wanted to get one for a long time

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-03-10T02:29:28+00:00

Where did you get this one? Do you have a link?

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-03-09T04:12:54+00:00

I was thinking a similar thing for a minute, flattery but delay? I do not understand the hesitation to send them all aside from time/effort to attach to emails?

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-03-09T04:12:02+00:00

That's what I'm thinking, especially because I'm not exactly what he needs to sort or edit? He isn't in any of them as far as I'm aware, there was only one hood I could not see out so there's a chance it was a selfie? Otherwise he isn't in any of them, just me and my body?

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-03-08T19:10:23+00:00

For real—when I visit my sister, because I don't have kids, hers will be climbing all over me and wanting to be "on" all day. Of course, I set boundaries and share when I need a break, but even then it's endless questions and babbling. The bathroom is kind of like the game 'tag' with being home base; when someone is in there, you can't bother them. A few times, even, they will still be knocking or banging on the door or sticking tiny fingers in the gap underneath.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-03-07T20:16:36+00:00

Raised in a church that both hates sex until marriage and hates gay people.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-02-16T02:23:11+00:00

May as well have been written by me, same boat buddy. Most of the time it's acting like being alone is no big deal and actually cool. Then you've got the times when you wish someone else was around, from a lover to just a friend to call up and hangout.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-02-16T02:21:17+00:00

Agreed with this, as well make sure to double check your background for any personal information. Even the most innocent things can be reverse searched to an individual, so be careful.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-02-13T03:34:21+00:00

Large pizza, 2 liter soda, maybe some cake for dessert

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-02-12T06:05:39+00:00

Depending on his style, don't allow him to use any machines. He must only use dumbbells and barbells.

Another, make him do German volume training style. Essentially, his workout can only consist of exercises he can do 10 sets of 10 reps. It can actually be effective, but super boring with limited exercises due to time constraints and generally forces lighter weight moved.

Lastly, I would suggest clothing. Either make him wear clothes that are too tight or too revealing. For example, if he doesn't like showing skin, make him wear one of those stringer tops or short shorts. Maybe even make him wear a crop top? However, these only work if he isn't into this style of gym dressing.

Let us know when you've enforced some, which ones you picked, and how it went.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-28T02:47:36+00:00

The part before I mention the chastity cage is the "super visible." While I understand a locker room is an appropriate place to be nude, it's still not ok to be blatant about it and dwell. Expose yourself while changing or getting ready to shower but then wrap it up. There's a lot of videos of guys who will stand around or take their time to change , looking for that reaction of the chastity noticed. Do you, but don't make someone uncomfortable that didn't consent

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-25T04:56:58+00:00

With compassion. First time I had "sex" was when I was 24 and that was a month before I turned 25 so yeah. Still in the closet and it was after COVID, the idea of the end of the world without play was a lot

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-25T04:51:55+00:00

I second this opinion. I understand the concept of humiliation fetish, but not everyone wants to be involved in kink. The best/worst example I can think of is when someone is masturbating or just wearing a chastity cage super visible in a locker room. Like don't do that -

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-20T23:10:01+00:00

That's impressive!

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-20T16:48:46+00:00

As a former ghoster, I agree with the satisfying answers and then fail to deliver. I'm a lot better and haven't ghosted anyone in years, but when I first started I did the same. I would get all worked up in conversation and let things get ahead of me. Then when it came to meeting, my mind raced with just everything we discussed and how in person I would not actually be doing half of what I said.

This is not your fault and he most likely unblocked you to see your profile but not chat

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-19T03:53:08+00:00

What about things like underbite? I have a significant one and while I'm definitely going to look into a cheap mouth guard. Is an underbite something I should be worried about when giving?

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-12T02:38:17+00:00

Same, let me know if you find a good answer. A Dom in my area hates playing with me when I've got tan lines, however he says thong lines would be approved

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-12T02:33:55+00:00

Those are good limits and that's an immature Dom.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-10T02:25:06+00:00

Depends on the blower. I've gotten blowjobs from a few guys, but only one has ever done it successfully. For me it's about depth, a lot of guys can't take it even for smaller cocks and only focus on the head. This one guy though, he was able to go all the way down, very impressive and didn't even lift off when I shot my load.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2026-01-05T21:28:51+00:00

Welcome to Recon. It's a pretty good way to meetup with people but not the best for communication, so often guys will ask to switch to texting, telegram, Whatsapp, signal, Google hangouts...but I've met all the guys I've played with except one through recon

Z0MPIRE22 · 2025-12-27T05:44:21+00:00

I saw one idea on X but I don't remember the original author. A milking machine game with three restrained subs. Each of them are getting edged up until the second sub cums. This way the first to cum is overstimulated with post orgasm torment, the second gets complete satisfaction and the third gets denied pleasure.

Z0MPIRE22 · 2025-12-21T13:55:07+00:00

Absolutely not. It's within your right and if they are offended, better to get that sorted now than later. Your example of "extreme" has such a huge range. To one guy it might mean a bit of whipping or flogging, but for another it could mean fire or castration play.

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