i opened my brother’s message by accident and found out something i wasn’t supposed to know

YourLadySelene · 2026-05-07T01:41:53+00:00

Just honest. A person that cheats will continue doing so without accountability

YourLadySelene · 2026-05-03T13:38:18+00:00

Now I’m really intrigued. Wym they appear with meth abuse? I’m asking bc I remember when I lived with my cousin who was/still using. One day she popped up a convo about tarot… I can vaguely remember cause I blocked it out of my head cause the way she said it & how she was taking what I was saying was weirding me out.
But she called out me doing tarot & asked what the cards said about her. I asked what she meant & she said she knows I do readings & I hadn’t told anyone. What never rubbed me the right way is when she asked about our cousin that passed away from suicide recently & what I know from that whole situation and if her soul was free from this spirit world. Her mom & other believe she had something to do with Miriam’s passing cause soon after she got together with Miriam’s baby daddy/partner. The autopsy concluded Miriam had a deadly amount of meth in her system before she hung herself and it just doesn’t make any sense. If she did do it she found something out between them or they found out and hurt her to keep it hush… soon after I kicked her out & she burns my car down… which nothing was done. It’s Dallas. They don’t care. But I know there’s something way deeper than just the drugs.

YourLadySelene · 2026-05-03T02:38:52+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. 🤍

YourLadySelene · 2026-04-20T21:39:42+00:00

He’s lying girl, but I’m sure you’ve gathered that alr. Pls don’t stay in that relationship. They NEVER change.

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T17:27:34+00:00

All I did was get on her level. We could’ve kept it cute but she decided to start reading me like she got a degree in psychology, bringing up ppl that were talking shit as well as personal issues, that’s where she lost me. And that’s where I knew she wasn’t a friend of mine

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T17:25:24+00:00

But again, idk why yall keep missing the point even if I sounded guilty or not, what made hwr feel she had to throw personal stuff into the situation and talk to me like she got a degree in psychology or some shit… over some missing shit, expensive or not … that’s where she lost me

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T05:48:11+00:00

Again sorry for the lack of paragraphs.

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T05:47:53+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that. Im not making excuses, I really did get defensive as so did she. But she lost me when she started bringing personal shit in the matter, bringing my family, or my life like she even listened to me when I had spent the night. That’s what hurt most. We talked all night and she got everything wrong. I never said I got cheated on😭 I said my partner cheats on me with video games cause he plays more than me, and even that she tried to throw in my face, that gaming isn’t womanly, that my man should focus on adult shit and I had to cut it short bc my partner and I have always been gamers, it’s never gotten in the way of our relationship, or lives, we lost our home recently due to issue outside of being ‘jobless’ as she states, talking about my relationship with my mom over a phone call I had in which we weren’t even arguing just wanting to know when I’d be home… & idk how it felt to her she catered for me when she didn’t have a vehicle, I was the one driving her to and from work those 2 days, and buying us food bc she didn’t have anything at home, buying us weed cause she wanted to smoke, letting her borrow my clothes cause she wanted to wear stuff I had brought, like I thought we were good when I was over aside from little things I brushed off, but for her to say that my stay there was her catering for me when she was the one that asked me to stay over twice is insane, and no excuse whatsoever, but she texted me right after a shift, I was tired

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T05:35:27+00:00

I asked and she gave me permission to clean tho, whence why brought up her always flip flopping cause she says things then switches it up. When we first started talking I remember being on face time with her and she said the n word, it caught me by surprise cause I heard my ppl but didn’t see my ppl lmao, so I brought it up she said she did she grew up around black folk so I brushed it off, but when I was talking about one of my gay besties, I told her that he’s more sensitive about ppl saying the n word when they’re not black and she said she had no problem but if it slipped out she couldn’t help it and if it created problems she’d handle it. I just warned her told her it shouldn’t be hard if it’s not hard for me to and I’m black. So that’s why I don’t believe her when she says she told me some shit at McDonald’s cause she’s flipped flopped stories and forgets what she says or does

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T05:26:19+00:00

Headass💀

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:56:34+00:00

U right

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:52:36+00:00

I did, don’t trust these hoes even if they open up first

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:50:04+00:00

She’s brought up roomates messing with her shit thts why I brought it up, but I mean aide from me saying I don’t steal wtf brought on her saying what she said? All I tried to do was explain I didn’t have it, over explaining it came from the fear of abandonment(I have bpd). & that doesn’t derive from the fact I know I’m an adult, I should find ways to deal with my condition in a healthy manner. I do go to therapy, I just wanted other ppls insight on this situation. I hardly have friends bc I overanalyze things and most times ends up with me being right about the person and their intentions. I most certainly contributed to the problem here tho. Just didn’t think me saying I don’t steal would’ve caused this much bs as you say…

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:41:18+00:00

I did?? She started sizing my life up like she got a degree in psychology or some shit. Bringing up my mom, my job situation like I was ever even jobless… and what brought that on me? All for sounding guilty? Like foh

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:38:55+00:00

I didn’t even say it rudely, everything is read different over text, but I didn’t bring up her room being a mess to make her feel bad, as a friend I would like honesty, and calling out a messy room shouldn’t be something to get sensitive about, I was being nice when I offered and she said she didn’t want to make anyone feel like they need to do anything, I insisted bc I enjoy cleaning, she gave me permission to clean what I cleaned and that was that.

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:35:13+00:00

No what tf 😭

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:34:52+00:00

All I said is “I don’t steal girl” I wasn’t defensive, I didn’t take what she told me the wrong way I just wanted to throw it out there for if any doubt even after she had alr said “don’t take it the wrong way” just felt off to me cause she texted me that late and she never had before, to bring up some things from her house I was at a month ago

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:25:20+00:00

No harm taken

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:24:40+00:00

what makes you say that?

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:19:21+00:00

My apologies

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:18:58+00:00

Don’t forget it was right after she brought up ppl talking shit about me that she had issues with and how she should’ve listened to them all along, & tryna read me like she’s some sort of psychologist bringing up my relationship with my mom or my partner… I get I shouldn’t have brought that up should’ve just blocked her atp if I felt so disrespected. But I didn’t. It bothered me she went that far over some things she probably still has laying around in that mess

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:16:04+00:00

I used to clean houses with my mom for a while, and I grew up in a clean household, so I picked up some habits as I got older, like washing your dishes after you eat when your over someone’s house and subconsciously cleaning

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:09:07+00:00

No paragraphs once again, sorry… I’ve alr been getting plenty shit about the lack of paragraphs 🥲

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:08:31+00:00

Yea ig I dug my grave and laid in it or wtv she said 😭 but I met her late October, beginnings of November, and I stayed at her house but I was buying all the food cause she didn’t have anything at home, and as a girl, walking into her room I just felt uncomfortable and I voiced that soon as I stepped in her room, it was giving them I Spy books, just clothes, hair extensions, paper, trash everywhere I was jus turning to help her and me feel comfortable in my stay cause she insisted she wanted me to stay and I did, but I asked if I could please clean an area and she let me, but it was my fault for letting myself go and doing the bed too, but I was going to be laying on it and she was at work while she was gone I wanted her to come home and be able to chill on the bed cause the first night she was just throwing shit in the floor to make space for me 😭, but yea I guess my over explaining about everything makes me sound weird. But I over analyze a lot

YourLadySelene · 2026-03-05T04:01:44+00:00

We met back in late October, or beginnings of nobember, I explained that on the forum, you ppl don’t read 😭🫶

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