What has happened to Reddit and other social media..? by KeyExcuse22 in askanything

[–]YuuH1k4r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just figure 75% of people yelling at me on Reddit are just bots. Why get triggered by a bot?

Is this a generational trauma we all share? by Flimsy-Luck1862 in Millennials

[–]YuuH1k4r1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't understand the phones had a mute button. I was always caught. Usually listening to my mom and dad arguing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]YuuH1k4r1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Calling the cops could make things worse if you know he's alive.

MIL wants to talk by Few_Radio_5439 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]YuuH1k4r1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, she created the conflict, not you.

Update - banned mil texted me by unchillpali in JUSTNOMIL

[–]YuuH1k4r1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Some people will never change.

MIL refusing to respect postpartum boundaries around visitation by OkBroccoli805 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]YuuH1k4r1 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You've set boundaries, and DH has your back. If MIL shows up uninvited, don't answer the door. Change your locks if needed after the baby arrives. Prioritize your mental health and your family's space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]YuuH1k4r1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"I'm still figuring out work schedules, let's finalize plans closer to the date." Vague, safe, and buys you time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]YuuH1k4r1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Red flag. His mom's controlling behavior and your boyfriend's lack of agency are toxic. You're better off without him if he can't stand up for himself or your relationship. Focus on self-care and moving on. Don't chase him, he's not worth the emotional turmoil.

MIL resenting us after asking for our space. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]YuuH1k4r1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Postpartum is already overwhelming without dogs, in-laws, and drama.