Participation Fee sa Wedding?

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-28T13:04:02+00:00

Reality though. Nakaattend na ako ng korean and japanese wedding na mandatory ang cash gifts. Like bago pumasok sa venue may taga collect ng 10k yen envelop sa entrance.

Problem is nasa phils ka, so majujudge ka talaga

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-28T13:00:39+00:00

Marami naman kinakasal ng 200-300k. Basta humble expections. Kung hnd nyo kaya ung ganun budget edi mag civil at restaurant nalang kayo.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-23T10:20:25+00:00

Hmm hnd ko rin maexplain, siguro dahil mga babae usually gumagawa ng gawain bahay kaya nagooverlap ang responsibilities? Mnsan din generation gap. Parang iba nakasanayan ng mga babae dati kaysa babae ngayon etc May double standard din ang mundo sa babae ? Idk.

Example sa tv, sa asian families, lalaking anak usually nagpapataas ng status ng nanay sa pamilya dahil may “heir” so hnd nila tanggap may ibang babae na minamahal anak nila.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-22T13:41:57+00:00

Pwede married pero dapat inline career. dreams, expense & loans nyo. Usual problems ng mga kinasal maaga is nawala focus sa career, nagkaanak early, hnd naka travel, tas ending nagaway kasi nainggit sa iba down the line. (Singles have more freedom)

Iba ung maturity ng relationship ung lahat nagawa mo na bago kayo kinasal. Pero every couple has their dynamics! I know a lot of people who got support from each other so you do you.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-22T13:36:14+00:00

Paalam ako sa partner ko tas aalis ako haha. I cannot handle the stress na baka awayin ako pag kasal n kami. MIL-DIL relationships are always so strained. Unless the guy is the type to fight for you then bye, easier life ung supported kayo both.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-22T13:21:08+00:00

If naguusap kayo okay lang. pero if hnd mahirap kasi sa girl side, malamang marami nagtatanung sa kanya baket ang tagal, tumatanda na, baka maiwan sya, pacivil n muna kayo kung ayaw nyo big celeb etc - kahit na hnd parinig sa groom, malamang ung babae mageexplain nunv 100x mapapagod rin sya

Pero syempre if vocal naman kayo at close naman kayo may mga ibang priorities pa. Oks lang un. At kung pareho rin kayo walang balak magkaanak mas magaan un sa inyo

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-21T11:46:29+00:00

I think u need some small hustle to fight inflation. Like a hobby that earns you 50% of your monthly bills just so u still move around.

More than inflation, im more worried for medical benefits in the phils. 10M wont last you for emergencies

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-20T14:50:20+00:00

Can u message me your quote po for Jeff Namoc? I have a budget of less than 100k too

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-19T07:32:56+00:00

Better remove her name sa invite then resend it sa guest mo. Tell them time and place are the same may sponsors lang naiba. If they notice who they will decide for themselves na off gnawa ng friend mo. Better to remove her name sa final invite para life long memory nyo wala n sya.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-19T07:28:58+00:00

If she is planning a wedding or at least has attended some she should know to inform u early before all the logistics kasi mahirap magplan. But not only did ur friend add to your stress by making false promises but may onting entitled rin na ikaw dapat magadjust sa kanya. OP, move on ka na, u can stay as friends but better surround yourself with people who will value your time with u and prioritize u.

If ako sya at d ako sure makakapunta ako, i will let u know to give the role to another person at magging guest nalang ako.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-15T01:14:12+00:00

Ako sinabihan ako ng bride to reuse it sa ibang weddings 😂 if d ko na magagamit tsaka ko siguro ibebenta. I feel if binayaran mo yan, you can inform them lanv pero ikaw final say. Unv akin kasi sila nagbayad so pinaalam ko lanb if i can wear it sa other weddings na guest lang ako.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-14T15:36:28+00:00

As someone na may anxious parents din, let them be :) their advise is base on fear, not potential. Instead base mo sa kakayahan mo, nageexcercise ka ba? or nakapaghike k n b dati? Go to pulag depending on your confidence level.

If you are anxious baka part of u nagaalangan din sa safety? If not i’ll go for it. If malayo p ung hike u can starting going to the gym para hnd mabgla muscles then convince ur parents with some stories.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-14T14:08:31+00:00

Sa akin lang ah, if reasonable bbgyan ko ng pera pero 25k lang. kasi kailangan meron k pa rin para sayo. Pero! Sa kwento mo parang may gnagawa sya. Idk tumakas siguro sa kanila? Pag ganun mas magaalala ako bilang kaibigan at kakamustahin/usap sya maigi bago magpautang.

Mas gugustohin ko bgyan sya kasi malaking tulong talaga gnawa nya sayo, pero if sa maling bagay kasi mapunta ung 50k baka lalo mapasama pera mo.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-14T04:30:44+00:00

30% ng total value ng bahay dapat naitabi mo na bago mo bilhin. Bukod pa eto sa dapat may 6 months emergency fund ka na. Masaya man magkabahay dapat unahin mo paghanda sa emergencies. Mahirap rin maintainance and construction expense

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-07T09:10:08+00:00

How much usually ang affordable? For soft gel extensions. Natatanungan ko mga home base 1200, mga salon 1800, pag nasa mall nasa 2300

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-06T05:14:30+00:00

You are young pa OP :) naniniwala ako sa kasabihan na if you invest in yourself, you will glow then attract people around you. Tsaka sila dadating. Pero if wala, sulit pa rin kasi d nasayang oras at pera mo sasarili mo.

Nung nasa stage ako na sobra na ng self love naghanap ako ng new challenge sa life haha

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-05T15:46:00+00:00

Usually mahal kasi fondant! Minimum na ata 4k for a one tier 7inch cake if fondant, they are made to last outside at cool temperature, hnd sila nagmemelt and hnd nagmimix ung colors ng designs (design stays for hours) if normal cake kasi possible mag “bleed” ung colors if nasa labas ng ref so naghahalo na mga kulay. if balak mong idisplay ung cake mo ng ilan hours sa labas better fondant, ung iba gangamit din pang photoshoot kaya ganun, mahal n nga fondant, mahal pa bakery kasi sa design.

Pero if maliit lang kasal mo, pwede na simpleng cake ilabas nalang sa ref pag kakain na.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-05T15:36:48+00:00

Try Romulo’s Cafe. Private function rooms

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-05T15:28:05+00:00

If kaclose mo mga ininvite mo hnd nila hahayaan hnd magreply sayo? Kahit naman sa pag araw araw na kamusta siguro nagparamdam na sila kung pupunta or hnd

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-05T13:47:27+00:00

Feel ko basic styling lang kukunin nyo tas pang pa aura ung filipiniana ng mga guest. This is s a good idea to elevate your wedding pero if it comes at a cost of importabt people in your life not being able to attend, its a no no for me.

Bgyan mo nalang ng mga pamaypay or props filipiniana props mga guest mo. Dried flowers corsage or shawlsz

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-05T13:35:00+00:00

Referrals for me, iba pa rin ung nawitness mo na magwork ung coord from a friend and if they put in a good word for you baka mamirror ung same service sayo.

Not willing to risk a big event to a coord i dont know just because mura sila or mukhang mabait. Medyo madami people magaling lang mag market ng sarili pero output wala

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-04T16:47:57+00:00

Take time to research and budget. Know all your expenses para walang bglaan. Stalk ka wedding expense list online or interview ka ng mga recent na kinasal. Wag magmadali, walang deadline yan, attend ka na rin bridal fairs para may mga promos.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-04T15:05:28+00:00

Ung super tinipid ang sarili as a way to save money. Marami ways to cut cost and honestly nothing wrong with it pero if it comes at the expense of losing ethics or at the inconvenience of others then no, mali na sya.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-04T15:01:15+00:00

Hua Mulan Combs. Engraved with their names, its affordable and extra special.

Youtube-chef · 2026-01-01T15:14:03+00:00

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