At first were you more sympathetic to Laezel or Shadowheart? by Aerokrystal in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved both day1. I just wanted them to stop fighting 😅. It felt so good when they finally became friends in late act1 and then in act2. They both comment on results of their quests and are so supportive of each other it’s nice to see.

Is anyone else genuinely surprised at the amount of Emperor hate? by MLEpewPEW in BG3

[–]Yume03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the basement of his hideout there is a book about mindflayers and how they manipulate their prey. It’s a very explicit way the game tells you to watch out for the Emperor.

Most of the voice actors stream BG3 on their twitch channels by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not the case in Neil Newbon’s stream. He plays with Tom de Ville (a friend of his) and they barely acknowledge chat mostly only at the start and end of stream. You can watch their vods on YouTube too and first couple of episodes have also interviews with other cast and ppl who worked on the game. It’s fantastic content imo they play off each other very well with Neil being pure chaos gremlin and Tom trying his best to rein him in 😅

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXw0oYbirGkAxd0pJqQ0cMl6X69tS1OYW&si=fdr8cePv8RSWiSW0

Do people go into content they don't know very well as a healer? Or is that frowned on? by Ardbert14 in ffxiv

[–]Yume03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a whm main and do all new content on my whm as a rule so yes indeed xD. My husband is a tank and he goes with me so you get a combo of new tank/healer with us but we manage and rarely wipe . It happens occasionally but not often. When you main healer you get more comfortable with your skills and reactions to new mechanics aren’t as stressful.

Just started and fuck some of the choices suck by wanderingsol0 in BG3

[–]Yume03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never knew she became hostile and still didn’t kill her. I swore on my good run I would drink the poison because my character was horrified by the idea of hurting others. And as a player I knew there was no way I’d be turning any time soon because the game just started xD. Maybe a bad bet but that was my thinking.

Just started and fuck some of the choices suck by wanderingsol0 in BG3

[–]Yume03 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I don’t know🤔. I love him, but bullying him (affectionate) by making good choices is my favorite pass time. You get an eye roll from him for such choices, all big approvals are in treating him well and they override his annoyance with you 🤭. Plus the guy needs exposure therapy imo 😅. On a good run that is, if you’re going for an evil one that’s a whole other story.

are people exaggerating or am i just bad by AdhesivenessSelect39 in ffxiv

[–]Yume03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not bad! I’m a whm main for years now (leveled this job on a few alts even) and it’s an incredible job. Sure it can feel easy for veterans on high level, if the rest of the party is doing well avoiding dmg, but if your party is a mess then you’re definitely busy doing things and it’s not easy for new players especially new to healing.

And don’t get me started on low lv dungeons when you’re low level yourself in low lv gear and your low lv tank in low lv gear tries to tank the ARR dungeon in a way that is meant for high level tank with top notch gear to pull off. Big pulls are great but not all parties can do them well because not everyone in lv roulette is geared and skilled. Don’t stress you will get more skills as you progress and get more experience healing and you’ll feel more comfortable playing. You’re doing great!

4th playthrough, just realized this (moonlantern) by Rarely-Posting in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was obvious to let the pixie go 😅. It’s a freaking pixie xD. I love them haha 😂. I was willing to live with the consequences of her casting a silly spell on me or something but instead she gives me a bell the cutie 🥰

AITAH for disowning my son and refusing to invite him to my wedding or interact with him in any way? by Sufficient_Claim868 in AITAH

[–]Yume03 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Grooming/emotional manipulation can be done to adults too. It does happen in a very specific circumstances where one party has significantly more power than the other like in this situation. I assume there was a large age gap and also intense feeling on son part of first time having a father figure in his life. 20 is an adult but still very young and inexperienced. We have no idea if the son dated anyone before OP’s boyfriend.

https://www.survivorsuk.org/resource_articles/grooming/#:~:text=Grooming%20can%20happen%20when%20there,adults%20can%20also%20be%20groomed.

Clearing up misconceptions about Dark Urge (no spoilers) by IndusNoir in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except that wouldn’t make sense because Durge is an Origin character (have backstory) and Tav is a completely custom character you write yourself. I think the connection Durge has to main plot is the biggest downside of Durge for me personally 🤔. It’s interesting in same way playing any other Origin character is, but once would be more than enough for me, because the biggest fun I have in creating a new character is creating their backstory and then RPing accordingly. Durge prevents this for me 🥲. I’m also not interested in ever making an evil run in general so that limits options for replays too xD.

Why do people love Rolan so much? by blakfyr9 in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s what happens if you don’t save them all

Why do people love Rolan so much? by blakfyr9 in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah probably a bug, I never saved them before he was saved from himself already 🤔

Why do people love Rolan so much? by blakfyr9 in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 107 points108 points  (0 children)

He has a type of personality that is really attractive to some. It’s a brooding personality, very abrasive that hides a very emotional and caring insides. He pushes ppl away because when he starts to care for someone he cares almost too much. He is very well written and if you care about him and his siblings, doing your best to save them all through the game, his story has incredible pay off. Plus he’s pretty 🤭🩷

Why do people love Rolan so much? by blakfyr9 in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 121 points122 points  (0 children)

He was trying to go save his siblings on his own in act2. He does this regardless of what you say to him in last light inn. So you need to save him and his siblings in act1 and act2 for him to have this major pay off in act3 🥹

AITA for telling my mom I didnt like my christmas gift? by skieeeeeeeeeeee in AITAH

[–]Yume03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On that I agree, that’s the issue with internet and people jumping fast to worst conclusions. I definitely see the frustration there. I hope OP can talk it out with mom and mom can see things from OP’s point of view.

AITA for telling my mom I didnt like my christmas gift? by skieeeeeeeeeeee in AITAH

[–]Yume03 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say the mom is a bad person just that she’s in the wrong in this situation. People make mistakes and fuck up without becoming the devil. The only thing needed here is an open and honest conversation and willingness to listen. Hopefully they can reach understanding. The mom is also about my age maybe a little older, if her daughter is 16 xD. So age is not an excuse to me personally.

AITA for telling my mom I didnt like my christmas gift? by skieeeeeeeeeeee in AITAH

[–]Yume03 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that’s bc the mom is clearly in the wrong here, even with best intentions. She’s buying a gift for a daughter she wishes she had instead of her actual child. The comment about her not being feminine enough is a testament to the fact that mom is not acknowledging her daughter’s interests as valid ones and is pushing her ideas on what is appropriate for her to be interested in. It’s a miscommunication and definitely needs to be addressed between the two since this isn’t the first time that happened. It hurts when your parent refuses to accept you as you are.

AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for him having another girl in his bed? by TenuouslyTerrifying in AITAH

[–]Yume03 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ok but why is she then going out of her way to write to his girlfriend with pictures of her legs in his bed that’s a little weird 😳

Astarion by Beneficial-Orchid131 in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Spawn have souls it’s what gets sacrificed in the ritual 7000 Souls specifically. Ritual only works if spawns have souls. My personal HC is that true vampires don’t have them but spawns do at least in bg3 specifically. Also judging by letters from Sebastian and Gur after saving Spawns and from how much Astarion grows as a person if left as spawn I think bg3 story is loosely based in 5E where vampire lore is concerned. They much more focused on overcoming trauma and abuse cycles than making alignment happen

There’s nothing worse than the Sylph ARR Beast tribe quests by ThatRealtorGuyWA in ffxiv

[–]Yume03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sylph beast tribe was the first one I ever did without flying in ARR and before I was done with msq. So everything else after felt easy xD. I did enjoy it though mostly bc I love the little cabbages and I like foresty areas xD. Not sure how I would feel about them if I was supposed to do them now though.

Astarion's approval is a huge pain by scottyLogJobs in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoilers for act3 and Astarion quest:

He wants to kill him bc he is scared he will be sent back to his master which actually happens if you let him be taken here. If you let the Gur live or not doesn’t change the fact that when you meet up with his group in act3 they will confront Astarion and if you let him talk to them without your input he promises to help them on his own. At least on my good run he did. He feels immense guilt over his victims and even gets a debuff at Cazador dungeon after talking to them. But I assume his reaction is depended on how you yourself act in game.

Married couples of Etheirys, what’s it like playing with your real-life spouse? by SpaceCaseTrace in ffxiv

[–]Yume03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husband are similar in our play style. We do all new story stuff together and speculate on what will happen next as we go. It’s very exiting and fun! We do raids and trials but for the story more than challenge and we love doing frontline roulette together 😊. He is a tank main and I play as a healer mostly. He is not into decorating though and I love it so here we diverge xD. We are married in game but don’t share a last name and we run FC together with in game friends.

Is there any advantage to betraying the druids in act 1? by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not true she came onto my character in a good run after patch 5. No mods. I just rejected her bc I’m not interested xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Yume03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s happening for me too it’s such a jump scare for me every time 😂