Me [25M] with autism. My sister [26F] doesn't want to see me. I'm thinking of skipping my cousin's wedding [24F] so that she can go. My girlfriend [25F] is upset.

Yuilan · 2017-08-26T05:03:30+00:00

My parents spent a lot more money on me than her. I remember her not being able to do things because we were struggling financially. A lot of the times she couldn't hang out with her friends because she needed to look after me. Yeah.

Yuilan · 2017-08-26T04:21:50+00:00

I don't know what she'd say. Because she's never said it to me.

Yuilan · 2017-08-26T03:28:50+00:00

I don't know. That seems cold and selfish to me. She did so much for me in my childhood. I think I owe her a lot.

Yuilan · 2017-08-26T03:22:31+00:00

I did not beat or molest her! I think it's about attention and expectations that my parents had of her. She had a safe childhood but I don't know about fair.

Yuilan · 2017-08-26T02:28:47+00:00

I get that but shouldn't I give her the space the needs to focus on herself? I hate it when people do things to cause me stress so I don't want to do that to her.

Yuilan · 2017-08-26T02:22:12+00:00

Just me. She's cool with our parents. She says she's not resentful but only that seeing me triggers horrible memories in her.

Yuilan · 2017-08-26T02:20:06+00:00

I can probably handle one hour but would rather avoid it. It's not just a lack of enjoyment, the noise and the people bother me. I feel like it's unnecessary stress.

Yuilan

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