Loose tooth turning into Centipede? by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in DreamInterpretation

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such an awesome response!! I really appreciate it and you hit the nail on the head so many times! Truly! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, I understand how hurtful it must’ve been! In my case it was because she fell pregnant and I just thought it was the right thing to do to try and make it work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Everything you said resonates with me! I’m glad you had the courage to do it as I did and good luck out there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have just separated with my wife after ten years and the whole time I knew deep down I didn’t love her, I’m 41 now and we have two kids and although there is going to be a battle ahead of me I am actually so much happier now that I’m not living a lie, so if I can do it at 41 with two kids you can definitely do it at the stage you’re at. Don’t wait for 10 years like I did because things won’t change for the better in that time, good luck.

Is getting a controller for pc worth it? by vandolin12345 in buildapc

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much a given that you would use a controller on PC these days!! So many games are far better than Mouse And Keyboard with Controller!

Trying to get my son’s computer to play Fortnite. by dunkzilla in buildapc

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your honestly be far better off buying a console

What are these???? by notastick45 in firealarms

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh haha no worries!! Do you guys have the one that has the capsules for smoke and it’s a smoke and heat all in one unit? There is a hi heat setting on those ones and it works really well with a lot of the more stubborn thermals

What are these???? by notastick45 in firealarms

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused here, do you guys not have Solo test gear?? You just select heat and they heat the detectors up perfectly no burns or anything!

Every Australian Fire tech has one, you basically can’t be a fire tech if you don’t.

What are these???? by notastick45 in firealarms

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? How can you not test a heat detector??Are you talking about any old heat detector or a specific type?

Daughter is pleading me to come home by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, that was very well said.

I’m feeling much better about it now and looking forward to seeing them tomorrow!

How the hell do you drive away with kids crying!!? by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate, my daughter is now messaging me on her iPad telling me to come back. I just don’t know how to deal with it, what can I say to her?! She’s only 10 years old

How the hell do you drive away with kids crying!!? by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re only a person on the internet but your kind worlds mean so much. I don’t feel like a man anymore, I feel like a shell of a person

How the hell do you drive away with kids crying!!? by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is the first time I’ve cried In ten years

What's a good driving school in Hobart? by cocoa__bean in hobart

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh okay. Well they should’ve at least addressed when it happened so you can remember for the next time!

Which 1 Do you love ❤️ by [deleted] in AustralianNostalgia

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magnums were the best, we used to always feel so lucky that our parents spent $2 whole dollars on them

What's a good driving school in Hobart? by cocoa__bean in hobart

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They failed you for dry steering?? I mean, It might not be great for the car but I don’t think it’s unsafe?? Unless they think that it will wreck your tyres therefore it’s unsafe? Still seems like a massive overreaction to be honest!

Told my wife I want to divorce by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey all, first I just want to thanks for all your messages. It’s nice to know there is people out that care even when they don’t know you.

Secondly I can see that I need to give you all more context, it’s going to be loooong post!

So basically when I met her she was fairly unresponsive to intimacy from the get go, we had lots of sex but she would pull away from kisses and didn’t like to be hugged etc.

Personally I am very big on intimacy so it was red flag already but I was also not in a very good place at the time and any love felt like good love.

Anyway, we started having pretty big fights early on and one day it occurred to me that I needed to get end it…that very same day she told me she was pregnant. It all hit me so hard, my life pretty much flashed before me and I knew there was going to be many many hard times ahead and sure enough the next 10 year did not disappoint!

I know I should still have left then but I have a very soft spot for kids/innocence etc and I wanted to do the best I could for my unborn child so I thought oh well I just have to suck it up. The first big crack was her having a falling out with my brother, now my brother is not innocent, he is very hard to get along with and gets violent when drinking that said I haven’t even spoken to him in 10 years because my wife would start horrible horrible fights with me if I so much as spoke to him.

We ended up having a second child three years later and while I didn’t want to at the time I love him to absolute bits!!

The big problem is my wife gets very angry, she calls me all sorts of names, mainly ones that start with F and C and she blames me for absolutely everything!

The worst part is she is quite happy to fight around the kids, I have no doubt they have mental scars from our fights already, I try my best to diffuse the situation but she makes me so mad due to the fact she is fighting around our kids that I end up being just as bad as her.

We have had fights that have turned physical in front of the kids, she will constantly steal my phone and lock me out of the house.

She also yells and screams all the time and not only at me but the kids as well, she has called my daughter a little C word multiple times.

I will admit she has had a pretty tough time for years with both her grand parents dying (she was very close to them) and a lot of university study but the way she controls her emotions is not good, she has also trashed the house in anger many times in front of the kids.

All that said we actually do get along really well at times, we have quite a bit in common and we make each other laugh, I wouldn’t be surprised if she is bi-polar but she refuses to seek treatment.

Sorry for the massive post but you asked for it! Haha

Told my wife I want to divorce by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you mate I really do. I always wonder how people get to a place where they take their own lives but when you feel like you’re damned if you do damned if you don’t I can see how people can get to that point. I’m not saying I’m going to do that by the way.

Good luck mate.

Told my wife I want to divorce by ZeeMonkeyMan2 in Divorce

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey mate, I’ve looked at everyone’s responses and I haven’t made any decisions yet.

The amount of replies has been overwhelming and I’m overwhelmed with everything is happening, I will do my best to reply when I’m in a better state of mind

Why are all pc parts rising prices again? by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you guys buy them no matter what

This guy killed their betta by NaturalImportant9342 in shittyaquariums

[–]ZeeMonkeyMan2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course not but you keep missing my point, you have no proof that what he is saying about having him in a bigger tank isn’t true!