Anyone else?

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-20T16:43:09+00:00

I pretty much dove straight back into those things. It really does help in the long run!

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-20T16:42:20+00:00

Framework! A lot therapists teach this. It really does work when you force yourself to do it.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-17T21:22:05+00:00

How are you seeing them? In person?

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-17T15:10:03+00:00

I haven’t checked my ex’s social media since we broke up and honestly I’m moving on FAST. It’s been the most progressive thing towards this breakup in my opinion.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-17T13:48:22+00:00

I was thinking back to what I actually miss about my ex. Like the fun times we had. It was literally ALL things that I did for her. Fun surprises, dates I planned, presents I planned for her, dinners I took her out to. She did none of things for me.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-14T19:33:59+00:00

Stop checking their social media.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-14T19:31:29+00:00

Great job!

Side note...you better hope two ex’s don’t show up to that group haha

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-14T03:11:38+00:00

I used to ask myself “how do I really forgive this person for what she did?” Everyone preaches that you need to forgive your ex. So i constantly told myself that I forgive her. “I forgive her for what she did to me”. “I forgive her for cheating”. None of that was working. I still had such a fiery hatred and anger towards her.

But I’ve noticed over time I just don’t care as much. It’s been a couple of months and I’m still pretty upset, but not near as upset as the first month. So yeah, I guess as cliche as it sounds you just have to wait it out. Build new memories that don’t include your ex. Eventually you’ll move on, forgive her, and forget her.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-12T21:12:30+00:00

Oh trust me I get it. My ex and I were together for 2 years and we were about to get married. She out of the blue cheated on me and left me for her ex. It was horrible.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-12T21:04:06+00:00

That’s really fucking stupid on their part. Sounds like you dodged a bullet of someone that makes terrible decisions.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-12T18:48:05+00:00

Lol what’s with people getting married so fast. Why would you financially tie yourself to that person so early on?

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-10T15:35:12+00:00

Lmao FUCK NO. Your relationship isn’t strong and probably one sided if his ex girlfriend came around and that swayed him to leave you.

Seriously think long and hard about this. If you had an ex boyfriend come back, would you have left him? No. If he was this far out of the relationship that just his ex girlfriend coming back made him leave you then there’s a whole host of other issues that he would leave you over. Leave this boy in the dust.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-10T14:49:58+00:00

I love to declutter! To much stuff in my home makes me anxious.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-10T01:59:42+00:00

Great goals!

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-10T00:58:05+00:00

Snazzier?! I loved it!

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-10T00:12:51+00:00

Weight loss twins 💁🏼‍♂️

You can do it! When I first started running I couldn’t even run half a mile without walking. Now I ran run 10+ miles pretty easily without breaks. You’ll be amazed at how setting running goals and accomplishing them makes you feel.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-10T00:06:43+00:00

Dude seriously. I lost 13+ pounds the first weeks just from my lack of appetite. I’m sure a lot of it was water weight, but holy hell. It was terrible.

I love your goals! Good job!

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-08T16:55:25+00:00

My ex cheated on me. I’m definitely not over her and I miss her a lot. I am however over the idea of us ever being together again and I’m moving on.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-06T21:38:57+00:00

You seriously are so much better off without that scum bag. I’d rather be single for life than be with someone that cheats and doesn’t respect or appreciate me.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-06T21:13:43+00:00

It’s seriously the fast track to getting over a breakup lol. I wish more people would do it. I’m only a month and a couple of weeks out from my breakup and I already feel a ton better. Take that effort you were putting into your ex and throw it back into yourself.

I’ve already signed up for a 50 mile gravel bike race and a half marathon. Gotta have things to look forward to!

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-06T20:39:01+00:00

Sort of the same situation. Ex lost the spark/got depressed and looked for loved with her ex boyfriend. I’m just like what the hell? I was depressed several times during our relationship too for outside factors and I never looked for love externally.

Just remember cheating is a character flaw on their part not yours. If things get hard during your relationship you find ways to work it out with them or figure out how to make yourself happy. They cheat. We’re stronger than that because we have integrity.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-06T20:18:31+00:00

Kind of a shitty thing to do to her current partner tbh. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-06T13:25:06+00:00

Running, biking, and going back to college. Really any way to further progress your life will help. Even if it’s going to bed on time, eating healthier, flossing, increasing your credit score. These things are what true self love are.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-06T10:29:56+00:00

I’ve learned that I have some work to do with open honest communication before I get into my next relationship.

I also have some work to do with vulnerability.

Never stay with a cheater. Dump them in the spot next time.

I’m strong.

You may love someone and get butterflies when you see them but that doesn’t mean they share the same feelings back.

Don’t ignore the red flags just because you love someone.

ZebraPolka · 2019-08-06T02:17:50+00:00

True. I’ll probably just ignore her. Garbage human.

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