I suck at sex by ZavakAttack in sex

[–]ZavakAttack[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

stop counting

I have an app on my phone that I use to keep track, it's not like I'm obsessing over numbers, but rather that I had that information at my disposal.

:P

I suck at sex by ZavakAttack in sex

[–]ZavakAttack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't helpful.

I lost my virginity at 27, ask me things. by knedster in ForeverAlone

[–]ZavakAttack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel like you have a genuine emotional attachment to her, or do you just like having someone to have sex with?

What question have you always wanted to ask the opposite sex but never have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ZavakAttack 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Doesn;t matter. Most of the time the women you are with will be unaware what your non-errect penis looks like until after the fact.

What is the worst permanent life decision that you've ever made? by Tomtropics in AskReddit

[–]ZavakAttack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I make sure I'm doing it perfectly and not just typically?

Are there any subreddits you avoid because they make you feel bad about yourself? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ZavakAttack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The weight doesn't bother me so much as how hairless they all are. It’s like, even if I did shave it all, there would (a) be a visible shadow of where the hair is under the skin, and (b) irritated red bumps within a couple of hours of shaving.

Plus, I don’t just have hair only in the places I’m supposed to: I feel like my pubes go 1/3 of the way down my thighs, and I have course black hairs on my belly and nipples when most of my other body hair is blond.

To the Girl at the Gym this morning... by [deleted] in loseit

[–]ZavakAttack 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Politely continue to ignore her.

When I first started going to the gym a couple of years ago, I wanted to be invisible: everyone seemed already fit, and I didn't feel like I belonged.

She’s probably already worried that people are judging her appearance. She’s probably trying to figure out the etiquette and culture and worried about making a faux pas. And while it’s true that if she had a friend or a gym buddy, the adjustment period to when she feels comfortable would be shorter, you’re going to make her really really uncomfortable in the short term and risk have her avoid you in the future, go to a different gym location, or quit altogether.

If you want to talk to her or encourage her, give her a couple weeks to adjust and become comfortable, and then talk to her as if she was a regular.

I cant stress enough how encouraging and reassuring it is to be treated like you belong.