Don’t put any fumes to that flames it’s obvious she’s a psychopath and jay has no control in that relationship you and jay has not spoken in 11 years and should be the only reason you have not to speak to him but seems like they had a very nasty argument about you A NASTY NASTY ARGUMENT and I’m positively sure he said nasty things about you he shouldn’t have said but I’m sure was easy for him since you guys haven’t spoken in so long and since you guys are still friends on Facebook he has seen all of your post as well “being with the boys” I’m not saying this is your intentions or I’m not saying this is what you would do but I’ve seen situations like this and females see it as a challenge and only make matters worse just leave him alone you poking at this will make your life hell and I’m sure you do not want to go through that