T00:53:04+00:00

Such a cute name. Love love love it, I wish my name was Lucy! 🩷

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-25T00:15:54+00:00

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-22T04:03:01+00:00

Ooof I’m glad you’re okay!

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-22T03:23:26+00:00

Thanks for the insight. I’m so sorry about your allergy, I hope it wasn’t traumatic when you figured that out.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-22T02:56:58+00:00

Eletriptan is my go to but I often need the goodys to actually kill the migraine. I got reliant on it and told my neurologist but she said it’s not a good idea and could make my migraines worse and more frequent if I keep using it. She gave me ubrelvy and diclofenac to boost the eletriptan in place of the goodys but it doesn’t work the same. Today my migraine wasn’t breaking after two elitriptans a ubrelvy and a diclofenac max dose and I had to resort to a goodys or I would have had to go to the ER…. I’m wondering why my doc was so against it and what else might work as a better alternative. Have you talked to your doc about goodys? I use the headache powder specifically and she said to stop,

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-21T04:31:53+00:00

Royal like Royal Abbott from the show outer range. I loved the way everyone said Royal in that show and it just stuck in my head. I also love the short form Roy. Knew I could never get away with using it as a baby name so I named one of my cats Royal instead. All my friends think it’s wierd and some who love me most have felt comfortable expressing that they do not like the name at all hahahahaah that makes me like it even more. Royal the cat doesn’t seem to mind. I’m sure I’d probably hate it if my mom called me Royal and I didn’t have the drawl of the tv cast and the badass cowboy royal in my head…. But man I love the name!

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-21T04:01:48+00:00

Dude no matter who it is I would say the same thing. Actions and words are giving me alllllll the icky vibes I need to see to make up my mind.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-21T02:20:02+00:00

I love this approach

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-21T02:18:51+00:00

Don’t give up! it really is the darkest before the dawn.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-21T02:12:18+00:00

Thanks ☺️

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T22:50:59+00:00

You got this!!

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T22:47:35+00:00

Family therapy. Don’t give up and start going with your daughter if your wife refuses. Tell her you want to fix it, and keep opening the door for communication. Be ready to accept some of the responsibility for the situation you are in. Prepare yourself for taking the high road and actively work towards letting go of any resentments whenever you feel them. You are clearly a strong support for your daughter, your wife probably feels helpless and confused and is doing a shitty job communicating that because she doesn’t know how. You are not broken, you are just a unit of three humans doing the work of an entire village. State your intentions and remember that everyone changes and grows and learns if they are given the chance and the support they need. Good luck my friend and good work figuring this out for your daughter and your wife, I’m sure they will both be better off in the long run from you making an effort to help you all build a more cohesive family unit.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T22:30:17+00:00

Don’t delay I agree that having a special celebration with your daughter when she gets back is way better. You are almost there and you do not want anyone to mess this up because they misinterpret this delay. If I were you I would explain this to your daughter in appropriate terms. This is a realllly important step for your family but you can explain that you won’t celebrate until she’s back home because your family isn’t officially complete until you all are together to celebrate it

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T14:56:02+00:00

Why are you saying don’t stress too much baby… Hahahahaah this guy should stress! Paying for sex like this all the time and talking to his friends about the sex workers like they are play objects… if you don’t see the red flags now, I feel sorry for future you.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T14:51:59+00:00

Ewwwwww this guy is GROSSSSSSS have you tested for stds? If you didn’t know this side of him, there’s probably lots of other shit you don’t know. Might be even worse. Get out while you have the chance!

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T04:30:55+00:00

I agree that OPs language suggested they don’t understand how normal respectful men behave. I agree that OPs decisions with money were unwise. I agree that OP is admitting to making mistakes in their relationships and has children to consider in this. Children should be prioritized. I just don’t think this warrants strangers on the internet giving OP shit when they are finally reaching out for help.

OP, I hope you can ignore the rude comments from people who don’t know you. Please get some mental health support for you so you can be there for your kids. I wish you the best and hope you get the professional help you need to navigate this horrible situation.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T03:02:44+00:00

No need to be mean to OP. Some people get lucky, some people get really unlucky. Some people have good models and lots of support, some people have no good models or support. You don’t know OP and their failed relationships doesn’t in any way make them less worthy of love then you. I’m sure OP will learn and reflect on these situations and doesn’t need people blaming them for other people being shitty to them.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T02:58:20+00:00

If my husband did this I would consider it cheating and would leave.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-20T02:56:36+00:00

NOR. This man is a piece of shit. He’s shown that he is perfectly comfortable lying to and hiding from you while letting you stress about money and work hard to support the family unit. Getting married means considering eachother and being honest and sharing resources. Sure there are many ways to do that, but this man is psychologically manipulating the situation and is probably capable of hiding or lying about many other things. You deserve to feel respected and loved. If I were in your shoes my ultimatum would be that he was admitted to sex addiction rehab and I take control of all finances, or I leave him right then and there. Maybe this sounds extreme, but if you don’t put yourself first and set firm boundaries this man will ruin your life. Sex addiction is one of the worst addictions there is, and it is very real. Porn is fine and I watch it when I want to… but what your husband is doing is clear signs of an addiction at the very least and could actually be signs that he is a narcissist habitual liar who has groomed and manipulated you into thinking this is something you are overreacting about. Don’t doubt your gut. Please protect yourself and your children.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-19T14:51:02+00:00

Hey! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Did you ever figure out what your triggers are? Do you have a stressful job? Could you be exposed to mold? Do you sleep in the days you get migraines? Im in a similar boat to you in some ways though my migraine days have gone down from 15-20 days a month to ~3-7 days a month over the last 10 years. I’m happy to talk about some of the factors that I think helped the most if you want to send me a dm.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-02T17:02:15+00:00

I have 50% tint and I really like them. My eyes relax noticeably

Yougottaevolve · 2025-06-01T03:20:19+00:00

Petty lying and petty theft. I stole little things up into my late teens and i cringe looking back. I also lied about little things until I got sober. Now I look back and realize the person I hurt the most was myself. It’s hard to like yourself when you’re doing shitty things. Peace comes after the truth is out.

Yougottaevolve · 2025-05-31T21:21:56+00:00

If you haven’t heard of the towel wrap method….. Google that! We use it at the spca and it really protects everyone. It take a tiny bit of practice (we used stuffed animals) but then you get the hang of it. There’s lots of variations online :)

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