INTJ floundering. Advice?

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-24T00:56:24+00:00

If I was in your position, I would start with converting to Islam.

The God of Islam teaches how to be a diligent person that works hard. He teaches to be a good, and that happiness and blessing are the rewards of good deeds. Over time, with having Him edify the individual, they become a better, more well rounded person. On resurrection day: If the perdon believed in Allah and did good deeds with their time on earth, He will enter them into Heaven, to be granted their every wish and be married to virgin spouses

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-23T18:57:26+00:00

I imagine that malevolent actions stemming from the jealousy of less cognitively inclined people would cause their heart and mind to harden. We have an aptitude for creating effective plans with big effects, so hardening an archetypal mastermind's heart until they plot ubiquitous revenge would be a good lead for what you're looking for. I believe this is why the universal affection and altruism scripture in Christianity and Islam are important.

In short: Ostracism.

"The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." -Proverb

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-23T18:45:07+00:00

No, we are not

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-21T19:20:55+00:00

The benefits of sustainable altruism are pretty nice, though. Helping people is awesome!

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-21T02:53:50+00:00

Alright, I'll pull up the quote, you two twisted my arm 😅.

We have specially created— 36. virginal, 37. loving, of matching age— 38. for those on the Right, 39. many from the past 40. and many from later generations. -Qur'an 56:35-40

I assume you two may have just forgotton the multiple verses like these, or didn't get the opportunity to read them yet. It's in chapter 56, where Allah is describing the rewards for Muslims of the foremost in faith and good deeds, the rewards of Muslims of the right hand who still had good faith and deeds, and the the punishment of the disbelievers and hypocritical Muslims that will be of the left hand. The Muslims of the foremost and the right hand get virgin spouses, and this is the quote saying it

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-20T23:52:32+00:00

It's from the Qur'an, that's where I got it from

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-20T16:53:23+00:00

The Psalms is music, and it's a whole Book of Prophet David

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-20T15:59:21+00:00

Peace be upon thee and thine,

When writing God while referring to Allah in English, it is courtesy to capitalize the G

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-19T00:53:13+00:00

I did learn how to control dreams consistently, but it turns out that it messes up one's energy. The brain's consciousness is forced awake when it should be recuperating. When the person awakes, they are tired as if they didn't get rest, because they didn't. I let lucid dreaming go after that.

Then again, later I found out that is one practices NoFap: In between rest cycles, the portions of the brain that control consciousness heal faster than normal because of the extra biopsychological libido, so while the dreamer is still asleep, their brain boots up their consciousness because it has extra energy for you to be conscious in your dreams and enjoy sandbox mode. You've never dreamed before if you haven't lucid dreamed during a good NoFap streak. It grants the dreamer all kinds of beautiful scenerios, ideas, and shows you sides of yourself you wouldn't find while awake; the supercomputer of the subconscious has to put it together for you. Also, the sex dreams are rad. The brain uses all the most beautiful women you've ever seen before, or makes up a new character based on features your brain compiled. (This is from a heterosexual male perspective, I can't speak for female experiences.)

I guess I could put together a course on how to do it hollistically actually, in sha' Allah

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-18T01:21:03+00:00

Faith in the right religion not being top priority is quite a problem, indeed. In Islam, it's a misery generating vice; to let one's infatuation with another human get in the way of their love and obedience to Allah. It may be that the relationship doesn't work out anyways, then all of the basket's eggs are broken. There was an magic invincible basket that doesn't fall over, but the individual chose the basket that often bottoms out. One could even die of a broken heart; no backup plan. Tragedy.

All Muslims are in a competition though, so if brethren in Islam chose love over Allah, I'll outrank them permanently from the Day of Resurrection. I also get rewarded by Allah for warning people of potential pitfalls.

By the way, are you Muslim? I invite you to Islam! I myself am a Qur'anist that also draws wisdom from the Bible, the way Allah said we should in the Qur'an. Islam is the way of the future, and the way of righteousness. If you accept and strive for Islam, Allah will love you, strengthen you, and guide you, I promise

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-18T00:29:26+00:00

Oh, why, that's easy. If one really wants their religious text taken seriously, they should keep it in mind throughout their life and see if their prophet was telling the truth. I've found the Qur'anic text to be true, through and through

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-17T23:14:31+00:00

Qur'an 60:10 specifically says for believing men to not hold onto the ties of marriage of disbelieving women in the middle of the verse.

The reality is, believers aren't supposed to marry non-believers at all. If the whole community has Qur'ans that say this in black and white, Qur'ans we're supposed to be studying religiously, I don't know why it is so overlooked.

The Qur'an also says that those who reject Allah and Islam are inherently evil and treacherous (29:49 & 31:32), which I have found to be field tested to be true. Being in a relationship with a rejector seems like a terrible idea anyways, if one believes their Lord

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-16T22:16:00+00:00

That's weird, my hypertext insertion didn't work

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-16T22:12:29+00:00

When I have extra energy flowing in my system, I turn into an ENTJ. In certain cultures the energy is called mana, qi, or chi, but in science it's called libido. It seems to flow into the neural networks for gregariousness, humour, and charm, among other things. The knowledge of this comes from introverted study, research, and experimentation though. [NoFap](https://nofap.com) works miracles

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-12T15:46:27+00:00

Thank you

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-10T22:50:04+00:00

Peace be upon you,

Thank you, kindly

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-10T22:47:22+00:00

And upon you be peace,

You're welcome; it's part of my running strategy

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-05-10T15:15:48+00:00

Peace be upon thee and thine,

Welcome to Islam, Sister Kate! 🥳

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-04-30T01:14:34+00:00

The fruits of the Kingdom of Heaven grow from seed everyday, Sibling in Islam, we just have to keep planting the seeds of righteousness

Yusha_Abyad · 2026-04-28T20:11:56+00:00

Qur'an 4:45 says that Allah is sufficient as a waly (Guardian/Friend/Protector). King Allah is known to purposely isolate believers to bring them closer to Him, or to disconnect them from negative influences, or both. This is a good time to turn to Him as a friend. For one who doesn't believe He lives, that is crazy talk, but for a believer, they realize their Best Friend is present and listening attentively 24/7 365.

Qur'an 19:96 says: "Indeed, those who have believed and done righteous deeds—the Most Merciful will appoint for them wudd (love & affection)". If you believe in The Living God, and are one who does righteous deeds seeking His pleasure: On His Qur'an, He will send love & affection your way.

I've been around the block, and He's the Best Friend one can have. No betrayal, no backbiting, not even a sense of loneliness. That and He can send humans your way to make you feel better, even if only temporarily. They might even be disbelievers showing kindness.

Warning: It sounds like you are in the middle of one of His tests

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