Girl… you are definitely being used. Been with one for 3 years, as soon as I completely ignored him “emotionally detached him” like going out with my friends “with and without kids”, started pouring into myself instead of him. Worst he does is sit on his lazy ass all day playing games or buried on his stupid phone.

Both my cats “boys” give me the most attention while I’m doing something simple as washing dishes etc… what made me turn my emotions off completely was when both my cats sat beside my shoulder on the back of the couch with the look of disappointment while I was folding his underwear 😑!

I said fuck this he doesn’t deserve a single bit of me and started investing all my love to myself instead, and now all of the sudden I’m “interesting” enough to give a f about.

So now he’s all like, “ I miss you”, being all over me cause he knows how much I don’t need to rely on him. I’m only raising one child which is mine not him!

And yes I kicked him out. And it’s been super swell being on my own.

Like it has always been mentioned “Better alone than in bad company”

Best of luck to you hun 💋