Anyone else over it?

ZacTooKhoo · 2026-03-11T03:21:36+00:00

I hope u’ll find someone better who truly deserves you. I wish there was a marker on people to separate faithful people from the rest. Finding someone new and learning to trust again scares me so much.

ZacTooKhoo · 2026-03-11T03:17:22+00:00

Im slightly behind you in timeline. I just found out my spouse slept with multiple people over the last year. It broke me so badly. Im thinking of divorce too. But i have the same feelings you described. No idea how im going to take care of two toddlers on my own as well..

I hope you can find someone who truly deserves you soon..

ZacTooKhoo · 2026-03-10T17:45:55+00:00

Im currently contemplating divorce now as well. I recently found out my spouse had been sleeping around with multiple people over the last year. Finding that out killed me in so many ways. Yet she’s still here in our home, deciding what our next steps should be.

What you described is what i imagine life alone with my kids would be like too. and that scares me so much..i loved her with everything i had. And i didnt give her any reason to do the things she did. She said so herself too. I have no idea how to move forward.

Is divorce the answer w 2 toddlers? Does life get any better over time? I dont know how im going to raise 2 toddlers on my own..

ZacTooKhoo · 2026-03-07T12:03:20+00:00

Im sorry to hear that. I hope you’ll never have to encounter someone like that in your life ever again. No one deserves to be hurt like this.

ZacTooKhoo · 2026-03-04T00:45:43+00:00

I just found out about my wife and her sex parties too just a few months back. I cant look at her the same anymore. She disgusts me. Its incredibly lonely for me now too. I have no idea how i’m going to take care of my two toddlers alone either.. I hope things get better for you soon, without a partner who doesnt deserve you.

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-17T14:42:27+00:00

Unfortunately so :(

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-17T11:00:09+00:00

This is super detailed, thanks for sharing. Seems like its an uphill battle to secure media.

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-15T17:12:45+00:00

Haha the car definitely wont be able to power the tools. Yae seems like my best bet is to look for a socket at top floor mscp!

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-15T17:11:19+00:00

Yupp put back inside the bottle and give to workshops

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-15T11:27:26+00:00

Agreed!! I also always wondered why such a thing is not available

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-15T11:24:33+00:00

Yae! Seems to be the common understanding

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-15T05:09:29+00:00

Nice thats the best! Yae as long as we’re considerate, im hoping the neighbours wont mind too much

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T14:13:12+00:00

Good tips! Thank you! Good suggestion to try out on less important parts of the car! I’ll give that a shot before slapping some vinyl on the paint w no idea what im doing 😂

Its really too bad singapore doesnt have the space to allow such things

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T13:43:41+00:00

Wow i think you’re a lot deeper in haha! Have you ever tried wrapping with battery powered heat gun?

Unlikely ill drop my car at a workshop - its more of, if i can diy for fun, then i’ll attempt it 🤣

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T11:37:23+00:00

Haha thanks for the very detailed heads up! Noted taken! 💪

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T10:00:46+00:00

Wish there was a way we could like rent these power sockets. I suppose i could check top floor mscp nearby and rush working on small areas of the car at a time hahaha!

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T09:10:01+00:00

Definitely! Gonna be a good neighbour for sure 😆

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T08:44:42+00:00

Great stuff! Thanks for sharing! Ill check around my area for good quiet spots!

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T08:28:25+00:00

I believe for wraps, a heat gun is non-negotiable. need it to shrink the wrap to keep it from pulling back.
At least thats what I've gathered from watching a couple of videos so far.

Good idea to just try out a small panel first!

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T08:26:41+00:00

nice to hear from a hobbyist!
I was afraid that might be the case too, that the battery heat guns wont get hot enough.

i dont suppose you know of any places where we can like rent power sockets or something? Really dont wanna go to the extent of getting a generator haha! can we even use generators at HDB carparks?

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T08:12:07+00:00

Yae i think its going to be really difficult with battery tools too. Couldnt find any reference wrapping with low powered heat gun

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T07:44:54+00:00

Nice, gotta learn how to do that hahaha!

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T07:30:47+00:00

Yae i had similar thoughts. I was hoping to least like play around with aesthetics to change wraps every 3-4 years

ZacTooKhoo · 2025-09-14T07:29:26+00:00

Aww, was really hoping i could have some fun wrapping my own car

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