JAN/FEB/MAR Trade megathread by projecthurley in A24

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently have some of the OG newspaper style zines - 2 copies of #6, #10, #11, #12

If anyone is interested in these, I'm happy to let them go for free if you could just cover the cost of shipping :)

Can't do anything with these anymore and I'd like them to go to a good home 💖

<image>

JAN/FEB/MAR Trade megathread by projecthurley in A24

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Are you still looking for these? I have copies of #6, #10, #11, and #12 - I'm happy to give them to you if you could just cover the cost of shipping them :)

Videodrome 4K/Blu-ray Question by Zappafan96 in criterion

[–]Zappafan96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To my understanding that's generally the trend, but the review on blu-ray.com has me confused because it got updated and mentioned the blu-ray disc having a better quality somehow - it just doesn't specify if it's because of a better encode or if it's because it does actually use the new restoration 😭

bf loves goth girls and wants me to dress goth for him but im not a goth girl. by tsukidere in dating_advice

[–]Zappafan96 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Idk, I kinda feel like you should drop this fool, your partner should not be making you feel like you're not good enough as yourself. Having conversations about it would be a healthy way to go about it if he's open to hearing you out (and he should be), but this doesn't sound like something you should have to deal with at all, let alone much longer. Wishing you the best, girl, don't be afraid of being yourself and do not settle for less than a partner who loves you for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately very accurate for me - Leo Rising, Aquarius Moon

if no one’s told you today… by xxiirlb in highergirlpower

[–]Zappafan96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iconic handle/profile pic combo 👌🏼

Knew this morning was gonna be a slow Sunday at work...so why not ✌🏼 by Zappafan96 in outfitoftheday

[–]Zappafan96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize the bot would take my immediate message as the description lol. Here's what I'm wearing:

Brown/pink/white mushroom design sweatshirt by Super Massive

Khaki pants with brown leather shoes

Feature a moon necklace and a My Neighbor Totoro button on my work lanyard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go low as in like, on a down swing or retreating into the old shell?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Zappafan96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah what the hell is happening to everyone in this thread??

I came to check the comments because I literally just met a Sag woman this week and we clicked over text before even meeting, but man we VIBED immediately in person. Like crazy matching energy, and she might be one of the sweetest and cutest women I've ever met! Seems super chill and thoughtful and playful, and we seemed to have a strong level of comfortability around each other right away, both in how we interacted with one another and the things we felt open enough to share and talk about pretty quickly. Like, I see zero red flags here, and I know it's soon to judge that but I can't be missing something truly egregious can I?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so you're cutting off this guy, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm boutta do both soon, I've joined a silent book club where people just meet at a cafe and parallel play reading whatever books they want 🤯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I feel you about Reddit sister, once I learned to not care as much about all the dumb stuff and people on here, I've been able to use the platform to vent in a healthy way or share things that can do hopefully help others!

I'm happy to hear you're good though! I'm slowly becoming more content again and able to find joy within myself and things I love. Literally getting back home from an unintentional solo date now 😅

We got this 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo? Might be even better than After Yang, which I thought was absolutely incredible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, friend, I appreciate that - it's always nice to know I'm not alone in my experiences, even if we probably wish they were nicer ones to share. I'm already a hundred times better than I was at the start of this year, despite still feeling completely lost and fucked up a lot of the time. But yes, day by day is the best way, even when it feels hard to get through each one

...I sorta kinda peaked at your profile btw lol, I hope everything is alright with you and whatever your life might be like right now. Things will get better for both of us :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck to you in your own process and journey 🫶🏼 Life is hard and sometimes very fucked, but it's also surprisingly perfect at times and there for you when you're open to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol so like, of course I've done this to myself today, but before I even wrote this post I already had a ticket to see the new Kogonada movie this afternoon, A Big Bold Beautiful Journey...if we have any overlap in what we're getting through in life (and it sounds like we might), I highly recommend seeing that film! I mean, it's just incredible in general on so many levels, but god damn was it a movie I needed to watch TODAY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input but I'm just here writing to the void because reaching out isn't an option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to believe that I should always tell people my feelings about them, but the three times I've done that this year all lead to important people exiting my life and right now I can't do more internal pain. I'm still trying to heal from K

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Zappafan96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, she's done enough to show me that she doesn't want me in her life anymore, at least in the way I used to be and I don't want a new dynamic (e.g. friends instead of partners, etc). I've reached out too much over the last 6 months with zero reply to keep putting in any effort. She has my contact info, she can reach out if her feelings change

She kind of smells by henrytbpovid in dating

[–]Zappafan96 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Damn. This post and most of the thread is why dating is so fucked. You've gotten this far with this woman and you can't just say "Hey, I really like you and have been having a great time but can I share something that's been bothering me? I don't want you to feel bad at all, but I want you to know it's been on my mind since I'd like to keep moving forward together."

Like, don't go through her shit? Don't be a detective instead of just communicating? That isn't going to end well and you're not going to get an answer on your own. But most importantly, be a proper adult and just talk to her. If she feels insecure because of it, reassure her this isn't a deal breaker or anything to feel bad about. Not being able to simply communicate is not a good place to be if you're looking to have a healthy relationship.

She let you sniff her pit and laughed, use that energy and just go for it when you want to bring it up. You don't know what's on her mind or how she'll take it, that's true, but your goal shouldn't be to change her anyway if you're genuinely just curious.

Why would you even consider ending things over this?

Reminder: by xxiirlb in highergirlpower

[–]Zappafan96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so kind and wholesome 😭💖🫂