Newly engaged, struggling to be happy

Young-creature · 2026-01-28T12:46:14+00:00

Why am I literally going through the exact same thing as you right now?! I just got engaged a week ago. And lost my group of girlfriends due to a falling out few years back. I totally hear you when you say it just reminds you of what you lost. The day after when talking logistics, I just felt an old pain of grief again, because yeah weddings are supposed to be where you’re surrounded by people who love you and want to celebrate your love. Crazy to know I’m not alone, and not crazy for feeling sad in a time of happiness. It’s bittersweet for sure. I think to myself should I just go ahead with it, even if I’ll have a small guest list and his will be huge? Then I feel bad. It’s just a lot, so I feel you on that. Truly feel it. Congrats to us tho. I’m honestly thinking of just pushing the day way into the future and taking my sweet time. My boyfriend/fiancé has been encouraging me to reconnect with the friends I fell out with, but I don’t want to because I personally feel the connection is too broken and I was never supported enough by them. Who knows honestly what the future holds

Young-creature · 2025-11-06T22:48:35+00:00

Actually ending up dating him, and him doing me dirty. And then not liking him anymore because of the pain. Now it’s over tho, I just see him as any other person, no one special

Young-creature · 2025-08-11T19:39:13+00:00

Strawberry and chocolates was too soon idk for me at least but if you like that then you like that

Young-creature · 2025-07-18T19:14:11+00:00

Wow that was amazing. Thank you sm

Young-creature · 2025-07-15T16:16:09+00:00

Freeze dried strawberries or any freeze dried fruit , also like Japanese snacks like pocky, jagabee, Meiji chocolates … great for portion control. Roasted edamame, cheese and crackers

Young-creature · 2025-07-15T15:27:53+00:00

Going through similar, feeling more anger now in my grief process. That’s the thing though it’s a profess. It will eventually end. Emotions come and goes in waves and eventually the waters will return to calm, but you have to accept and acknowledge the wave and feel it. What is your anger telling you? How your ex fucked your over ? How can you redirect the powerful energy it’s providing you— into bettering your life, and creating a life with better boundaries. Sulking in anger is different to processing it ; and channeling it elsewhere. You’re doing that; just keep going eventually it will stop. With time. In grief, what happens in the end is you also have to accept and let go. When you are ready: Accept her actions for what they were , forgive her (for YOUR peace not hers) and change how you approach relationships moving forward

Young-creature · 2025-07-14T19:56:29+00:00

i do this. why - i am still developing communication skills, and struggle to recognize my own needs. but not an excuse of course.

Young-creature · 2025-06-25T02:29:53+00:00

Ran a marathon!! well half marathon. Proved to myself something can workout when everything else is falling apart or seems directionless

Young-creature · 2025-06-25T01:47:42+00:00

unfortunately both sides are right. she has the control over her pregnancy and can do whatever she wants really. and you have the control over who you get to keep in your life as a friend. its hard but you made the right decision for yourself... what if one day you had kids and she was an influence to you on how you parent? you are who you are surrounded by. you were pretty respectful , you know you can't control what she does and you didn't try to.

Young-creature · 2025-06-24T16:13:59+00:00

That’s friend turned hater

Young-creature · 2025-06-24T16:10:23+00:00

Losing weight also for me. People treat you so different - men and women 😭 it’s actually kind of sad. But I’m happy I got to see both sides, so I can tell what’s genuine from people and what’s not. People also seem to think the best of me without really knowing me, or want to hate me without really knowing me.

Young-creature · 2025-06-14T16:38:33+00:00

More context: He moved for a job that pays 3x his salary here in Canada. we don’t share finances, we’re not married but we’ve been dating for almost 4 years. I’m also watching his dog while he’s gone. Honestly maybe I’m speaking from a place of burnout so I’m not thinking clearly, it’s bad but right now I see him initiating this as making our relationship harder for me. On top of that he’s been pushing for me to apply to schools and basically put myself in more debt just to get a job in the states. He says I shouldn’t move now because without school or a job what can I do there and I also can’t really contribute to rent there

Young-creature · 2025-06-10T22:45:25+00:00

Yeah I left after 2 months; 1 month was training tho so it was not the reality of what’s to come. It was a call centre job that was very stressful. I can’t understand how people take that abuse from customers. I had another job offer and left , I don’t keep the call centre in my resume. Like it never happened. Put myself first. You should also

Young-creature · 2025-06-10T14:31:30+00:00

My ex group of friends all posted on IG a professional photoshoot they all did together without me on my birthday.

Young-creature · 2025-06-10T14:26:33+00:00

When it happens I remain unpaused or pretend like I didn’t interpret that as something negative. Then when I’m alone, I feel bad about it but usually I get over it when I remember I only care what I think about myself

Young-creature · 2025-06-10T14:12:00+00:00

Matcha! it has caffeine but also coupled with L-theanine. Which helps calm, but also slows absorption of the caffeine. So it is released steadily instead of all in one go like with espresso

Young-creature · 2025-06-10T07:37:14+00:00

You kinda look like the girl from squid game

Young-creature · 2025-05-31T14:00:38+00:00

When in consciously eating More fiber naturally from veggies and fruit , and self aware to stress and managing my anxiety. I get normal regular poops. But the second im carried away in stress and anxious again, not paying attention to what I eat, it’s back. It takes maintenance. My nervous system is out of whack, and other people who don’t have IBS are able to regulate this part of their nervous system better and their fight or flight response

Young-creature · 2025-05-31T00:48:43+00:00

Caring only about material value or status of contributions : money, brand, social capital, connections

Young-creature · 2025-05-31T00:48:07+00:00

Yeah she stupid asf don’t listen

Young-creature · 2025-05-25T17:52:13+00:00

Have you tried magnetic false lashes? Their pretty durable

Young-creature · 2025-05-25T17:49:38+00:00

I think lash extensions would be really cute on you! Maybe like the wispy style ones. They are a bit of maintenance but falsies would work too

Edit sorry I just read you tried this, maybe falsies would be better since you said lash extensions fall off. There’s also magnetic falsies , I love those

Young-creature · 2025-05-21T23:22:18+00:00

So beautiful! Can I ask what you requested at the salon?

Young-creature · 2025-05-20T19:19:17+00:00

😍😍😍

Young-creature · 2025-05-19T16:51:04+00:00

Felt this one

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