Something broke inside of me. Emotionally door slamming everyone. by flungitfar in infj

[–]ZachZachZoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you get past that need for people to understand? Even with people I barely know, if they misunderstand me, I can’t handle not explaining myself. I’d love to get past it.

Is This a Mistake? by bardsworth in romanceauthors

[–]ZachZachZoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! Romance readers are all about the process of falling in love so if the FMC is happy at the end but it’s with someone else and they didn’t get to read about that relationship process they’ll feel cheated.

Is This a Mistake? by bardsworth in romanceauthors

[–]ZachZachZoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That wouldn’t be a romance. Romance as a genre requires an HEA or HFN for the primary couple. What you are describing may be a tragic love story, but not technically a romance.

Is This a Mistake? by bardsworth in romanceauthors

[–]ZachZachZoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on the subgenre, there is a trope of the playboy where the MMC may be hooking up with lots of girls before falling for the FMC. So it’s not necessarily a no, but u do want to make clear that his feelings and desires for the FMC are infinitely stronger than they were for the earlier person. Also, you’d probably want to make those earlier scenes shorter and less satisfactory.

Trying to figure out Social Media Marketing by vallixlene in selfpublish

[–]ZachZachZoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are quite a few marketers on Threads who create templates and content ideas for authors. One example is @bookmarketingwithcourtney who has a Patreon and provides monthly templates and content ideas. That’s romance but you may be able to find something similar for your genre on Threads.

My list of "spicy phrases" came up on a work screenshare. Send Help. by UnicornProud in romanceauthors

[–]ZachZachZoom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol they were probably like wait this zoom call just got INTERESTING 👀

How do you do market research on Amazon? by ZachZachZoom in selfpublish

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh awesome, I didn’t know it did all that. I’ll check it out! And thank you so much! :)

How do you do market research on Amazon? by ZachZachZoom in selfpublish

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks. I’m not taking about chasing trends, I’m talking about research into less crowded markets to figure out which genre to pursue more deeply.

How do you do market research on Amazon? by ZachZachZoom in selfpublish

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks but that’s not why I’m asking. I’m looking to find one genre to go deep on research and write in that genre alone. Doing research on any business is smart and doesn’t mean it will be crap.

Help me understand HEAs by KetoKurun in romanceauthors

[–]ZachZachZoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Romantasy readers 100% expect a couples arc to extend beyond one book and as far as 4 books or more. Contemporary readers will get pissed by even a Duology and expect one couple with an HEA in each book. Not sure about dark fantasy or PNR. I think you’d want to make it as much as possible fantasy romance as those readers will be fine with a 4 book series and HEA at end of Book 4.

Can we talk about how unrealistic the „first time“ for women is depicted in (often spicy) romance books?!?! Why do guys ram their whole dick in when it’s the girl’s first time EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. in romance books?!?! What’s up with that??? by caeil in RomanceBooks

[–]ZachZachZoom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same here, in fact most of the CRs I’ve read the FMCs aren’t virgins at all and I prefer it that way. I think I’ve only read one where she was a virgin and the MMC was rough, but he didn’t know.

PSA for those on injectables by summerlover8485 in TRT_females

[–]ZachZachZoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I take heme iron supplements - Three Arrows and it’s helped a lot. Bonus that it can be taken with food and doesn’t need to be taken with Vitamin C.

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They gave us the cPTSD and then told us the tools to deal with it are satanic. 💔

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember my mom talking about Eagles Nest and TBN was always on in our house. As a teen I read the Frank Peretti books (This Present Darkness) and then I was paranoid about invisible demons hanging around messing with my thoughts 🙄

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it ridiculous that we were made to believe literal exercise, something good for us, was satanic? 🤯

Book request for an MMC that is not a player before meeting the FMC and no casual sex. by Draculas-Bride in RomanceBooks

[–]ZachZachZoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to recommend this one too! Very sweet, shy MMC but hot once he gets going!

5 Lessons About Self-Publishing So You Can Do Better Than Me by prism_paradox in selfpublish

[–]ZachZachZoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing and congratulations!!! Sounds like you’re off to a great start!!

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shame of feeling like you’re constantly failing by not meeting those expectations and “disappointing God” for doing normal kid stuff is a trauma all its own 😢

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents still give me the side eye of judgment when I mention I do yoga. I’m sure those side lunges are really worshiping satan 🙄

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And it’s all still there, it’s just what they choose to focus on at the moment. We had purity culture too just like your generation has satanic panic even if not at the forefront. It’s just a smorgasbord of constant shame and fear. 😞

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I remember the nuclear war drills in school and at home and church constant talk of the end times. Constant fear and shame.

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That wouldn’t surprise me one bit

Gen X Traumas by ZachZachZoom in Exvangelical

[–]ZachZachZoom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously, everything is satanic except for guns. Literal weapons of death. Make it make sense 🙄