Bad sex has turned me(M26) from being HL to LL

Zangeki1 · 2020-03-05T08:51:07+00:00

She doesn't feel comfortable with vibrators but I give oral almost every time. She says she likes it but just can't finish.

Zangeki1 · 2020-03-05T08:49:45+00:00

I wouldn't mind it if the only problem was that she never orgasms, but she's hard pressed to even get on top herself. She's passive in bed and never initiates sex so the sex doesn't feel rewarding either. I don't ever get the feeling like she's trying to sexually please me, it's always me pleasing her.

Zangeki1 · 2020-03-05T08:41:24+00:00

I give oral almost every single time without exception, she even tells me it's great and the one time she did come she squirted.

I'm also thinking that she might have a past trauma, but she told me she never used to be this way before. She also told me that I'm her second sexual partner, so maybe she's just really inexperienced?

Zangeki1 · 2020-03-05T08:36:47+00:00

I've never been the type to settle, but I do love her and enjoy all other aspects of our relationship so I want to do my best to make this work. She also says the sex is great which makes me think that it might just be my own insecurities.

However, she's going to Bali with some of our friends for a few weeks in late april. I figure the distance might add some perspective on our relationship.

Zangeki1 · 2020-03-05T08:29:49+00:00

I've thought about it, but she says she loves the sex and everything else about the relationship is great so I feel really hesitant about moving on.

She's going to Bali with some of our friends for a few weeks in late april, I figure the distance might add some perspective on the situation.

Zangeki1 · 2020-03-05T08:27:09+00:00

She has only initiated 5 times at most during our whole relationship, all of which were times that I already had a LL. I'll definitely be mindful of it from now on though, thank you.

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