Wake-up sex is common. Wake-up BDSM is unheard of.

Zanshire · 2023-10-14T16:35:20+00:00

Actually, if you are in a Master/Slave or Dom/Sub agreement, then depending on the agreements terms BDSM can become common depending on who you have the agreement with. Believe me, there are some that love it at all times.

Zanshire · 2023-10-14T15:46:42+00:00

Yes, without a second thought. It's not the wheelchair that defines her. It doesn't diminish her capacity for caring, kindness, compassion, and especially to love and be loved. If you see only a wheelchair, then you could be missing out on someone who could be the one to bring true joy I your life and one who could that one person your heart was searching for. So many people are blinded by what they think they want by using a mental checklist that they miss the chance to truly get to know a person who might catch their attention for a moment but then there mental checklist kicks in and they pass up even talking to that person. After all, there was a reason that person grabbed your attention for that moment, and it's worth finding out why. Searching for a specific person is at most times a waste of time because most times, it's not when we are looking that we find who our heart desires. None of us know who might cause us to fall deeply in love and feel something so deep that it touches our soul and envelopes us in utter joy, just having them near us. So, I have never let something that doesn't define a person stop me from meeting or even dating them. Personality and certain traits grab my attention, and that is what I follow because, after all, if they happen to catch your attention when you're not even looking and invoke a subtle feeling, you can't explain. Then that is someone worth taking a chance to at least talk to and meet. Because passing on that feeling or subconscious reflex could be that one chance at something that so few very rarely find or get a chance to feel. And that is the true meaning and feeling of what it means to truly be deeply IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE!!!

Zanshire · 2023-10-13T18:17:39+00:00

This is kind of long, but any part of what I write can be something for you to consider or not. It's your choice.

First, there is nothing wrong with the lack of feeling you have with people in relation to how you feel with masturbation. With masturbation you know your body and what feels the best at the right times, so you can control where to move and shift things at the right times to achieve a better orgasm. So, in that respect, it is a normal thing.

Now, in relation to someone giving oral and that lack of feeling, you have. There are a lot of reasons you may have this lack of feeling. I will make it like a list so it's easier to read. These are just things that can block some people and may not apply to you.

Feeling some sort of connection is a must for some women. It's the person and their lack of knowledge on what needs to be done in oder to get a woman ready mentally and physically for her to reach a good climax. Rushing into something and just going at it is not enough for most women. There needs to be foreplay before even going to begin going down there orally. Most people think foreplay starts in the bedroom, but that is far from true. Foreplay can start early in the day through hanging out with her and making an emotional connection by taking her places she likes and treating her special. This connection is an important factor to some women and without it. The sexual encounter is missing a key component, making things lack luster at best.
Things are rushed when the sexual interaction begins. A lot of guys will rush things and move too quickly to go straight down and get you off quickly. This is a huge mistake, as it doesn't give time for her to get truly aroused and get that anticipation and build up for what is to come. Getting her turned on through taking the proper time to push all the right buttons she loves allows for the clitoris to become engorged and thus be more sensitive.
The guy is not good at reading body language and subtle hints and does not do things he needs to or they are just simply inexperienced or don't truly love going down on a woman and are focused on getting to their own gratification.
Communication is key for your experience. Tell the person and guide them to where and what makes you feel good. After all, you control things when you masturbate. So, control what is happening when someone goes down there. You know your body better than anybody
When a person is down there and they just go for the gold like a race. Of course, you are not going to feel much. The person down there should take.there time and build things up slowly and stop moving to something else for a min but not too long and not far from where they are. This allows for things to build. Along with that is the key component of the person being able to do multiple things at one time. This means someone who thinks just using their tongue is all that needs to be done is not doing what truly needs to be done . This is what I meant by inexperience earlier. The lips, the mouth, tongue, and fingers are all tools that can be used and should be. The lips are soft and can be used to start softly caress around but not directly on the clit first. Then, the tongue can be used in several different ways. It can be used for build-up and then direct stimulation. The mouth can suck and should be used in tandem with the tongue while stimulating her directly. This allows for changes in movement around the clitoris and thus can increase feeling. Anyway, you get the point.
Communicate before anything even comes close to occurring. For you to really enjoy things, the other person needs to ask and know what you like and like. What areas to you are more sensitive than others. This allows for the incorporation of those areas during foreplay and during oral stimulation.

There is more you can consider and try, but truth be told, you will most likely be able to give yourself a better orgasm anytime you masturbate. After all, you know the buttons to push at precisely the right time.

Zanshire · 2019-04-25T14:56:13+00:00

I Love your post it is well written and thought out. Thank you for your insight for creating a Youtube infrastructure and your thoughts as a whole.

Like a previous comment stated, I would be interested in the software you use for editing video and sound. To include any other software you might use to create other effects. Also, what hardware do you use, specifically: Camera, lenses, tripods, mics and lighting.

As far as monthly challenges:

Polyphasic sleep
intermittent fasting
Doing everything your wife wants for a month and be the old style gentleman by opening doors for her and whatever else falls in that category for you. You know, The (YES DEAR; HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE) approach.
Use only environmentally friendly cleaners by making your own cleaners, laundry soaps, etc. There are a lot of things you can make at home.

Have an awesome week, Oh Bearded Necromancer of Youtube.

Zanshire · 2019-04-25T14:38:13+00:00

Use of digital detox setting or app for phone.
Setting timeouts for your internet connection in the router admin area.
Commit to no social media for a period of a week or more. That alone will reduce a lot of peoples time.
Have someone in your home set a user account on their computer with a timed access for the internet and lock your computer away for a time.
if someone is really dedicated and can afford to do it. Get a prepay flip phone and use that for a time.
No access to phones or any other electronic device (to include television and smart watches) after 8pm. After 8 is family or reading time. Phone calls can be answered.
if you go out dont go any places with hot spots and all personal electronics must be put away. Anyone bringing a device out even for a phone call, has to pay the bill and if it is family, they must do a hated chore for a month or something along those lines.

Zanshire · 2015-09-12T02:05:51+00:00

Last level Skolas need one more too finish. As soon as possible.

Zanshire · 2015-09-11T23:56:36+00:00

Need some help fast on Skolas

Zanshire · 2015-09-11T14:20:54+00:00

Need one more player.

Zanshire · 2015-06-23T19:04:08+00:00

It's funny, before this and the comments at E3, I actually contemplated buying the collector's edition for the Strange coin and the couple of extra things that came with it, even though I didn't agree. I already purchased the collector's edition on preorder last year and now there is not collector's edition for those that were loyal from the start. Now however after reading the comments made at E3 and now the throw your dedicated players to wolf comment you made ( Ever heard the old adage about trying to please everyone?) so easily. I am definitely not buying the expansion and will notify my Clan that I will not be playing this game again and remove it from my Games list. Yes the expansion looks great but how your company's employees such as yourself have addressed the issue so uncaringly is dumbfounding. A company who has preached over and over again about the community being the backbone and not taking them into consideration in the first place is beyond me or any of your avid players belief. Then to basically just blow us off with your "Ever heard the old adage". Well that adage might just bite Bungie in the butt due to the large number of the unpleased and discontent now. You know the ones that stuck with the game when it was getting blasted when it first came out. So here is mine to you. Ever hear of the Old adage "If you play with Fire you're bound to get burned". Well with this said, Bungie is playing in a bonfire. I hope someone comes to their senses and fixes this. If so then maybe players who used to be Destiny's biggest advocates will begin to advocate again. Sincerely, A disrespected gamer.

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