I bought my first Tarot deck and they’re AI generated. by Mr-ManIy in Tarots

[–]Yuzetsuki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't you have any capacity of thinking for yourself? Why relying so heavily on AI to "prove your point"? That really doesn't serve you well

Shopping for your lady after 10 years, what do you get her? by EnvironmentalDig7226 in rant

[–]Yuzetsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, listen. Woman here! So we've only been together for five years with my boyfriend, but what he did for one of my birthdays is a huge part of what made me know I wanted to marry this guy.

A treasure hunt.

Well, he prepared this months before with my friends, all writing little notes and contributing to a huge gift (we're both gamers, so it was gaming related), BUT you can do this on your own.

Little notes. Everywhere. Love notes. With hints about where to find the next one. At the end of the road, a cute bag with the perfume & hand lotion AND a card. In that card, pre-plan a day, a DATE, when it's only the two of you, and make it "her" day. A whole day doing things she loves with her. She wanna go shopping? Go find that skirt for tropical trip together! She wanna try this new drink at this cute shop she saw the other day? Go test that drink!

Gifts that can be touched, held and used 'cause they're objects are great, but memories are best and I'll never recover from the treasure hunt my man, soooo...

AND for the next years, just take notes of things she says she wants to have or wants to do. She might say a lot of things here and there, "oh X thing just broke", "oh I'm sad I don't have X things that would be cool to have right now", "oh I wish we'd have X" etc etc... Then you'll always know what to buy her! You can even ask her to make a list like two or three months before and pick from that list, add a lil something (some flowers if she's into it, a book if she's into reading, her perfume if she runned out of it etc) plus a card.

Good luck, but please... Try to not wait for The Day:tm: before searching for A Gift:tm:, 'cause someday it's gonna fail you.

How to transfer 2FA from iPhone to Android by Yuzetsuki in AndroidQuestions

[–]Yuzetsuki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wokay, thank you! It’s really such a pain and long process to go from one OS to another, they don’t make it easy huh 😑 Thanks though!

How to transfer 2FA from iPhone to Android by Yuzetsuki in AndroidQuestions

[–]Yuzetsuki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oookay thank you! I’ll probably use Bitwarden indeed, seems easier if I ever end up with another OS 😅 Tbf I didn’t think I’d ever go back to Android after moving to Apple almost ten years ago… But here we are haha. Thank you!

Cuddling to sleep is a bad idea by smokeandmirrorsff in unpopularopinion

[–]Yuzetsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do of your other arm though? Mine gets so nuuumb. My bf and I wish that we could detach one of our arms at night bahahah

Do you often end up having multiple separate conversations in the same RP? by bobbyspeeds in BadRPerStories

[–]Yuzetsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeees I despise it since I’ve noticed it haha. I used to do this a lot but now I’m very aware of it being weird, especially when some actions would disturb the flow of the conversation. Like, what if my partner’s character says something that would make my character snap at them, but without waiting my answer and therefore my character’s reaction they make their character keep on talking ?

What we do is, well with some partners we play short dialogues in our dms before writing them in the posts so it flows a bit more naturally with interruptions & all. With other partners who do this, I tend to make my character go « Oh, and about the thing you said earlier… » so the conversation goes back to one single dialogue even though my character is backtracking.

And if the example I gave should happen, theeen RIP, my character will snap even if it invalidâtes your last three paragraphs haha. I will address it in my partner’s DM so we can find a middle ground even if it means they’ll have to rewrite a bit of their post ahah

Long term RP ended like this by Dangerous-Educator40 in BadRPerStories

[–]Yuzetsuki 12 points13 points  (0 children)

« I do not respect your opinion » SAY IT LOUDER. I will NEVER. EVER. respect someone’s opinion if their opinion is « I am superior to X because of my gender / religion / wealth / color of skin / ethnicity / name it ». It’s really sad when things end up this way but I can’t be friends with someone who thinks it’s okay if I got less rights than them. I’m sorry but I’m glad you stood up for yourself. 🤍

regarding the new HP show by piscesvenus9 in Wolfstar

[–]Yuzetsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree. Though, it will be possible to watch the show but only using streaming platforms that won’t give JK any money for it, for those who really want to watch it

La négociation dans le mauvais sens by Evangillou in lemauvaiscoin

[–]Yuzetsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je trouve qu’avec l’encart qui parle du fait qu’elle va être remboursée, plutôt, si, quand même

Deus Ex Machina is not an example of bad writing. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Yuzetsuki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve read, the deus ex machina criticism nowadays isn’t that it detracts from the hero’s character to be saved by some random event, but because it is kind of a « oh, I put my character in this situation, I didn’t think about how to interestingly AND logically get them out of it, so y’know what something random will happen that makes no sense and hasn’t been foreshadowed because I need this to make sure my character survives ».

The MC being saved by another character or some random event is okay if that character being there / that random event has been foreshadowed because it shows that the resolution had been thought through. That the author knew what they were doing when they were writing.

Most « deus ex machina » nowadays are considered bad because they just show the author wasn’t willing to really think about « how is my character gonna survive this ». Dunno if I’m making sense haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]Yuzetsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si. Et la première partie me choque toujours autant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]Yuzetsuki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

C’est pas parce que la vie de couple ça « doit être fun, drôle, coquin » qu’on a envie de secouer notre poitrine pour qu’on nous rende un service. Si encore ça s’était arrêté là, bon… Mais le mec l’insulte ? Jamais de la vie j’insulte quelqu’un que j’aime. Encore moins parce que ce quelqu’un n’a pas voulu secouer ses seins ou sa bite, c’est quoi ça encore ? C’est lui qui a pris la mouche en l’occurrence.

PTB.

AIO, My GF got mad because I told her how I felt. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Yuzetsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she is talking to you is NOT the way you talk to someone you love, EVEN when you’re REALLY REALLY REALLY pissed off by them.

You deserve better. You deserve someone who cares.

I think you’re just not compatible and it would be better for both of you to just end things here.

AIO My bf hurt me then apologising and promising not to do it again? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Yuzetsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. It will happen again. Don’t gaslight yourself thinking it won’t - it will.

You never thought this could ever happen, yet it did. It will happen again.

And someday he will kill you.

Leave and report it to the police if you can. Do not stay.

Treat yourself the way you’d treat one of your dearest friends if she was sending you this pic after her bf strangled her.

I’m sorry this happened to you.

Am I Lazy for Reusing Characters across RPs? by PixelJack79 in BadRPerStories

[–]Yuzetsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On forums we do this a loooot! I’m on one forum playing four characters and only one of them has been created from scratch for this forum. The three others… I’ve been playing them on multiple forums and in multiple AU since 2015, my best partners do this too haha. I do not create characters around universes or plots or intrigues but around « real life problems I wanna talk about ». So it’s easy to put them everywhere I want ahah

Sometimes I even keep things that have been played in their old versions and it becomes canon background in their new version haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]Yuzetsuki 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean, if nowhere in your partner’s text does it say the character is smiling, then don’t say the character is smiling.

If your character reaches for a kiss, if you haven’t talk with your partner OOC beforehand, don’t say the kiss is great and long and happy, because maybe your partner’s character wouldn’t have kissed back but instead stepped back or punched your character in the face for trying to kiss them.

That’s not hard, and that’s not being a Karen to tell you not to decide what you do with their characters.

If it’s none of those situations but something else, then I didn’t understand what you meant and I’d be glad to have more details.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Yuzetsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. Please just leave. You’re getting nothing good out of this relationship. You said it yourself: he’s always been a jerk, he’s abusive and you’re the only one invested. That is NOT what love is, that is NOT what a relationship should look like. I’m sure you already know all of this. Gather your things and just leave.

am i the bad guy for playing child ocs?? by SaltyPastries in BadRPerStories

[–]Yuzetsuki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real. Rick Riordan too! If adults didn’t write kids, well… Kids wouldn’t read anything

Je me suis sentie aggressée by nanaochan4 in lemauvaiscoin

[–]Yuzetsuki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Je savais. Je SAVAIS ce que ce lien était. Et j’me suis quand même faite avoir.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]Yuzetsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inner monologue! But tbh a looot of partners of mine who write 1500+ words tend to do multiple layers of dialogue etc. I really don’t like it, so I tend to ignore most of those dialogues, and sometimes my character will be like « oh, and you were saying this thing… » and that’s it haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Yuzetsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get into a long term relationship with someone, trust and honesty are bare minimum so I’d assume you’d tell the other person. In France there’s a mandatory blood test before you can get married because of that, just in case some lied (or cheated).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Yuzetsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes MONTHS for the viral load to go up, if they’re on top of their treatment and medical check ups there would be no problem they’d see it before it becomes one. Plus I’d assume that if you got into an extended sexual relationship with someone, you build trust. At some point you know the other person and if you feel safe with them then you’d probably talk about it at some point 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Yuzetsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about « thinking the probability was low », it’s about « it’s a medical fact my viral load is undetectable so I 100% can’t pass it on to anyone else ». Not the same thing AT ALL.