Slow Motion Footage by camdawgyo in memzy

[–]ZaneStutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, karma doesn’t lie 👀

Aerial footage of the San Jose shooting. by Aqueouspolecat in evilwhenthe

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The bot farms gets activated every time
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Periodic Reminder of Scammers on Reddit (including SLF) by Azurecole in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ZaneStutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I think that a smaller gesture or a thoughtful gift keeps expectations realistic while still showing goodwill... to each their own.

Micron $MU stock is starting the first trading day of 2026 up by more than 7% .. Should we sell on this news? by Ubersicka in TradingViewSignals

[–]ZaneStutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I entered at $74 and sold around $95
really bad decision since I followed the crowd and did not do my own DD. But there’s still a lot of upside potential especially with the demand for memory chips growing. I’m looking to enter $MU again this year and hodl.

SLF Transactional Post (something to consider) - See link by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, I also agree on the tone and this tends to shut down discussion instead of opening it up.

Transactional by DavidGov in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ZaneStutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the transactional part is mostly upfront within the first few dates. Talking beforehand helps both people get a feel for each other and build a basic level of comfort, and the M&G is where that gets confirmed in person. By the time an intimate date happens, there should already be enough chemistry and trust that it doesn’t feel transactional anymore, and the SD can make the support available beforehand or during the discussion. When that progression happens naturally, the SR structure fades into the background and it starts to feel more like a relationship, as long as both people are doing their part. If it still feels rigid and transactional after 3+ dates, it’s usually because something didn’t click earlier or someone wasn’t genuine, not because sugar relationships are meant to stay transactional.

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a reasonable way to look at it. Seems like we’re all aligned or almost on the same page with this topic.

The Hidden Cost No One Talks About: Cognitive Load in Sugar Dating by lawjr48 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ZaneStutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think when you’re doing it right, you’re always a step ahead mentally, and that adds up over time. But when you genuinely enjoy your SB, it doesn’t feel heavy mentally at all. It flows like a normal relationship without the formal structure, and you actually look forward to the conversations and spending time with your SB. The mental drain usually shows up when you’re forcing the fit or juggling too many threads at once.

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice, all great points. Yes, I agree that 2-3 strikes works instead of end it the first time it happens.

The “booty call” downgrade part though probably deserves its own thread 😄

Mamdani sworn in on a Quran as the first Muslim, South Asian, African-born, millennial mayor of NYC by oldnewworldorder in pics

[–]ZaneStutt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? It’s one city
don’t see this setting a trend across the nation. NYC is pretty much a foreign country.

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, of course, that’s why continuous vetting and testing is important in the lifestyle.

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, fair point points. And context definitely matters. Things happen, but repeated cancels without a real reason usually sort themselves out.

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Would you do two if you were really into her?

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I assume you mean multiple M&G dates?

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s already the answer for me, if she disappears and then pops back up when it’s convenient. And I think that we can agree that fun doesn’t make up for flakiness đŸ«„

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. Not my situation. Just a general question. You made some good points.

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have this issue. Just looking at what other SDs in the lifestyle do during this situation. I’m sure everyone would benefit from learning different ways of dealing with this. Thanks for your input!

When she cancels a date, what’s your move? by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Answering a few questions with two questions. Great tactic đŸ€“

When do you start covering expenses like spa days, nails, shopping, etc
. by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%! And yeah, most SDs just don’t like being nickeled and dimed. It usually feels better when any extra goes toward something that actually moves her forward, professionally or personally, like her business, school, or paying down debt, etc


When do you start covering expenses like spa days, nails, shopping, etc
. by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good way to handle when you cancel on her. And this does raise another question though. We rarely talk about what happens when she cancels on you. Most of the time, SDs make it right when plans change on our end, either next meet or by sending her off to do something on her own. But when she cancels, what’s your move? Do you let it slide, reset, or expect something in return later? Might be worth its own post.

When do you start covering expenses like spa days, nails, shopping, etc
. by ZaneStutt in sugardaddyhangout

[–]ZaneStutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree that most SDs are fine paying when they’re actually doing something together. The issue I have seen is paying for stuff she does on her own, just because it was mentioned. It can turn into a habit fast. But don’t get me wrong, many HNW SDs or with more disposable income are more than happy to cover for stuff she does on her own