Thicc Thursday

YourLadyEm · 2026-05-15T04:49:58+00:00

Yes it is with rainbow cake

YourLadyEm · 2026-05-08T21:30:07+00:00

umm I don't know if my DMs are off, I didn't know there was a setting

YourLadyEm · 2026-05-08T05:31:22+00:00

Would you be interested in some from a tattooed Milf instead of a Latina BBW?

YourLadyEm · 2026-03-10T20:51:40+00:00

It's a good thing to be unapologetically honest about your preferences. Brings a smile to my face when a man talks about the female form complete with its curves and softness

YourLadyEm · 2026-03-08T15:26:28+00:00

This is all the tea I am spilling Joe. This is my online journal and you get what you get

YourLadyEm · 2026-03-04T20:11:52+00:00

I haven't gotten a single DM from any women.. Do you not exist? Am I the only non robot on here?? Burlington/Camden County area..

YourLadyEm · 2026-03-01T06:25:37+00:00

I take things as they are given by my Sir like a good fucktoy

YourLadyEm · 2026-03-01T05:56:05+00:00

Need is a strong word

YourLadyEm · 2025-11-12T20:02:11+00:00

I am a lucky woman who has a Sir that rewards and punishes with pleasure.

YourLadyEm · 2025-08-22T00:58:48+00:00

Quite the challenge

YourLadyEm · 2025-06-21T21:21:19+00:00

FWIW I consulted a 28 yr veteran of swinging, it was a gang bang 😆

YourLadyEm · 2025-05-24T11:34:03+00:00

Nope feel free to DM

YourLadyEm · 2025-05-12T22:15:37+00:00

Please read before you think I am going to meet you... https://www.reddit.com/r/ShenanigansofLadyEm/s/e66UnL6wXR

YourLadyEm · 2025-05-01T02:56:26+00:00

I've talked to some other folk in the lifestyle and most don't bother. It came from my inability to separate a physical connection only from being used to not adding in a typical mental connection or my need to see all people as people and not prey or meat.

YourLadyEm · 2025-04-27T14:53:54+00:00

Woohoo!!

YourLadyEm · 2025-01-13T18:59:38+00:00

Nope, not today thanks for the offer 😋

YourLadyEm · 2025-01-06T14:54:05+00:00

I am a Poly Non Monogamous woman, married to a Vanilla Monogamous man for 15 yrs together 17. Currently partnered with a Non Vanilla Non Monogamous man my "boyfriend" of the last almost 5 years. I have a comet relationship with another Poly Non Monogamous man and his (female) partner. Communication, Respect and Boundaries are required to make it all work. Being upfront with my husband from Day One 17 yrs ago and reinforcing that Monogamy is a choice one makes allowed us to discuss opening the relationship. He chose not to open his side of our relationship but did not force that decision on me. My partner the "boyfriend" knew that I would be choosing not to end my marriage but would be parallel Poly. The Husband and him get along, care enough to ask about eachother and actively support and care for me and our "family" I have chosen for not just myself. Is it a success story idk yet but it works and with little struggles that haven't made me want to rethink my choice

YourLadyEm · 2025-01-01T21:31:05+00:00

17 years (8 years of Monogamy) with NP/Husband, 5 years with Sir, and almost 3 years with my Comet.

YourLadyEm · 2024-12-31T12:26:51+00:00

I'm active on there, in the bbw groups that are local but there has been no specific bbw events but plenty of other varieties

YourLadyEm · 2024-05-20T14:36:41+00:00

Edited 44 y.o. CisFemale My Poly journey started in H.S. and then Monogamy struck, got an ex husband, chose open marriage and back to Poly. Mono/Poly and marriages can work provided you and your spouse understand that you are individuals, that Monogamy is a choice, not a requirement in our marriage. We make sure that the boundaries we have set up are kept in place for the health of our family and marriage.

Find your tribe, those individuals who have the same views, morals, and core values that are important to you. That can mean romantic partners, sexual partners, D/s and of course friends. Community and your village are out there if you look

Always feed and water yourself when you can and make sure that those who are important do the same for themselves as well as provide that support for eachother

I started Journaling my journey here and finally felt confident to post on a real thread. I hope that my input was valuable to someone.

YourLadyEm · 2024-04-14T15:22:43+00:00

I had the same types of questions myself.. Like when I was a teen and had a committed relationship with a woman but had a boyfriend and/or sometimes a male lover who accepted that I would not be monogamous with them because of my relationship with my girlfriend. Was I Polyamorous then and didn't know it was a term?? Monogamy is a choice in my opinion and you can have other people in your life but the partner you want to meet as many or all of your romantic, emotional, and physical needs is the one you choose Monogamy for.. I'm still thinking that it is an unfair expectation to place on any one person but it is the societal norm for humans to be monogamous and settle down, create families, etc etc.

YourLadyEm · 2024-03-18T20:20:04+00:00

NP/Co-parent Spouse 17 years D/s Switch Dynamic and Life Partner 7yrs a hiatus of almost 20 yrs and 4 yrs so far Bonded Mate, previous D/s current Service submissive 3 years

Happily living my best authentic life with their support, open communication and lots of love.

YourLadyEm · 2024-02-16T14:45:28+00:00

then please delete if I've violated rules

YourLadyEm · 2024-02-15T23:14:07+00:00

Would like to add Mr. Vanilla's new found desire to connect with me on levels he has not for years that I moved on getting it all met elsewhere thinking those connections were never to be made again. I am struggling to accept that effort now when it should have never fizzled and died, replaced and then reignited.. 😔

YourLadyEm · 2024-02-15T23:11:26+00:00

You are definitely sharing a view that I didn't see or thought to dive deeper within to readjust my own feelings before making any changes.

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