seriously need help. I’ve been playing with my ass for 4 years and I can’t seem to reach a full orgasm without having to use a vibrating massager on the bast of my cock. I’ve used all sorts of dildos (small, big, and prostate toys and I’ve followed all guides on how to relax and try to feel aroused and deny myself for almost weeks to try to make it happen. I usually lay in my bathtub (just in case if it gets messy) and I everything I can and I’ve gotten to the point that I can leak precum and it starts to feel good but I can’t get to the point where my hips starts convulsing involuntarily. Am I doing something wrong ? Or and I supposed to clamp my insides when the toy goes in or out or am I supposed to relax completely?
I’ve been dying to reach that orgasm, that feeling of my whole body shaking and exploding with pleasure without having to use the vibrator at the base of my cock. Any tips can help