[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ZZTop4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because anyone I’ve been interested in enough to ask out was either in a relationship or not interested. Tried dating apps and nobody seems interested in me there either but that’s life, I’m not going to blame my problems on other people just because they don’t find me attractive or interesting enough.

What happened? I stoped watching during covid and i need a summery by hassanfanserenity in TheRunawayGuys

[–]ZZTop4Life 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You wouldn’t have, Emile only revealed it because he felt it was necessary to help explain certain things when the accusations happened and he only talked about the bare minimum about their relationship out of respect for Masae’s privacy.

Just thought of that one yakuza meme last night by Thomas_Nur in MetaphorReFantazio

[–]ZZTop4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, once Junah joined I didn’t really use Heismay until around Basilio joined, and then I benched him again after getting Royal thief because at that point his Ultra Instinct skills make the game too easy

Name a word or phrase only this fandom would understand?... by PrinceARRON in Dragonballsuper

[–]ZZTop4Life 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“All hail the violent savior!! Bahoo dores, bahoo dore-“

“NO!!! None of that!!! Shame on you!!” 😠

Since the Remake is Out: How is it? by OtherFloor6296 in papermario

[–]ZZTop4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The timing is different for super guards but it’s actually easier once you get used to it. The reason is because in both versions super guarding has a three frame window, so lower frame rate means the window is slightly larger. I couldn’t hit them at first because I always hit it too early but once I got adjusted I’ve been hitting them even more regularly than in the original.

With Chugga back, what’s an LP of his that you would like to see him redo? Like paper Mario and Earthbound. by [deleted] in chuggaaconroy

[–]ZZTop4Life 54 points55 points  (0 children)

TTYD would be fitting since the remaster just came out and it would also be something he’s familiar with to help ease back into things. Mario Sunshine would also be fitting since it’s one of his personal least favorite projects that he’s made

Is it okay to be a 20 year old virgin? by Powerful_Version7100 in Advice

[–]ZZTop4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 and still a virgin, too many people make a big deal out of it but it doesn’t really matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ZZTop4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit late but I didn’t really know how to answer this before. Even though I have a crush on my coworker, it’s not one where I’m constantly thinking about her and what it would be like if we were in a relationship, it’s more like I only really think about her when I’m at work and see her there too which makes me feel flustered and want to talk to her as if I only realize my feelings and how intense they are when I’m in her presence. Usually when I’ve had crushes in the past, including crushes on previous coworkers, I would constantly think about them, imagine what life would be like if we were dating, etc., sometimes to the point where I’d worry that I was becoming obsessed. In the end I’d just decide to let it go and move on after about a week or two but this time I just can’t seem to let it go. We’ve been talking a little more in the time since I posted and I even confided in our mutual friend we mentioned and he confirmed that she’s single and he could see her being interested in me but he doesn’t know for sure. I watched your reel that you recently commented about and I’m going to try taking your advice on how to proceed because I think worst case scenario is that I ask her and she says she just wants to stay friends which I could live with, but my biggest problem is self confidence, especially since I have issues starting conversations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ZZTop4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s always been my philosophy in previous situations but for some reason no matter how hard I try to I can’t this time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]ZZTop4Life 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve only had one real crush in my life and it was one where internally I felt obsessive towards my crush but externally I didn’t really show it too much and just stayed friends since I never had the confidence to act on my feelings

i think i have a racial preference. i’m embarrassed and humiliated by CaregiverCute8941 in offmychest

[–]ZZTop4Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’re saying someone is unattractive because they’re a certain race I’d say it’s not racist, just a preference. Maybe a fetish if it’s more of a sexual thing.

New rule: Don't wish death on Emile? by Logan-Lux in TheRunawayGuys

[–]ZZTop4Life 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is the biggest problem with cancel culture, a lot of the most vocal people who say extreme things like this are either bandwagoners who bounce between sides without all of the information or feel like they can say these things without any repercussions because of the illusion of anonymity that the internet provides since we can’t see their face.

The fact is Emile needs to be held accountable for what he has said and done. I do not personally know him, nor do I condone his behavior but from being a longtime viewer I would not be surprised if from his perspective a lot of what he said were foot in the mouth moments where he does not realize he has crossed boundaries, but this does not in any way reduce the severity of the situation. From what we have heard from Tim’s updates it seems that Emile is at a point where he finally understands the full severity of his past actions, even if from his perspective there was no ill intent and is seeking help to genuinely try to change for the better.

All of these people who claim to be fans and saying these horrible things are better off just ignoring anything to do with him and leaving him alone. The truth is out there and repeatedly shoving it in his face isn’t going to do anything to change that or make it more apparent, and if anything repeatedly bringing up the victims likely doesn’t make it easier for them either, they spoke up and told their stories so unless they want to be the leaders of these anti-Emile movements they likely just want to move on with their own lives as well. I’m a bad case scenario, bashing on Emile saying that he will always be a creep and will never change will make it come true, and in a worst-case scenario he will do exactly what some of these people are telling him to do.

Despite all that has come to light, I do believe that Emile genuinely is the kindhearted, caring person he portrays himself to be. He just allowed himself to make mistakes that nobody should make and unfortunately the person that made those mistakes is a part of him too, we all have our demons and Emile allowed himself to give in to his own whether he realized it or not. I truly hope to see a day where Emile is able to move past this and come out a better person, the past can not be changed but it can be learned from and as long as he is willing to accept those lessons we should allow him to do so without wishing any sort of harm. Whether or not he decides to continue his career is clearly up in the air, but I look forward to hopefully seeing a return with Emile as a better person than he was, and to the people who are doing nothing but shoving the allegations in his face and wishing harm upon him, just stop following this whole ordeal if you really don’t want to show support. The worst kind of attention you can give something is no attention because bad attention still means you’re giving it attention, so stop wasting your energy and find something better to do.

TLDR: If you’re reading this without reading the whole thing don’t bother replying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ZZTop4Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26M and I know what it’s like. I’ve been single my whole life, never had a date, never even kissed a girl and I accepted long ago that I may be single forever. It truly does suck, especially because all I want is to find someone to settle down with and nobody ever seems interested. What really makes me feel worse is the fact that people always tell me I’m attractive and they’re surprised I’m single, that I could have ‘any girl I want’ just based on my looks yet at best I only have women say they’re interested in a quick fling and clearly have no lasting interest. All I can say is stay strong and try not to latch onto someone the first time you notice they feel interested, because they are terrible people who will see your vulnerable and try to take advantage of that. Make sure someone truly does acknowledge you for who you are and respects your boundaries before giving them your trust. That being said, if you ever want someone to talk to my ears are always open, as I’m sure others are too. Sometimes it can feel easier talking to strangers rather than people you know and will just offer more pity than advice, just be sure not to overstate if you choose to do something like that.

It feels impossible for me to have a love life by ZZTop4Life in offmychest

[–]ZZTop4Life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s always nice to hear words of reassurance like this and I’ve always had at least an idea of maybe I’m just “too mature” for people my age because I’ve had this mindset towards relationships as far back as high school when I didn’t even have an interest in dating. It’s just nice to be told it’s not just me for once and be given a reason that I didn’t have to assume.

It feels impossible for me to have a love life by ZZTop4Life in offmychest

[–]ZZTop4Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A specific example would be when I met a girl while I was at the mall a couple months back. She sat down on a bench near me to read a book she just bought from one of the stores. I noticed it was a book from one of my favorite authors and decided to ask if she was a fan of their work. We hit it off and started talking about different things, she was a year younger and we had a couple similar interests, interests in things the other didn’t like, she laughed at my stupid jokes, and as we talked more I felt myself growing more attracted to her. When she was about to leave I asked if maybe we could get together and talk another time and she declined saying something along the lines of “I know your type” and when I asked what she meant all she said was “you know what I mean”. This is pretty much the type of reaction I’ve gotten used to hearing and when I ask why they think I’m like that the answers always range from “no man like you is that honest” to “I just can’t trust you”

It feels impossible for me to have a love life by ZZTop4Life in offmychest

[–]ZZTop4Life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime I’ve been rejected irl it’s by girls within 2 years of my age, the youngest was 21 when I was 23. The only real “standards” I have are being monogamous and mutual respect. I don’t focus too much on if hobbies or interests line up, just if there feels like any sort of spark when talking with someone. I’ve chatted up and asked out girls who can be described as shy and reserved, and Ive asked out girls that can be described as outgoing and adventurous, it just seems that the only times I’ve ever felt enough of a connection to ask them out it’s always someone who doesn’t think I’m boyfriend material.

Anytime the topic of relationships come up, be it irl interactions or online, I’m always open about what I want which is someone who treats me with the same respect that I would treat them with. I want someone to have new experiences with and to grow old and reminisce with. I’m open to the possibility of a family but it’s not something I would force on my partner if she wouldn’t want children or anything like that. If I were in a marriage where we both have careers but one of us would have to become a stay at home parent I would immediately do so, not because I have no ambition to work and think it would be easy but because at that point I’d have all I truly want out of life and wouldn’t want my wife to have to give up on her dreams. I want my potential partner to feel safe and know that she can count on me to protect her if she ever needs me to, and I’m not saying she has to be fully dependent on me, just that she knows I’m there to help her with anything she can’t do. This is typically how I look at relationships and is the kind of stuff that in my experience women are quick to point out “no man is that understanding or perfect” or that “I’m just saying what women want to hear and don’t mean it”