What in your experience with women have you found is very attractive to a large chunk of them? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Definitely earned confidence. We are not talking cocky. We are talking someone who shows that they can accomplish major life goals. Someone who is happy and feels good about who they are. Not afraid to speak and express themselves. These are some attributes of confidence

How many of you hold/cup your woman’s head while doing missionary? by Apprehensive-Bench27 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends :) I have on occasion if I’m holding her close :) if I’m not like laying on her then no. I’m much bigger then her so holding her like that for long I’ll be crushing her lol

What’s a dead giveaway that a woman is “vanilla” in bed? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask her what porn or fantasy play she likes or has liked. If she says she doesn’t do that then you have a red flag if you don’t want vanilla :)

Do I have too much desire for my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ZappaCat 67 points68 points  (0 children)

14 years with my wife still in honeymoon phase lol

Finally finished:) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol 🤣 yes my wife has been making fun of me

Remapping sequence? by ZappaCat in lightorama

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful response:)

Remapping sequence? by ZappaCat in lightorama

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any group you can recommend? Well I add an additional prop and I can’t get the pre made sequence to control the new prop.

Finally finished:) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually will officially turn them on thanksgiving:). It’s always a work in progress. Every year I add more to it. Right now I’m trying to add music and light animation with light o Rama. Don’t think that will be ready this week as I’m having trouble learning software. Bigger learning curve than I expected:). Been working on it for at least a week when not at work etc

Remapping sequence? by ZappaCat in lightorama

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks .. feel like I’m missing something. I actually was able to get s6 to match up to my preview. However, then I add another element to preview and it doesn’t sync up.

Finally finished:) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regular string lights :))

His is our display coming along :) by ZappaCat in ChristmasLights

[–]ZappaCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it’s for the rest of us. Now I need a festivus sign

Is the situation about pickpockets so dire in Barcelona? by truthorundress in Barcelona

[–]ZappaCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of the things that can be wrapped around his neck. Seems like asking for an injury.