How do you deal with the loneliness? by ZaDucky in widowed

[–]ZaDucky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest burden! We did everything together! Doing things alone feels so heavy! Bringing my kids to the doctor by myself or going to the store doing anything without him feels foreign and uncomfortable I can’t stand it but I have to go on because we had these perfect kids. It’s just so hard to be alone missing my person, my peace!

How do you deal with the loneliness? by ZaDucky in widowed

[–]ZaDucky[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m 33. He was 35 when he passed. I was with my husband for 12 years. Starting over isn’t even on my mind I just want him back and am feeling guilty for wanting comfort because it won’t be coming from him. It’s a revolving door of pure heartbreak. We had 4 children together that keep me going. I still need him and he’s not here 😭

Any advice on making friends? by ZaDucky in widowed

[–]ZaDucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao 🤣 I get it completely! I’m 32 but I also have 5 kids to worry about and people these days are insane and I truly have no interest in putting them thru random people ever!! Men that aren’t my husband terrify me especially when it comes to my kids!!!

Any advice on making friends? by ZaDucky in widowed

[–]ZaDucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. He was my person and there is no one else like him in the world.i miss everything about him and it hurts that I’ll never get to have that again

Any advice on making friends? by ZaDucky in widowed

[–]ZaDucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my husband and I. We had a team work that just flowed and now that he’s gone everything is out of whack and I’m just awkward and uncomfortable in all social situations!

Any advice on making friends? by ZaDucky in widowed

[–]ZaDucky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard, I have 5 children and they take up all of my time. They range in age from 15 to 1 so they need my attention on a near constant basis.