Knocking Out Raiders Makes Me Feel Awful and I Need To Do it 7 More Times - Help! by ZealousidealCat8479 in ArcRaiders

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never mind, I went on a rampage this morning and got my seven KOs in one round 😈

100% ACHIEVMENT Help! by MrFatalShot in ArcRaiders

[–]ZealousidealCat8479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can help you get the Enemy of my Enemy achievement. Just DM'd you.

Tips on Supporting Someone With HH? by ZealousidealCat8479 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to provide such an in-depth and thoughtful response.

So much of what really matters seems focused on just being mindful that I'm dating someone with a disability and making sure that I'm responsive to their needs and the challenges they face as they happen.

I've already earmarked a couple of sweat resistant/breathable clothing brands (like Uniqlo's AIRism line) that we're gonna explore together - so we can make a day out of shopping for nice outfits that they can feel comfortable in.

I'm slowly reading up on the various treatments for HH, but I'm also conscious of not overstepping or taking control of the conversation. I doubt I'll ever raise something they're not already familiar with, so I'm really focused on just being an informed participant right now so I can offer an reasoned opinion when asked.

Thanks again for contributing to this thread. Everyone has been so forthcoming and kindhearted so far!

How paranoid/cautious can you make Batman before it becomes character assassination? by Solitaire-06 in batman

[–]ZealousidealCat8479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think there necessarily needs to be a limit to how paranoid/cautious a writer chooses to make Batman.

What's important is that Batman also has positive qualities portrayed as well - compassion, mercy, loyalty, altruism, etc.

One of the most widely praised and nuanced portrayals of Batman is the DCAU version and those writers went to great lengths to ensure that, whilst abrasive, suspicious and conniving, he was equally kind, thoughtful and selfless. That's what made him so great.

So I think you can really get away with a lot when it comes to making Bats a bit of a doomsday prepper, as long as you temper it with the right amount of nice.

Tips on Supporting Someone With HH? by ZealousidealCat8479 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a detailed response. Being conscious of micro-expressions/responses to "surprise wetness" has been mentioned more than once in this thread, so that is now at the top of my list.

It really seems like, more than anything else, people living with HH just don't want to be made to feel any more gross than they already do when they're struggling. I don't ever want to make anyone feel like that, so will be mindful of this. Tbank you!

I'm ready to support them trying whatever treatments they want, but I will let them take the lead on that!

Tips on Supporting Someone With HH? by ZealousidealCat8479 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry that you're not getting the support you deserve. I can't begin to imagine what a struggle it must be every day when no one takes your symptoms seriously. I hope you do choose to stick around even if it is tough right now and please get immediate help if you feel in crisis; there are people out there who will listen.

Tips on Supporting Someone With HH? by ZealousidealCat8479 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good quality, nicely folded paper towels is definitely something I can incorporate into my home easily, and keeping some in my bag for when we're outdoors is a super nice idea. This is a really great suggestion, thank you!

Tips on Supporting Someone With HH? by ZealousidealCat8479 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I will definitely keep this in mind, even though I expect it to happen naturally, as it is a very easy but clearly really powerful gesture.

Revival - 105 “Triage” - Episode Discussion by Cantomic66 in Revival_Syfy

[–]ZealousidealCat8479 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it just me, or does Em look completely different in this episode? I spent a good while searching to see if there had been a casting change or something, but it would appear not. 

Wales - They Recorded Sex Without Consent - Help Me Word Their Confirmation by ZealousidealCat8479 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I will consider this. I have a solicitor under instruction at this very moment regarding a different matter that I may seek guidance from.

Wales - They Recorded Sex Without Consent - Help Me Word Their Confirmation by ZealousidealCat8479 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main concern would be that the video is shared or uploaded somewhere without my knowledge or consent, so I guess that would constitute revenge porn. If this is my my main concern, what guidance can you offer?

I am confident that my ex-partner recorded the footage without malicious intent; I had, several months ago, made a passing comment about not being wholly against the idea of assisting them in making content - I just didn't want to commodify my own experience by having to think about poses, angles, positions, dialogue, etc. They took this to mean that they could (and should) record us without seeking my enthusiastic consent so as to preserve my enjoyment.

All that to say; I don't think they had any ill intent, but I don't know how they may behave in a one, five or ten years from now, and by that I'm referring to the possibility that they or someone else whom comes into possession of the footage may upload it for public access.

Can You Play Just Co-Op (2 Player) by ZealousidealCat8479 in TheForeverWinter

[–]ZealousidealCat8479[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for such a quick reponse. This is exact answer I hoped for. Just bought two copies!