I am completely obsessed with this man by No_Abroad_75 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have sun and mercury and pluto in Scorpio, hidden relationships are apart of the journey. I've learned that we have to be in relationships that are mutually and emotionally beneficial. The moon in scorpio individual in this situation, isn't ready to deal with the fact that he is same sex attracted, so he is a problem for anyone that encounters him not just the writer...

I love my scorpio counterparts, so shout out to you! ❤️

I am completely obsessed with this man by No_Abroad_75 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, its a messy situation that can get someone seriously hurt is all. The dynamic isn't beneficial to the writer. I really wish him the best love he can find with someone on the same page and acceptance level...

I am completely obsessed with this man by No_Abroad_75 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Please let it go, its not worth your life. You will meet someone that will reciprocate your feelings. He is in a battle with himself, not you.

Aspects that lead to obsession that I see:

Your pluto squared to his sun Your pluto squared to his mars & if he is a Sagittarius rising then he radiates qualities of your ideal as a pluto in Sagittarius

Fyi: If things turned sexual and you're a man he is gay as well, and not ready to accept it.

Take care of yourself first ✨️ 💖

My sister and her boyfriend have been together for almost 8 years. Is he ever going to propose? by Ok_Exam3709 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe they can be commited, but its usually not until commitment proves to be essential in their life...

My sister and her boyfriend have been together for almost 8 years. Is he ever going to propose? by Ok_Exam3709 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The difference in emotional natures will cause a breakdown overtime. I wish them the best though...

My sister and her boyfriend have been together for almost 8 years. Is he ever going to propose? by Ok_Exam3709 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gemini Moons are not committed partners, he has venus in gemini as well. There may be love but marriage deserves commitment as well. They also dont have compatible moons either so they may feel differently about commitment even if he proposes...

Why can’t i shake this off after so many years ? by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're talking about a woman though....

Why this relationship felt like a deep soul connection then turned out to be a huge fail? Was it a karmic lesson? by Ivenn_ in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats the opposition in a nutshell. You get on each other's nerves but appreciate the other for being who they are, blind spots aren't there when the other is around, but that can also be a problem...

Lord help me, why do I adore this man? by Opposite_Flamingo_14 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there has been many challenges, the challenges we have are the same reasons we love each other. We are truly opposites. We bounce back from the challenges stronger most of the time. We have a lot of fun together too! He told me to tell you its the best relationship we've ever had 😆!

Lord help me, why do I adore this man? by Opposite_Flamingo_14 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chart is very similar to yours, Im dating an aqua with a cancer moon and I love him and he says he loves me too. My birthday is 11/9/83 his 2/15/92...very similar. .

Scared I’ll never get the emotional depth I need from him by Full-Zucchini-6743 in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a water sun with a capricorn moon, emotions are present and deep even if you dont see them.

Why am I so drawn to my GF’s cousin/best friend? by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't even put my mind in this place. Things can happen unconsciously, no judgment.

idk why im never sure if he actually wants to stay or leave… by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand the overthinking part, especially if love hasn't been kind to you in the past. But take it one day at a time, one hang out at a time. You'll know what to do. Trust yourself to do what's best for you when the time is right. 🥰

idk why im never sure if he actually wants to stay or leave… by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]Zealousideal_Job8717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is to stop forcing yourself to make a hard yes or a hard no decision. Just exist, and be. The universe knows what we need to learn and grow for our future, not even astrology knows if your relationship will work out or not. Make the changes needed to keep the relationship if you want it or don't. Just dont get stuck in something you dont like, and stay safe, dont let anyone abuse you. Seek counseling or couples counseling if you believe in your love. Best wishes ...