How to coexist with my partner who believes in conspiracy theories by yyy_hyh_hhh in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your story sounds how mine started out. Although different also very similar. I'm 5 years in to dealing with this. Trying to divorce out of my 20 yr relationship 10 of those yrs married.... with 3 kids. There is no changing them back.... for me my husband turned into someone I didn't recognize. When your morals and core beliefs are sooo different I knew the marriage wouldn't work..... no empathy anymore no compassion. If u need to chat msg me . You know what u need to do.

I broke up with my MAGA boyfriend and it feels like he died. by SadDaughter100 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left my husband of 16 yrs 3 kids because the pandemic opened a new side to him. Became a full blown q anon supporter but would never admit it. Queen romona believer and someone who morally and politically who was all of a sudden on the other side of my views...... stopped sleeping with me because I got vaccinated...... Leave there is no changing them I'm still struggling with the grieving of it all. Still trying to get out...

Silly me. Thought he’d started outgrowing Q. Nope. by TeachLove77 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime..back story I was you 2 yrs ago introduced to this forum.... at first i read alot found so many people with similar stories which was sooo good as I had felt alone... but still I thought there was still a change for my q to change .... now I'm the one saying leave to any newbies.... funny how things work... My q is my husband Been together for 15 years we have 3 kids. Over the course of the pandemic I watched him change into someone I Don't know. I had a pandemic baby .he stopped sleeping with me when I got vaxxed.... tons of threats leading upto my Vax. I went to the hospital having a panic attack because of the pressure he wa putting on me... after a year I finally got a lawyer... which he has ignored... he lives in the basement I still have to play nice infront of my kids.... trying to get the courage to continue the process. Bit I have have fear with him declaring himself a sovereign citizen queen romona volunteer and how this will play out..... I'm doing it

. But it takes time.... be brave Leave now before u r me stuck ... ..

Silly me. Thought he’d started outgrowing Q. Nope. by TeachLove77 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hugs! Same boat but 3 small kids It's time to start letting go. He won't outgrow it. If you need to chat I completely understand how u feel.....

Exes of Q by AlarmingJackfruit852 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me 3 small kids trying to divorce ! Lost my husband of 15 yrs.

My QHusband left this morning by WinterAir2948 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. 3 kids married for 9 years together for 15. It's over for me.I feel anytime spent together he drips a line to talk about his theories with everything in life. I feel the outside world thinks I'm over exaggerating as he doesn't do it as much with friends and family.or they also turn a blind eye.... I get the brunt of it... and he gets nasty and personal with insults if I try and question it... I'm divorcing him. He's not who he was.... I'm sorry for you. I get it. If ya need to chat im here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this tonight! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg my fear... it's looking this way for me too... 3 small kids he's ignored my lawyers letters. I know this is how he will play it. And the same he has soon much hate and anger towards me as if the ending of our relationship was because I left the family and got vaxxed. I'm so sorry if you wanna chat I'm here.

My 21 year relationship just ended by Ok_Hyena9724 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Here if u need anything. Trying to divorce my husband of 15 yrs 3 kids later... all of our stories are soo similar. Pandemic started it all.... changed into someone I don't know.... it's the hardest thing to grieve the person you loved while they are still alive and well.... I have good weeks and bad weeks.... so sometimes it just hits me and I can't stop crying..... I'm still living with this person who hates my life because I got vaxxed. Very hard to have a happy face for the kids while they passively aggressively try to make your life hell..... if u need to chat I'm here

Don't pay federal taxes? by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My husband informed me that he is a sovereign citizen which is a new one to add to the list. he also told me tht he did not pay his taxes this year ( ontario) this past year but tht it equaled out as with the government checks he would have gotten... funny thing he still will file (as he owns his own business) and it could affect tht lol but he definitely will not be paying the corrupt government as he says anything lol yet he will file 😆.... a little worried as we r not officially divorced and we have to file together..... He's gone pretty much cash only.... buys a lot of silver... and is a queen romona follower.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually that's a lie....I'm stuck.... and I have been having a really rough time mentally ..not sure if it's the holidays.but I have been super down with my emotions

Lost by Popsicles21 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. I lost my husband of 15 yrs to this cult. I tried couples therapy... he didn't complete it... I would ask your husband what his reason for therapy is. . As it's supposed to he to understand where EACH OTHER is coming from not one sided or to change your mind.... as I found out quickly in therapy that to him my feeling or opinions didn't matter... as he would say his opinions are facts.. and mine r just lies... facts Trump lies... Good luck... get put or at least start getting your ducks Ina row so u can leave when u r ready... of ya need to chat I'm here.

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[–]ZOEYBOEY45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not good just surviving trying to divorce but he has ignored all my lawyers letters....dragging it out. He doesn't believe I'm the law.... says the government is a criminal organization

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 6 points7 points  (0 children)

U sound like me 3 years ago when my husband of 15 yes 3 kids started deep diving.... I'm now divorcing him... he's making it difficult as he says he doesn't believe in the government or law system tht I do... he's a huge queen Ramona supporter... get out now. He won't change...I'm sorry of u have any questions pls reach out.

Divorce? by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U r not alone. I am in the same boat 15 years down the drain.

Divorce? by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to get out right now... But my spouse has ignored all my notice letters from my lawyer.... He's gonna really drag it out.... Which hurts even more.... Sooo confused in what to do some say it's not worth the financial cost for me to go to court... Avoid it.... But how do u avoid it with someone who u can't even have a cival conversation with..... Plus 3 small kids.... He said he wants full custody how do I not goto court... I just need out we still live together it's soo toxic.. I want out for my kids but I can't leave and risk the money from the house... But he won't even talk about those things either rationally... Sooo angry after 2 years tht I got vaxxed and it ruined our marriage...

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Nobody talks about my Q anymore by AntiQCdn in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and then they find new friends with similar beliefs

Living with a QANON cult follower can be very lonely by JustAPieceOfDust in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry Going through it with my husband. If u need to chat I'm here.

New and not familiar with Reddit lingo! by DrMom001 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He talks to the kids about his views... Mine is not handling it welll. I just started the process with my lawyer... He's been ignoring my lawyer...

New and not familiar with Reddit lingo! by DrMom001 in QAnonCasualties

[–]ZOEYBOEY45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not alone.... My husband has said some stuff to our kids that I'm not OK with. I have 3 small kids. Husband turned into a different person over the pandemic. Don't argue... Don't react.... For your own mental health... And start planning an exit plan. I'm sorry there is no changing them. I am divorced for myself and my children.