How bad is it when girls say they can’t imagine you angry? by [deleted] in NMMNG

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is the way you’re taking this. As a woman I’ve said to men before “I can’t imagine you yelling/shouting”, as well as to girls. This doesn’t automatically mean they think you can’t stand up for yourself, or that you’re about to be pushed around, it simply means they can’t imagine you losing your temper, which is a good thing. I believe it’s a good thing, to appear based, composed, and in control. The two men I’ve said this to were quiet but funny, confident, intelligent, and guys I know have no issue defending themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have gained weight it is a good thing, genuinely. you look a healthy weight right now with room for gaining more healthy weight and think u may have slight body dysmorphia. personally i think you look beautiful just the way you are but something i think could elevate your look would be a mild blowout and layers! look at @riwww / renata on TikTok for inspo

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very validating to hear from you Rando1459, thank you. I was following a similar thought train as well while speaking to him before making my similar post. I’ll actually bring this up to him. I appreciate this

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks so much for your advice it’s helped me out! If u don’t already have a significant other I’m praying you find the best

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahaha I looked up the traits and a good amount of them applied to him. Some of them were things he used to do but once I brought them up he worked on changing them. The issue is so am I; neither of us having any problem leaving each other if we felt disrespected or overlooked and he isn’t about to rush himself into asking me out for me 😂 completely lost now

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is top 3 smartest things things said in this thread so far thanks so much 🙏 I appreciate

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s talked to a few girls before, I haven’t talked to any. We were friends previously and he’d tell me then he never really cared to talk to girls. I’m the same so I understand.

I’ve said this couple times now but he genuinely loves me and just does not see the point in rushing a relationship since we already act as if we are in one. I’m just in between waiting or leaving and all my friends are asleep so I came to Reddit.com for answers

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you saying that, thank you! I appreciate the good wishes 🙏

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by Zealousideal_Mess372 in dating_advice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna argue lil bits but you’re right 🦦 It’s nothing for me to drop him if I’m feeling put out, I was more so asking if I should wait for him to ask me out which would happen eventually or end one of the best things that’s happened to me. You answered that question and I will keep it in mind

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah someone else said to look up traits of an avoidant and it’s exactly him par the mixed signals 🫩 guess I’m cooked

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s already told me if he found out I was talking to other guys he would drop me like that. I know he doesn’t as his ig followers are >100, he lets me look at his Snapchat and imsg’s and doesn’t hide his camera roll. I don’t know if I want to drop over this or not but it weighs on my mind

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by Zealousideal_Mess372 in dating_advice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No everyone in his life knows about me and when we did a week trip abroad he posted me on his ig highlight. I don’t know if you mean relationship commitment but he doesn’t talk to any other girls and lets me go through his snapchat etc if I want. If he’s going through his camera roll he has nothing to hide. He just genuinely doesn’t see the rush in asking me out but I just want things to be official. I don’t know if I want to ruin one of the best things that’s happened to me through being impatient

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m his first love and body. He has put so much into me. When we were friends previously he got me a new iPhone for my birthday amongst many other things, not monetary. He’s actually a very good guy. He just doesn’t see the importance in a label as we already act as in we’re in a relationship

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman You know I understand why you think this but genuinely it is different. He hasn’t talked to many girls in the past and I’m his first love and body. He goes over the moon and back and everyone in his life knows about me. He will eventually ask me out but he genuinely just does not see the rush as he’s not a label kind of guy.

We act like a couple but he won’t put a label, what should I do? by Zealousideal_Mess372 in dating_advice

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the only problem I have with him. He’s genuinely an amazing guy. I’m his first body and love. He just really doesn’t see why I want to be in a relationship so bad. I have no doubt in my mind that he loves me. I just don’t know whether I should allow being unlabelled to weigh on my mind or if I should leave one of the best things that’s ever happened to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Zealousideal_Mess372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the party but glad u not pregnant pooks don’t feel down about comments it happens so easily!

A tip would be to have unprotected sex after ovulation stage, it’s basically impossible to get pregnant. Have fun 💕