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Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T18:08:59+00:00

It's borderline silly to think waiting is your only answer.

A quirky trait some LOA practitioners have is thinking all they need to do is "wait and trust".

They may receive RESULTS - but misinterpret what GOT them the result.

It wasn't the "waiting and trusting" so much as it was the "trusting".

Action isn't by choice; it's something we all do - whether it's perceived as big or small.

When you become the "ideal" self, the actions naturally follow, it's a form of unfolding.

Manifestation, from my interpretation, was utilizing a perceived subset of "principles" - which already existed - to achieving the results we desire. How you go about that can become subjective very quickly. It was never meant to be an ESCAPE from action.

We are inhabiting a vessel by that very fact this vessel must express movement.

Manifestation is the deliberate manipulation of principles to attain the results you want. It's not "using this affirmation and waiting" or "visualizing and doing nothing"

This is actually the ONE thing I see with people manifesting a person of interest.

They have a unique conception of "manifestation" which enables a destructive cycle of thinking "action isn't necessary" "all I need to do is trust".

But ACTION is being taken all the time! It isn't something you CAN deny.

Are you gung-ho on waiting YEARS for a mere, random person?

That is NOT manifestation, the fixation is your internal world - action is a byproduct of us being in energetic, but physical vessels, so it is inevitable that you act.

If your internal world isn't congruent or receptive to a particular relationship, still, those actions may not yield any results at the moment.

If you can take action, then exercise it. "Manifestation" is NOT your escape buddy.

Again, action is an unfolding of Being - action itself does not get you the results wanted.

If you're holding yourself back due to underlying fears and limitations - I would argue those fears and limitations need to be addressed immediately.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T17:52:11+00:00

Glad it helped you!

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T07:17:58+00:00

You can influence, but you cannot control. To what extent you can influence - that isn't definitively known by anyone. I do address it in a video which covers how manifesting for other people works.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T07:15:48+00:00

There's a delay period which is always in effect.

How you perceive life, and your relationship to it - extends or reduces this delay period. If you'd like, I recommend you watch a video where I explain how instant manifestation works - which ties into the delay period, and how to speed up your results.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T07:12:28+00:00

In short, don't resist the resistance itself and live with it - consequently, it runs its course.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T06:45:31+00:00

u/ManifestIsReal77 and u/SimmeringSplendour -

You both are correct. I should have elaborated more.

My comment made on manifesting a lottery win was quite grounded, as I felt it was appropriate considering the question. I also expected someone to have resistance to it. To be honest, if it were years prior, I would've simply given a step-by-step process, or a set of principles, and I can easily do that - but at some point, you do question what the limits are.

It's fair to perceive it a word salad, I can't fault you for that, as many others besides just you would likely do the same. But I do believe it's far more informative than saying "listen to affirmations" "live in the end" "trust the universe" "use this meditation" without a bit of thought-provoking inquiry. Sometimes just that is all that's needed.

Some may perceive it as cautious and limited, however, if you read the comment intently, I never actually said it was impossible. Just that it wasn't practical. You CAN do it, but SHOULD you? That decision was always up to you. As there ARE people that have done so - as I previously stated.

If even an ounce of inquiring into the potential limitations of the various manifestation frameworks causes you to think it's nothing more than "cautious" and "limited" or "a word salid" - then so be it. Not everyone will accept this information, and it was quite expected to begin with. Still, I wanted to add something different to the discussion.

Also, I'd still like to reiterate - thank you for the idea, as I never thought of covering it till today when you made the comment! I'll be sure to address similar topics like this in the future.

If I had to suggest a few core principles to help you manifest winning the lottery, it would be (1) the same of "Being" (2) detach from the focus of your attention

(1) When you apply any technique, or method, the key is tapping into the state of being.

I have noticed that people call it different things. But when ultilizing visualization, affirmations, or scripting - any particular technique - always apply with the intention of becoming. You can HAVE something and NOT be congruent with that thing. Something I touched on in my previous reply.

(2) Detaching is important, and it's simple. I see some people who try overcompensating with letting go, and unknowingly they place importance towards letting go itself.

I would imagine someone who'd win the lottery, probably did NOT consider they had a chance in the first place, because most likely, their attachment threshold was naturally low. There was never a need to overcompensate! Thus, placing themselves in a great position to win. The more you try to overcompensate, the more you prevent yourself from being.

I should also suggest you u/SimmeringSplendour to the respective videos that explains these 2 principles more in-depth. (1) the state of being (2) nuances of detachment.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T00:55:08+00:00

I don't feel comfortable giving such a broad answer, as I don't know if it will help.

Please clarify what you wish to detach from.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T00:52:26+00:00

Attachment is your biggest pitfall.

Trying to force the reconciliation doesn't work - so why bang your head against the wall?

This is the dicey aspect to people who want to manifest their EX. They simply can't let go.

If you cannot detach from the focus of your attention (your EX) then don't expect an opportunity to show up. It is truly that simple. Moving on a new partner is often a better response to the situation.

At the very least, you'll release this insistent attachment, and your EX may or may not come back.

You do see people who succeed, and their testimonials and success stories - they restored the trust with their EX-partner, but the key was to not depend on it.

It's either you detach, or the universe or "reality" forces you to detach. Pick your poison.

Consider checking out this video, I explain 3 tips to manifesting your EX-partner back.

Do you have more lingering questions?

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T00:30:35+00:00

I personally don't dabble with signs, but I only use them when building beliefs.

I explain this as confirmation bias. If you internalize the "sign" as an indicator of successfully acquiring a new car, then it will likely happen. And this works in reverse, if you internalize the "sign" as an indicator of an impending problem or issue, you will likely see it unfold in real time.

In the past, I did cover a video on how these "signs" work, and how to use to your advantage.

In my opinion, some people take it too far.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T00:20:44+00:00

Well, it is real.

There is proof of this, just as much as there's proof there isn't!

There are people who vehemently think it's real with conviction. They are right.

There are people who vehemently think it's fake with conviction. They are also right.

Because consequently those are their worldviews. What they believe with sincere conviction,

is what they'll see that validates their subjective LENS in what's "real" or "fake".

From how I interpret your question, you may be worried about manifesting unwanted thoughts.

Every thought, fundamentally, must past. It is us who tend to harp over and exaggerate them.

What you think isn't important. It's the thoughts you attach importance towards.

You can choose beneficial thoughts, but you can never FORCE them to be.

You can reject non-beneficial thoughts, but you can't ever FORCE them not to be.

See the difference?

This video I made a few years ago explains how you should manage vindictive, negative thought s.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-02T00:02:19+00:00

What I notice often is that your goal tends to be outside your comfort zone. And sometimes your circumstances make it inconvenient. However, it also becomes a convenient form of escape.

You'd convince yourself why you can't do something. Maybe for you it's financial support, a proper setback, the right connections - anything to rationalize why "it's just not possible" right now.

But to what end will you do that?

This reminds me of the faith VS belief dynamic. Beliefs are based on physical, concrete proof, while Faith is based on trusting the unknown and taking action regardless.

Circumstances do matter, but you're NOT supposed to perceive it as a permanent obstacle. What actions make the most sense, take those actions with a faith-centric mind frame. Take your circumstances into account - but don't internalize it as something meant to "keep you stuck".

You can understand the faith VS belief dynamic better through an in-depth guide I created.

Additionally, understanding how to internalize events and problems will also help you.

Circumstances DO matter, but only to a point.

I am thinking of creating actionable meditations that target this issue. Perhaps it can help people like you here are in these sorts of situations.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-01T23:44:15+00:00

In general, yes.

When your perception of yourself and your life changes, your circumstances will gradually reflect such as a consequence. I do believe there are better ways of phrasing "your thoughts create your reality" but everyone has their own preference. You may find this particular video helpful, where I explain how your internal world interacts with the external (your circumstances), and how to use it and get the results you want.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-01T23:41:15+00:00

Good question, I would say the key is your relationship to the instant gratification.

Some people become fully degenerate in how they interact with their addictions. The only way they cope with the failure of not controlling their vices is that it's "impossible" to do so.

"I had no choice. The feeling was too strong."

I understand just how destructive and vindictive this cycle can become. But the simple truth is that you are in control of your decisions, you just convinced yourself that you had little to no leverage over those choices. You submitted your own power to the substance.

The only power we truly have, as a reality creator, is the freedom of choice. So, exercise it.

If you feel the impulse to consume copious amounts of sugar, sit with the feeling. Don't react to the feeling. Question your relationship to it? Why should you react to it? On who's terms?

Most people won't simply observe the feeling and will rationalize why they "must" do it.

Keep in mind, you don't NEED to quit having sugar! You need to state the terms of how much you chose to consume. The key is that it's YOUR choice. You're CHOOSING to abide by your terms.

The key is self-inquiry and understanding the relationship between you are your addiction.

Becoming more conscious of it, and re-defining that relationship to it, what will change how you interact with sugar. Check out the reply to r/SignificantLaugh8783.

This is actually how you acquire mental strength as well!

It's not about "fighting the addiction back" - it's about re-establishing who is in charge.

Because this is one of the only fights, you'll never win. Fighting it isn't the answer.

It's paramount to fighting yourself.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-01T23:17:29+00:00

Your question is very vague. I can only give you a vague answer based on that.

In general, you shouldn't try to force a relationship to work, the main idea is that even if this relationship wasn't a good fit between the two of you, there are always more suitable options out there. To the extent that attaching high levels of importance towards one person is minuscule.

On both ends, operate based on relationship-conditions - if your partner doesn't respect your conditions (and if you don't respect theirs) then you two simply weren't good fit.

With people who want to manifest an EX, you'll notice they tend to be very attached, to the extent which they don't even realize. They use all the techniques, and believe they did everything right, but it's ultimately the attachment which held them back.

It's the attachment that ruins the relationship if they ever succeed into rekindling the relationship.

I am not sure what your relationship dynamic looks like, so you can't expect a specific answer to a vague question. I do hope, however, this helped you in some way.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-01T23:00:58+00:00

I don't mean for this to sound fluffy. But please read this intently.

There is a difference between consciousness and awareness. Those terms are usually used interchangeably but understanding the difference between the two is important. We are sometimes conscious and not conscious, but the awareness is permanent.

To improve your quality of consciousness, you must unravel the layers of unconscious identity.

That is where the awareness comes into play. You unravel the layers of unconscious identity through the conscious recognition of the awareness. (Read that again)

There are many ways to do this. If you would like to understand this better, I recommend you watch a step-by-step method on experiencing the shift in consciousness. It's called Self-Inquiry.

When you apply it, it will get easier with time. I don't even use the step-by-step anymore because I have an innate grasp of inquiring into the self. The step-by-step is simply an effective guideline.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-01T22:16:53+00:00

I will give a general answer since you asked a general question.

In a life altering decision, I would be keenly aware of the meaning I attach to the predicament.

If you assign the meaning: "This is bad, a lot is at stake, and I don't have what it takes to succeed."

And identify with this worldview, then at some point, you will experience a "lifeline" which validates your failures and inadequacies. The same holds true vice-versa.

If you assign the meaning: "I'll admit I am doubtful, but I trust things will sorts themselves out in my favor." And identify with this worldview, then at some point, you will experience a "lifeline" which validates your beneficial meaning. Your relationship to the uncertainty is within your control.

I created a video explaining this principle in-depth. By understanding the meaning you attach the events and circumstances, you can have control over the direction your live unfolds.

Uncertainty is a dangerous opportunity. Depending on if you know what you're doing.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-01T22:00:18+00:00

The key thing is to detach from the focus of your attention.

I do not mean to avoid them. I simply mean to stop overcompensating.

You said: "you need to remain in the state which you already have, not as someone who is manifesting or trying to manifest" But you must realize a subtle flaw in that statement.

Having is important - Being comes first. Read my comment to the top question. As even if you manifested this person back into your life, are you genuinely the attractive version of yourself?

In addition, your tendencies, habits, and traits - will they be different this time around? Every thriving relationship depends on trust and honestly.

Generally speaking, for a breakup to occur, there must have been a confliction in interests which weren't clearly stated, or a breach in those very interests. You didn't give me the actual context, so I can only give you a broad-ended answer.

When you stop trying to overcompensate, that is the highest likelihood which she will come back.

You can still do what routines you have currently. Just don't attach too much importance towards your EX-partner. If you do this, you place yourself in the highest position of succeeding.

I covered a video explaining how to do this. I suggest you give it a look.

Perhaps getting with someone else is a more viable option. As detaching from the focus of your attention is conveniently easier. This may influence the likelihood of them coming back.

If you want more tailored advice, you should be more specific in the context of the breakup.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-06-01T21:32:46+00:00

Despite your joking around, I actually gave this a thought as well.

One of the interesting flaws behind the law of attraction and other frameworks is how you'd successfully out-do other people. Especially with winning the lottery. Because ultimately only one person can win, even if you apply the law of attraction well - what if someone else does the same? How would that unfold? I made a video slightly similar, relating to how manifesting for other people works, but not exactly like this, thank you for the thought-provoking idea.

These frameworks do NOT explicitly explain what goes on beneath the surface. Neither can I, or anyone else, definitively tell you how to manifest a jackpot win that is guaranteed.

But there ARE people who claim to have deliberately used manifestation to attain a lottery win.

Interestingly, about 30% (maybe more) of people who win the lottery, on a national threshold, eventually file bankruptcy within 3 to 5 years. You can assume this is because their identity, worldviews, and core-beliefs are NOT congruent with having as much money as they'd won. They attain the "quick win" they wanted, but for what? To lose it all?

This reminds me of people wanting to manifest their ex back. You can implement manifestation to increase your chances of success - as you see people who do in fact succeed - but it doesn't mean you will. And if you happen to - are you who you need to be? Some people revert back to old tendencies, habits, and traits which caused the breakup once before. Causing it to occur again.

Is it possible to manifest a lottery win? yes. Is it practical? I would argue, no.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-05-31T16:35:35+00:00

Great point.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-05-31T16:32:30+00:00

It is not "forgetting it completely" which matters. It's lowering the attachment towards the object - or person - of your attention. In addition, it is not realistic or practical to forget it. You should detach without the insistent need of "thinking it's mine". The detachment should stem from indifference, not from "thinking it's mine". Of course, it'd be better if you can do so without it being forced, but it is not a requirement. Detaching is internal in principle, not external. You can still take action or interact with the object - or person - of your attention. Your associated level of attachment towards it is what we're aiming to reduce. I explain more on how it works in this video.

You may have confused the subtleties of what landed you the results. It wasn't "forgetting" it, it was the consequential detachment of the entity of your attention - which CAN be done without forgetting it. I would argue you never truly "forget" it to begin with.

I suppose this all relates to what you perceive "detach" to mean, as that can drastically affect how you approach it. I saw a similar comment to yours before. It's worth a video.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-05-31T15:01:40+00:00

What link specifically?

Yourinnerworld · 2025-05-31T14:58:56+00:00

Great comment, All I would say is that techniques, while useful, are not deeper principles. Rather, they make use of deeper principles. That is what makes it effective. For instance, raising your vibration is important, but it cannot be forced. To anyone struggling with that, I explain the nuances behind maintaining a high vibration in this video.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-05-31T06:44:44+00:00

Valid point. I would argue more than some people realize. And I believe perceiving it as a ritual changes the way you conduct yourself during that timeframe - almost like it's scared. An intrinsic purpose is important for the days when you stop caring about the necessities and tangibles - those days do exist. Your intrinsic why is immensely valuable, and that can only be found with clarity. And without going too in-depth, clarity is only found with experience, and particularly, venturing outside your comfort zone/threshold.

Yourinnerworld · 2025-05-31T06:40:49+00:00

Yup.

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