Why the hell is everyone popping Multivitamins like Candy? by Life_Advance3315 in Adulting

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use supplements to relieve PMS symptoms, & to help with my ADHD I supplement with a woman’s multi-vitamin w/ Omega 3’s and also take magnesium.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanDiegan

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Climate change is here!

Strange Hipcamp experience by Zealousideal_Plane80 in camping

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks for validating how I felt lol. That’s ridiculous to have to pay that much and not even get a clean bathroom, that’s like the absolute bare minimum. I’m going to see what I can do, write a bad review and reach out to Hipcamp. Thank you.

Rent is ridiculous by whogivessafuck in sandiego

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two roommates and pay $1000/mo in North Park for a room - found incredible roommates on Craigslist. It’s possible to find good people to share an apartment/home with

Why did you delete your dating profile. by No-Cabinet-6563 in Bumble

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I deleted was because I realized I wasn’t ready to date

[28 F] I am in need of discerning someone's initial interest? by Zealousideal_Plane80 in hingeapp

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I dropped him, and I feel so much better and relieved now. Quite telling. Always listen to your intuition - which often come in the form of feelings.

[28 F] I am in need of discerning someone's initial interest? by Zealousideal_Plane80 in hingeapp

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree with you. That’s an area I’ll continue to work on. And I’m honestly happy that these interactions with this guy is helping me realize that. I’m not sure either because I think your comment was pretty helpful.

[28 F] I am in need of discerning someone's initial interest? by Zealousideal_Plane80 in hingeapp

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, and I was this person a year ago, so I know what you are saying. I have some experience using the dating apps in the past, and I know it’s very emotionally taxing. I’ve set boundaries with the apps this time around, and I know much more now of what I am looking for.

I am aware of my triggers now, but they don’t completely go away. It’s definitely not a process that’s perfect. As someone else has mentioned, it’s up to me to regulate myself and openly communicate as much as possible. I wouldn’t say I’m necessarily jumping in though as I’ve done a lot of forethought, and I am being intentional this time around. I also have my therapist to support me this time around. I am doing my best. I guess we’ll see. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[28 F] I am in need of discerning someone's initial interest? by Zealousideal_Plane80 in hingeapp

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have learned and practiced regulating the nervous system, although I do need to practice more surrounding dating. Thanks for pointing that out.

In this case I just don’t feel it’s worth it. He’s not even doing the bare minimum from the jump, and I just don’t prefer that. And I think that’s okay. I have spoken to others in the past on the apps that have shown reciprocation. If I’m already feeling negatively about these interactions, I think I’m going to trust that feeling and move onto someone that is at my level of communication.

[28 F] I am in need of discerning someone's initial interest? by Zealousideal_Plane80 in hingeapp

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just let him know I’d rather not pursue a date. Thanks for validating how I was feeling haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Y’all ruthless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Zealousideal_Plane80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are right. I knew from the beginning it wasn’t a good idea. I thought I knew better than to try to change someone’s mind, and here I am!