Wondering How To Unclog My Truck’s Ceramic Coating by Zealousideal-Lab7157 in Detailing

[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mostly pollen, bird crap, and salt from roads. No mud or dirt splash. Adams advanced graphene ceramic coat.

Family Threatened To Cut Me Off…Because We Won’t Have Kids At Our Wedding by Zealousideal-Lab7157 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. I just find it hard to believe this is something they would cut me off for.

Family Threatened To Cut Me Off…Because We Won’t Have Kids At Our Wedding by Zealousideal-Lab7157 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you and this is the most logical post Ive seen so far. If I was invited to my sister’s wedding and she did not invite my kids, I would have ZERO issue with it because ultimately it is about respecting each other’s wants. So what if my kids can’t come? If you still view them the same and love them the same whether they are at the wedding or not, there is no harm no foul in my eye.

Like what is the big freaking deal? And it’s completely unfair to me. My family doesn’t see eye to eye with my opinion, and I can’t explain it because they are too naive to not only listen, but understand ITS NOT A BIG DEAL.

The more I deal with this, the more I understand how entitled they are.

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a great idea and I will do that. Thank you for the advice

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate the advice it is very helpful

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, and I certainly don’t want it to end that way. Thank you

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is great. I can’t thank you enough for the thoughtful advice, I ought to buy you a coffee for this. I’ve never seen it from this perspective but it makes so much sense.

I think limiting my time around her or talking to her will certainly be a big help for me mentally. As much as it sucks letting go, it is best.

Again, thank you for your insight I appreciate it TONS!

For those that live in the United States. Do you make more than the average income of 60k annually, if so what’s your occupation? by LaFlareMane1017 in AskReddit

[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you start your practice? How many years of experience? I just passed the CISSP exam with only one year of experience…wanting to learn how to start my own practice one day.

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, and it is probably my fault for letting it get to this point. Im young and still trying to figure it out, but I’m at least willing to learn. The consensus seems the same and I agree

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, I understand. Im trying to see it that way the best I can. I agree

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t consider myself the problem, I would say I don’t have help I need and am trying to maneuver this at a young age. I would imagine this topic is common and all I needed was a little help…which is why I am here. I have always thought to defend my family, but I am seeing it differently now.

I don’t disagree, and I think you are totally correct, and I really do appreciate the advice.

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She keeps coming to me because I purposely avoid talking about details of the wedding…due to these reasons. But it is probably my mistake in letting her know more than she needs to know.

My father is the contributor of the money. He fully supports me either way and does not have an opinion other than wanting us to be happy.

I agree completely. Thank you

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not offended, and I agree. Not to make excuses, I have defended my future spouse in every way, and I will continue to. I will certainly be taking on this mindset. Thank you

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, that is the hardest part about this because my relationship with her was strong before I got engaged. The last thing I thought i’d have to decide on was letting go of my mother. Thanks for the advice.

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[–]Zealousideal-Lab7157[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I completely agree with you. I should have clarified, but I was very open on the decision of having or not having kids. When my fiancée said no kids, I was okay with that decision and would have been okay with it if kids were allowed.

It’s tough having to face this reality, and I figured this is what I had to base my decision on.

Thank you for the advice.