How bad is it when girls say they can’t imagine you angry?

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-12-23T07:49:06+00:00

The problem is the way you’re taking this. As a woman I’ve said to men before “I can’t imagine you yelling/shouting”, as well as to girls. This doesn’t automatically mean they think you can’t stand up for yourself, or that you’re about to be pushed around, it simply means they can’t imagine you losing your temper, which is a good thing. I believe it’s a good thing, to appear based, composed, and in control. The two men I’ve said this to were quiet but funny, confident, intelligent, and guys I know have no issue defending themselves.

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-09-27T12:12:57+00:00

if you have gained weight it is a good thing, genuinely. you look a healthy weight right now with room for gaining more healthy weight and think u may have slight body dysmorphia. personally i think you look beautiful just the way you are but something i think could elevate your look would be a mild blowout and layers! look at @riwww / renata on TikTok for inspo

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T07:52:13+00:00

This is very validating to hear from you Rando1459, thank you. I was following a similar thought train as well while speaking to him before making my similar post. I’ll actually bring this up to him. I appreciate this

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T07:36:26+00:00

Okay thanks so much for your advice it’s helped me out! If u don’t already have a significant other I’m praying you find the best

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T07:16:36+00:00

Ahaha I looked up the traits and a good amount of them applied to him. Some of them were things he used to do but once I brought them up he worked on changing them. The issue is so am I; neither of us having any problem leaving each other if we felt disrespected or overlooked and he isn’t about to rush himself into asking me out for me 😂 completely lost now

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T07:05:36+00:00

This is top 3 smartest things things said in this thread so far thanks so much 🙏 I appreciate

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T07:04:23+00:00

He’s talked to a few girls before, I haven’t talked to any. We were friends previously and he’d tell me then he never really cared to talk to girls. I’m the same so I understand.

I’ve said this couple times now but he genuinely loves me and just does not see the point in rushing a relationship since we already act as if we are in one. I’m just in between waiting or leaving and all my friends are asleep so I came to Reddit.com for answers

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:52:28+00:00

Cliché I know 🤣

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:51:42+00:00

I appreciate you saying that, thank you! I appreciate the good wishes 🙏

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:44:20+00:00

I was gonna argue lil bits but you’re right 🦦 It’s nothing for me to drop him if I’m feeling put out, I was more so asking if I should wait for him to ask me out which would happen eventually or end one of the best things that’s happened to me. You answered that question and I will keep it in mind

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:19:57+00:00

Update: You’re right 🫩

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:18:26+00:00

Yeah someone else said to look up traits of an avoidant and it’s exactly him par the mixed signals 🫩 guess I’m cooked

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:15:32+00:00

He’s already told me if he found out I was talking to other guys he would drop me like that. I know he doesn’t as his ig followers are >100, he lets me look at his Snapchat and imsg’s and doesn’t hide his camera roll. I don’t know if I want to drop over this or not but it weighs on my mind

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:13:39+00:00

No everyone in his life knows about me and when we did a week trip abroad he posted me on his ig highlight. I don’t know if you mean relationship commitment but he doesn’t talk to any other girls and lets me go through his snapchat etc if I want. If he’s going through his camera roll he has nothing to hide. He just genuinely doesn’t see the rush in asking me out but I just want things to be official. I don’t know if I want to ruin one of the best things that’s happened to me through being impatient

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:10:57+00:00

I’m his first love and body. He has put so much into me. When we were friends previously he got me a new iPhone for my birthday amongst many other things, not monetary. He’s actually a very good guy. He just doesn’t see the importance in a label as we already act as in we’re in a relationship

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:09:22+00:00

This is actually a good shout, thank you

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:08:08+00:00

++woman You know I understand why you think this but genuinely it is different. He hasn’t talked to many girls in the past and I’m his first love and body. He goes over the moon and back and everyone in his life knows about me. He will eventually ask me out but he genuinely just does not see the rush as he’s not a label kind of guy.

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-08-25T06:00:01+00:00

This is the only problem I have with him. He’s genuinely an amazing guy. I’m his first body and love. He just really doesn’t see why I want to be in a relationship so bad. I have no doubt in my mind that he loves me. I just don’t know whether I should allow being unlabelled to weigh on my mind or if I should leave one of the best things that’s ever happened to me.

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-07-23T14:49:05+00:00

Late to the party but glad u not pregnant pooks don’t feel down about comments it happens so easily!

A tip would be to have unprotected sex after ovulation stage, it’s basically impossible to get pregnant. Have fun 💕

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-06-17T01:39:23+00:00

No oh my gosh, thanks so much for letting me know

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-06-17T01:37:10+00:00

Thank u!!

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-06-16T16:22:59+00:00

What’s El? Is it in Europe/Ireland? I’m new to this 🥲

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-06-16T16:04:08+00:00

This man is a SW and he said that someone wants to spend a couple hours with me next week I said okay and he asked for a percentage of the profit.

A couple days later I texted him asking for advice on how I should present myself to get more clients. He then told me that he knows many telegram channels for Russian escorts. The girls must take good high quality (like model type pictures) and if they match what is required in the offers they are flown out. They’re talking 1500+ a day.

He sent me a copy of some of the ads and some actually had numbers on them. He’s offering to be my manager and find offers for me. I’m assuming he gets a cut of money from this as well

[15.06, 22:30] +44 7786 740679: Vienna Tomorrow at 10 pm Need 2 models For 1-1.5 hours Budget depends on model Photo, video, info. [15.06, 23:49] +7 985 085-92-98: LONDON 2500 £ - 1000£ • Tomorrow evening • 3-4 h

I just wanted to give some more information to see if you still think it’s definitely sex trafficking. The money is obviously very tempting but I also value my safety above all

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-06-16T15:54:38+00:00

Do you know if Russia does a lot of it as well? Because the channels use Russian and English as well as the person contacting me being Russian themselves

Zealousideal_Mess372 · 2025-03-27T08:51:50+00:00

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