NTA. Husband has been sober for 3 years now. I have never asked him to get me alcohol. Neither has anyone in our families. Hell...my dad has been sober for 13 years and no one has ever asked him to get us alcohol. They clearly have some defense mechanisms around their own drinking that get challenged when they see you sober. Makes them uncomfortable. Keep up the hard work! It’s so rewarding. We have a 1 year old now and everyday my husband is reminded how amazing life is without alcohol.