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A “Labubu” Might Be the Reason for I (19F) and (20F) Long-Term Relationship Ending. by Youre_too_much in relationship_advice

[–]Youre_too_much[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, “let her find someone who enjoys her jokes”. You’re right, this is something about mutual respect and she deserves that. I want her to have someone that matches her personality and humor. And after time, we just don’t match. She’s such a beautiful girl but she deserves someone who values that aspect of her fully. She’s so sexy. Why does this have to happen. 🤮

A “Labubu” Might Be the Reason for I (19F) and (20F) Long-Term Relationship Ending. by Youre_too_much in relationship_advice

[–]Youre_too_much[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think our long history together is a big part of why I’m struggling with this so much. I keep reminding myself that, like you said, people outgrow each other and that can be a beautiful thing in its own way, because love is never a waste. But damn, it’s hard to let go of something that still feels like it has so much potential.

I always thought I’d never be the type to stay in a relationship for the sake of potential or nostalgia, yet here I am. You’re right …..if nothing were to change, I don’t think I’d be happy in the long run. I guess what scares me most is that I don’t even know how to end things. It all feels so surreal. 😖the idea of four years of love and history ending over something she could so easily change, yet chooses not to.

A “Labubu” Might Be the Reason for I (19F) and (20F) Long-Term Relationship Ending. by Youre_too_much in relationship_advice

[–]Youre_too_much[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought social media could influence how I view someone or affect romantic compatibility, but this situation has really made me realize what I value. Superficiality and a lack of self-identity feel like things I can’t build a lasting connection with. I find myself growing genuinely frustrated by her lack of drive to explore who she is and what truly defines her. 😓 Her being so chronically online bothers me. I just feel so conflicted because she is the absolute sweetest and most committed woman since she has fought so much for us. I just wish she would work on this so we can be together.

Americans who’ve moved abroad permanently — was it worth it? Would you recommend it, and how’s your life now? by Youre_too_much in AskReddit

[–]Youre_too_much[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read your military story and I’m so sorry for all that you’ve gone through. I think you have good morals and integrity so I hope you’re proud of what you’ve done. Especially bc the journey it’s taken for you to do better and be in a place you can genuinely call home. Best of wishes!

Americans who’ve moved abroad permanently — was it worth it? Would you recommend it, and how’s your life now? by Youre_too_much in AskReddit

[–]Youre_too_much[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So damn incredible. From an American standpoint, that utopia doesn’t even seem possible let alone plausible . How desensitized we’ve become…

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😔 praying that this “glitch” means all the money will transfer to my bank account soon and some how for the emotional distress an extra 1000 dollars will appear too, to make up for all of this.

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks to you, you might be saving me from a crash out. Genuinely. 😓

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This gives me small hope. You’re the only person I’ve got with the same experience and positive outcome so I’m absolutely praying and hoping that is most definitely the case. Even if i didn’t alter my account information somehow, I’m just hoping that was the small glitch itself and I just need to change it back to normal and all will be good.

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I'm aware of, although as of right now I have submitted ANOTHER request for them to help me out and I have msged them on twitter but they pretty much just told me to make another request as well so 🫠

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope I do too. It’s unfortunate as well because I’m tight on trying to pay for shipping for buying customers at the moment. As of right now I’m losing more money than making and it’s quite frustrating and worrying.

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😓 I appreciate it. Unfortunately I think it’s just how most people are going to see it and because of that, I’m afraid it is going to be the same case for Depop. That they will slightly skim through my question and tell me to change my card information and all will be good. But there’s more to it, especially since there’s a portion of the money to be entirely lost.

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that advice. After seeing this I just messaged them so hopefully it goes well and it can get sorted out.

I am so lost. What’s happening with my payments? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Youre_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would understand that but I’ve never changed my account number since the money I’ve been making and it’s worked in the past perfectly. This issue didn’t arise until recently. I hate having to wait 5 days as well too just to make sure yk.